In a family, whether the wife is good or not, virtuous or not, depends to a certain extent on the favor of the husband. In the same way, whether a husband is good or not, and he does not care about his family, depends to a certain extent on the praise of his wife.
A man, as an important member of a family, is also the head of the household register. In layman's terms, he is the head of the family in his small family. Then the man, as the head of the family, naturally has to take on the burden of the family and be responsible for his own family.
Specifically, it is to take responsibility for providing for the family.
In modern families, the responsibility of providing for the family is not very stressful. Because in most modern families, both husband and wife are working. As long as there is a job, there will be an extra income. In some families, women's incomes have surpassed or even far exceeded men's, and the burden of supporting the family has long been borne by men alone, and has progressed to be shared by men and women, or mainly borne by women.
Therefore, although the man's position as the head of the family has not changed in the household register, in fact it has been shaken or transposed. In a family, either democratic consultation or the woman has the final say. If you don't accept it, you can't accept it, and if you don't accept it, you will earn real money every month and go home for women to see.
From another point of view, men, as manly husbands, should naturally love their wives unconditionally. For nothing else, a woman marries a chicken and a dog, and a dog marries a dog into your house. Laundry and cooking for you on weekdays, pregnancy and childbirth for you in October, inheritance of your ancestry, filial piety to your parents. On this basis alone, a man, as a husband, should love, love, and care for his wife.
The more you pamper your woman, the more the woman feels that it is worth it to pay for you, for your children, and for your family. If a man puts down the so-called face, takes the initiative to take on certain housework, and allows his woman to have enough rest time and enough energy to maintain her beauty, then whether it is in the eyes of her or your friends and colleagues, or in front of your relatives, she is an envied woman and a good woman.
In the same way, as the most important member of the family, the wife is bound to perform better if she has all the good things in her heart and mouth and often praises her man. This kind of praise will eventually form a virtuous circle that motivates men to continue to work hard and carry it forward.
Men, in fact, love face, especially in front of women. Someone once said that if a woman gives enough face to her man outside, then the man will thank you a hundred times in his heart. Because a man's face is self-esteem. A man with self-esteem must be a man with confidence. And a confident man, whether at work or in life, can hold his head high and be confident, and gradually become a better and better person.
So, who is the greatest contributor to family harmony? Love.
The power of love is undoubtedly huge, it can not only shock the world, but also cry ghosts and gods, and can move the world. In a family, since the husband and wife love each other, then neither of them should be stingy with their love, neither of them should be stingy with their praises, and neither of them should retain their sincerity and sincerity. It is natural for a husband to love his wife, and it is also natural for a wife to praise her husband. Even if it is inevitable that you will talk about trivial things in life, you should never speak ill of each other, let alone hurt each other, or belittle each other. Because, love each other, depend on each other, support each other, and grow old together.
It's still the same old saying: love, please love deeply; If you don't love, please don't hurt each other.
Follow me, love to run on and don't get lost.