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Yang Lan once said: "The best way to love yourself is to live more beautiful than your face." ”
In life, to live beautifully, you don't have to have a magnificent life experience, but you must have your own poems and distances, and your own fine water.
A woman who lives beautifully, every twinkle and smile carries peace and calm, and gestures are accompanied by confidence and optimism.
No matter what situation they find themselves in, they always exude an air of "elegance".
How to obtain this "elegant" temperament may be found in the story of Mr. Yang Jiang. Mr. Yang Jiang's life is the most talked about in the world.
In addition to the love of husband and wife, the warmth of the family, and her "elegant" lifestyle.
Cook for love
We often say: "Man is iron, rice is steel, and if you don't eat a meal, you will be hungry." ”
Yang Jiang and his wife, who had just arrived in the UK to study, encountered the double dilemma of not being able to eat enough and not enough to eat. Later, in order to let Qian Zhongshu eat well, Jiang Yang rented another apartment with a kitchen.
A pearl in the palm of her hand who has never been a kitchen, because of the love in her heart, began a long kitchen life, and gradually there is no traditional Chinese food that she can't cook, the best is stewed meat.
Mr. Qian Zhongshu was lucky to marry such a virtuous and talented wife;
Marrying Qian Zhongshu is also the joy of Yang Jiang's life.
The so-called "those who love love to return, and those who are blessed come to come".
Mr. Yang Jiang took care of Qian Zhongshu's diet and daily life wholeheartedly, and for the first time in the distant United Kingdom, he ate the exquisite breakfast he sent to his bedside.
Breakfast is served with:
Bread, jam, butter, honey....
What's more thoughtful and meticulous is that Qian Zhongshu was very careful throughout the whole process of making breakfast, for fear of waking up his beloved wife.
It wasn't until everything was ready that he gently woke up Yang Jiang, who was still sleeping, put the small table on the bed, and directly let his wife enjoy breakfast on the bed.
Since then, Qian Zhongshu has made such a considerate breakfast for Mr. Yang Jiang for a lifetime. Cooking is sometimes a small thing, but sticking to it for a lifetime has become the happiest thing.
Every meal Yang Jiang cooks for Qian Zhongshu is an expression of love and an embodiment of elegance.
Because she is filled with love at every meal.
Boiled tea: Take tea as a companion
Most Chinese literati love tea because it is clear and sweet and has a long aftertaste.
Gu Long once said: "As long as the tea is hot, it will not be too hard to drink." ”
Drink a bowl of hot tea to warm your body and mind and feel more comfortable mentally.
When Mr. Yang Jiang was studying in Oxford, he also learned to make tea: first warm the teapot, add water and put a teaspoon of tea leaves to boil, and then each person has a spoonful of tea leaves.
Add boiling water again and again, and the strength of the tea can still be maintained.
Qian Zhongshu also started from this time, drinking a large cup of milk black tea every morning, and this habit continued until death.
Back in China, there is nowhere to buy "Lipden" black tea in India.
Mr. Yang Jiang chose Yunnan black tea for its fragrance, Hu black tea for its bitterness, and Qi black tea for its color, blending these three high-quality teas together, perfectly replacing "Lipden". Mr. Yang Jiang drank a cup of happy tea for his lover, so bothered, it shows their deep love, and can also imagine the joy in Mr. Yang Jiang's heart.
Cooking and boiling tea not only did not kill Mr. Yang Jiang's poetic feelings, but added an elegance to her, a quiet and indifferent elegance.
Read: Enriching Lives
Regarding reading, Yang Lan once said a particularly touching sentence:
We insist that it is, even if we end up in trouble, to wash away the lead.
Same work, but different moods;
The same family, but with different moods;
The same offspring, but with different qualities. ”
When studying in Oxford, students have a lot of holidays, others travel during the holidays, and Qian Zhongshu and Mr. Yang Jiang spend all their time studying.
The collection of books in the University of Oxford Library is limited to the 18th century and before. If you want to read a new book, you have to borrow it from the city library.
The city library has a richer collection of books, and the borrowing time is long, and it can be returned within two weeks.
But Yang Jiang and Qian Zhongshu, who are book-loving, often have to go to the city library in less than two weeks.
They were eager to read and borrowed a bunch of books, including philosophy, psychology, literary history, and more.
For those who love to read, having books to read, being able to read, and being able to read anytime and anywhere is heaven on earth.
Throughout the ages, behind the growth of every elegant woman, there are countless classic books as a ladder for their growth.
Mr. Yang Jiang's temperament is also inseparable from her habit of accompanying books all year round.
Mr. Yang Jiang overcame many difficulties to build a spiritual home for his favorite Qian Zhongshu in the distant United Kingdom.
In this home, they invite students to drink tea, cook Chinese food, and read ancient and modern Chinese and foreign books.
They take pleasure in reading competitions, they are blessed with eating the dishes of their hometowns that they have studied, and they carry a calm elegance throughout each other's lives.
The famous writer Xia Yan once said:
You hold Qian Zhongshu, I hold Yang Jiang. ”
Mr. Qian Zhongshu said
"The virtuous wife and the talented woman combine the three incompatible: wife, lover, and friend".