Living like yourself is the best gift to life.
Follow in the footsteps of others, no matter how good you are, you are just following others.
And those who know how to appreciate themselves can find their own position and exude a unique and dazzling light.
The life you envy may not be suitable for you
As the saying goes, the honey of A is arsenic of B.
We envy others all day long, but we forget a simple truth: what is suitable for other people's lives may not be suitable for ourselves.
In this world, everyone has a life track laid out for themselves. If you have to follow someone else's path, the result is tantamount to letting the bird and the fish be in a different position.
I've heard such a saying: one person has one way to live.
No matter how delicate other people's shoes are, they may not be suitable for you to wear on your feet; No matter how lively other people's lives are, once you experience it yourself, you may only feel noisy.
Only a life that suits you can allow you to stretch your body and mind and live freely.
What you think is happiness may not be what you see
A writer once said, "We are all farsighted, always living in the look up to others." ”
Everyone's life is bitter, and everyone's pot has ashes. No matter who comes to this world, there will be disappointment.
If so, why should you ask yourself to live the life of others?
Someone once said that the stupidest mistake human beings make is to envy others while turning a blind eye to their own possessions.
In the time that cannot be repeated, it is better to go your own way, see your own scenery, and live your own life openly.
When you put down the comparison, you will find that the scenery along the way is thousands of times more beautiful than what you have seen before.
You don't need to compare yourself with others, you are the scenery
People with abundant hearts will not get lost in other people's worlds. Because of themselves, it is already the most beautiful scenery.
The most sober consciousness of a person is to know his place. Do not look up to others, nor look down on yourself. From beginning to end, he walked at his own pace without hurrying.
Each one is a unique landscape. Someone else can decorate your window, and one day, you will decorate someone else's dream.
Therefore, instead of looking up to the excellence of others, it is better to care about others. It's better to leave distracting thoughts behind and enjoy your own beautiful scenery.
I've heard the saying that you don't have to be a rose. If you are willing, you can make jasmine, light chrysanthemum, nameless flowers, and thousands of them.
Living like yourself is the best gift to life.
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Edited by Liao Yunqing.
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