My remarried wife picked up 3 grandchildren for the summer vacation, I slammed the door and left, my wife, what are you crazy about
With the arrival of the scorching summer, the children have ushered in the summer vacation. Some of the children in the family chose to self-school, while others decided to go to their grandparents' house because they didn't like to be alone. The arrival of children makes both parents and themselves happy, but for the elderly, although they can enjoy the warmth and fun of family, it also means taking on more responsibilities and pressures.
Uncle Wen is 72 years old this year, and his partner Aunt Zhao is 63 years old, and the two have re-entered married life for more than half a year. Although their "love in old age" is not favored by most people, they themselves feel very happy. However, even in a happy life, there will be some small bumps occasionally. Recently, several of Aunt Zhao's grandchildren came to her house for summer vacation, which led to frequent quarrels between Uncle Wen and Aunt Zhao over the children's affairs, and even on the verge of divorce for a while.
The relationship between me and Aunt Zhao, even the title of "halfway couple" seems a bit far-fetched, and our combination in old age is more like a "terminal couple". While this statement may sound scathing, that's the reality. I remember about a year ago, my wife passed away and I was left alone to face a lonely life. My son was too busy with work to take care of me, and my daughter was living abroad, which made me feel even more lonely.
In desperation, I began to look for things that would bring me joy. At first, I considered hiring a nanny, but within six months I changed three or four nannies, and I couldn't find a suitable one. So, I decided to find another partner to spend my old age with. When I first presented the idea to my children, they were vehemently opposed. In order to ease their emotions, I promised to leave the property and savings to them, which gradually made them accept my decision.
After that, under the introduction of a friend, I met my current partner, Xiao Zhao. I was 72 years old at the time, and Xiao Zhao was 10 years younger, 63 years old. The first time I saw her, I was really a little dumbfounded, Xiao Zhao was dressed in a cheongsam, her posture was elegant, her hair was well-groomed, her makeup was exquisite, and she exuded a unique charm, which couldn't help but make people think that her temperament was outstanding.
On my terms, it is really rare to be accompanied by someone like Xiao Zhao. My own financial situation is not bad, my family has three or four properties, most of which are rented out, leaving only a spacious flat for retirement. I own two cars that I can use as much as I want. As for my pension, although the exact amount is not to be disclosed, it is enough to ensure a worry-free life for a family of four, and the savings are abundant, even if I don't work, it is more than enough for daily entertainment expenses.
It may sound like an exaggeration, but it's true. It is precisely because of my conditions that the introducer will introduce an elegant woman like Xiao Zhao to me, and I am confident enough to contact Xiao Zhao. Through the help of the introducer, we gradually started to communicate, and learned that Xiao Zhao used to be a dance teacher, her husband passed away not long ago, and the two daughters have started a family. She is also looking for the next home in her life, and she is not demanding for her other half, just be suitable.
Since she was honest about her situation, I didn't hide it. Although I am quite wealthy, I frankly told Xiao Zhao that my property will be left to my children in the future. However, while I was alive, I was in charge of the use of my property. Xiao Zhao was very smart and immediately understood what I meant.
Gradually, we began to try to run into each other. She took me for a walk in the park, and I took her around the shopping malls to pick out gold bracelets and luxury watches for her. Although these are nothing to me, for Xiao Zhao, these are her sources of joy, and she always excitedly hugs my neck and calls me "husband", which makes me feel as if I have returned to the early days of my relationship.
As time passed, our emotions grew deeper and deeper, and we finally chose a beautiful day for the wedding. On the first day of marriage, Xiao Zhao moved into my spacious apartment with her suitcase. She stepped barefoot on the floor and exclaimed in surprise, "This house is too big for twenty people!" ”
Looking at her little knowledge, I couldn't help but find it funny and cute, and I made up my mind to take good care of her. After all, at my age, money is no longer important, health and happiness are important. I can stay healthy myself, and happiness depends on Xiao Zhao's giving.
After getting married, Xiao Zhao and I enjoyed a very happy time. We drink tea together during the day, go out in the afternoon or sleep at home, sometimes go square dancing in the evening, and sometimes spend leisurely at home. Our lives are easy, and there are always endless topics to talk about and things to do.
As time went by, I got to know Xiao Zhao more and more. She is a dynamic and friendship-minded person, with many friends. Sometimes she would take me out to play. Luckily, I didn't look old and didn't embarrass her. I really appreciate her personality and think we complement each other very well.
I've always been a loner, and this personality hasn't changed since I was young or old. If I weren't so lonely, I wouldn't have spared no expense to find a partner. My daily life is simple, I spend most of my time at home, I like to sit quietly by the window, watch the sunrise and sunset, and sometimes take my dog for a walk in the park. Xiao Zhao's arrival was like a warm ray of sunshine, illuminating my originally bleak life.
Human personalities are always contradictory, with good aspects and not-so-good aspects. Xiao Zhao has a cheerful personality, but sometimes he is also overly energetic, and often brings friends to my house to play, and stays for several days. My home is spacious enough for them to have fun, and sometimes I can't bear to disturb them, even if I feel a little noisy, I just put up with it in silence.
After this happened a few times, I started to feel a little uncomfortable, but after all, Xiao Zhao brought a lot of fun to my life, and I didn't want to blame her for these little things. Luckily, Zhao was very smart, and she quickly sensed my discomfort and reduced the number of times she brought my friends home, and such small conflicts were nipped in the bud.
Even though Xiao Zhao is much younger than me, and as a woman, she is better at taking care of people, in fact, I do most of the housework in the house. On the one hand, because the electrical equipment at home is more complicated, such as dishwashers, sweeping robots, and washer-dryers, Xiao Zhao is not very good at using them, so it is more appropriate for me to operate them. On the other hand, I don't want to let the pretty Xiao Zhao work, after all, I can still move, and I'm not lazy, and doing some housework is also within my bounds.
Relatives and friends around me always jokingly said: "Wenju, since marrying Xiao Zhao, you have simply changed and become more industrious." I could only shake my head and smile at these words, thinking to myself, it is not easy for Xiao Zhao Ken to spend the rest of his life with me, how can I let her work too much.
Whenever a guest comes to visit, the two of us share the chores. Sometimes my son, daughter-in-law and grandson come to the house, and Xiao Zhao always cares more and tries to improve my status in the family. My son would occasionally compliment me in private: "Dad, you are so capable, Aunt Zhao is willing to help you so much." I just smiled shyly.
And when Xiao Zhao's relatives and friends visited, I played the role of "intimate housekeeper", serving Xiao Zhao and her friends, busy and performing. When the guests saw it, they always praised it: "Yo, see how happy Xiao Zhao is, I found a partner who is both powerful and good to her." At this time, Xiao Zhao's face will always be filled with a blush of happiness.
We have played this kind of "family game" many times, and we have almost formed a tacit understanding: whenever the other party's family visits, we must give in to each other and strive to win glory for each other. Personally, I don't think it matters, I'm old and don't pay much attention to these things, but Xiao Zhao seems to enjoy it very much, and she always chatters non-stop when the guests leave.
Time flies, in a blink of an eye, our married life has been more than half a year, it is the height of summer, Xiao Zhao's grandchildren are on summer vacation, and they all plan to come to our house to spend this time. When I heard that the children were coming, I was a little nervous and worried that they might be making a lot of noise. However, since they are Xiao Zhao's grandsons, they will also become my grandsons after marriage, and I don't want to disappoint Xiao Zhao, so I greeted them warmly.
On the same day, Xiao Zhao's two sons and daughter-in-law came, along with their three children. I personally took them to the best restaurant in town, and then I called a taxi to take Xiao Zhao's son and his family back. As for the three little ones, I took them all home, and in the next few days, our family will spend time with Xiao Zhao's three grandchildren.
At first, I was quite happy, thinking that Xiao Zhao's family members were very sensible, and the children were also smart and cute. But as soon as they got home, they showed their true side. The three children are of different ages, appearances, and heights, but they are all the same mischievous. The eldest child was about twelve or thirteen years old, and the youngest was only five or six years old. As soon as the big one arrives home, he locks himself in his room and plays games, and the sound is so loud that it reverberates almost throughout the house. The other two smaller children were chasing and playing around the house with our toys, from the second bedroom to the living room, and then from the living room to the kitchen.
At first, I pretended to be pampered, but when the situation became unbearable, I hurriedly finished washing up and went straight to the bedroom to sleep. Although Xiao Zhao and I had already returned to the room, the three children still did not intend to let us go, and the noise and laughter all night made me toss and turn, and it was difficult for me to sleep.
As a person who cares a lot about my physical health, I naturally attach great importance to the quality of my sleep. As a result, the noise of the children caused me to suffer from insomnia and was extremely irritable. I complained to Xiao Zhao: "Look at your grandsons, they are all quite capable of tossing." Xiao Zhao didn't respond, just changed his clothes and went out to try to make the children quiet down and sleep, but the children seemed to be deaf to Xiao Zhao's persuasion and still made noise.
I barely slept well that night, and finally fell asleep a little, only to be woken up by a sudden shouting at about three o'clock in the morning. After listening carefully, I realized that it was the eldest grandson of the Xiao Zhao family who was playing games. I cursed in my heart: "It's really annoying", I covered my head with a quilt, but I couldn't sleep.
When dawn came, Xiao Zhao got up and went to the living room to do exercise, I felt top-heavy and couldn't lift my spirits. At that time, the house was finally quiet, but I was no longer in the mood to fall asleep again, so I had to get up and get dressed and decide to go out and buy breakfast.
Although I bought breakfast, only me and Xiao Zhao were eating, and her three grandchildren were still asleep. At that time, I was a little unhappy in my heart, but considering Xiao Zhao's face, I didn't show it. In the morning, Xiao Zhao was full of interest and planned to go out to buy vegetables and prepare dumplings.
I didn't think much of it, so I turned on the TV on the couch and started watching the show. Xiao Zhao was busy making dumplings in the kitchen and fried several dishes. After a long period of work, the meal was finally ready. Xiao Zhao then went to call a few children for dinner. The two little ones came obediently, but the eldest grandson just refused to move, and kept shouting for fried chicken.
In the end, I had to pay for fried chicken to go home, and this is how to arrange the meal. Seeing the older children like this, the two younger ones also began to make various requests, sometimes wanting drinks and snacks, and sometimes wanting new toys. Their behavior made Xiao Zhao look very embarrassed, and in order not to make Xiao Zhao uncomfortable, I met the children's requirements one by one. But at night, the children still don't want to sleep, it's noisy. I barely slept well that night, and I had to deal with the endless needs of the children during the day, and I naturally paid for it.
This situation lasted for several days, and I couldn't bear it anymore, so I asked Xiao Zhao directly: "When will your three grandchildren come home?" Xiao Zhao didn't even raise his head, and replied lightly: "I will live for about a month, and then go back when school starts." As soon as I heard her say this, I immediately became angry and urged Xiao Zhao to let her son pick up the children home. But Xiao Zhao was not happy anymore and asked me why I couldn't accept her own grandson. We had a big fight because of this.
That fight was our first. After the quarrel, for the sake of family harmony, I took the initiative to apologize. But Xiao Zhao treated me indifferently. After this quarrel, Xiao Zhao's discipline of his grandchildren was even more lax, and the children became more noisy. I was so angry that I even thought about divorce.
I also began to deliberately go against Xiao Zhao and ignore the children's unreasonable demands. No matter how much they shout, I don't pay attention. If it gets too loud, I'll slam the door and demonstrate. After all, this is my home, and the door is mine, so I can drop it as much as I want.
For the next week, whenever I was slightly dissatisfied, I would slam the door shut, startling Xiao Zhao and the children. It worked at first, but then they turned a blind eye to my slamming door, and Xiao Zhao even began to scorn me.
One night, I was playing with my phone in my bedroom and heard the kids laughing outside. I was so angry that I rushed out and yelled, "Stop arguing! Then slammed the door shut. Xiao Zhao was also angry, opened the door and asked me: "What are you crazy about?" "We got into an argument on the spot. That night, Xiao Zhao left with his three grandsons.
After Xiao Zhao left, I felt lonely like never before. I wanted to get her back, but I was worried about her three grandchildren. I felt very uncomfortable, why can't we just live in peace, what do we have to call the child for, I am very angry, very sad, and even more hesitant, am I doing the right thing?