I am an ordinary adult with a family, but in the family, I often feel lonely and neglected.
My sister-in-law is a selfish person who always puts herself first and only cares about satisfying her own desires and ignoring the feelings of others.
She loves to eat, especially snacks and high-calorie foods.
Every day, she piles up a bunch of snacks and not only makes her own fat, but she does everything she can to make my kids fat too.
She always buys her kids things like chocolate, chips, and candy, and although I have repeatedly reminded her not to give her kids these junk foods, she always defends herself with various reasons.
My child loves her aunt so much that every time she brings out a snack, he can't wait to grab it and eat it.
However, as time went on, I gradually noticed that the child's face turned yellow, his muscles became weaker, and he looked like he was malnourished.
Every time I see the child's listless eyes, I feel like a knife.
I know that this is all the result of my aunt's selfish behavior.
My aunt and I had many arguments, and each time the argument was due to the child's diet.
I advised her to buy less snacks for her child and more healthy food, but she always quibbled that snacks were not harmful to her child, but were beneficial to his development.
I really can't understand how an aunt can be so selfish, knowing that the health and growth of her children are crucial, but insist on going her own way.
Whenever I was working outside, she would bring my kids home and enjoy her time to the fullest.
She doesn't care if the child hasn't eaten dinner yet, she always goes to eat first, and then thinks about the child's diet.
Once, when I came back, I found the child sitting on the sofa, crying with hunger, but my aunt looked at him innocently, and even said that the child did not want to eat.
Faced with such a situation, I have come to realize more and more that selfishness has seriously affected the growth of my family and children.
While it was painful for me, I knew it was the only option.
That night, I suddenly received a ** call, which was from my sister who was far away.
There was a hint of confusion in my sister's voice: "Why did your aunt suddenly want to borrow a lot of money from me?" She said that you want to start a business, and now you are short of money and need financial support. ”
When I heard my sister's words, I felt a wave of anger.
My sister-in-law actually took advantage of my absence to embezzle my name to ask my sister for money, and made up such an excuse.
I grabbed the ** and asked my aunt why she did this.
The aunt sneered and said, "Can you have a chance?" You used to be a waste, and now if you want to start a business, you can't give me enough money, so I can only borrow my sister's money. ”
I replied angrily, "Auntie, do you know how selfish your behavior is?" You don't care about my feelings and do whatever it takes for your own benefit! The aunt said indifferently: "I am for your good, if you can succeed, I can also live a good life." ”
I was puzzled by my sister-in-law's indifference, how could she be so selfish, knowing that my entrepreneurial path was full of difficulties, but only looking out for her own interests.
I realized that it was the aunt who was behind her to be so selfish.
I asked my sister-in-law, "Why are you always so selfish?" Could it be that when you were a child, our family treated you badly? There was a hint of pain in her aunt's eyes, and then she was silent for a moment before finally speaking.
It turned out that the aunt was the eldest daughter in the family, and the elder sister was the darling of our family, and the relationship between the two of them had been strained.
In the family, the sister-in-law was suppressed and neglected by her sister, and she felt that she had given a lot, but she had not received what she deserved.
This unfair treatment made her selfish and only cared about her own interests and ignored the feelings of others.
After listening to my aunt's explanation, my heart was full of sympathy.
I understand my aunt's troubles, but I don't agree with her way of finding balance by hurting others.
I advised her to learn to empathize and help others in order to truly achieve her own happiness.
After listening to me, my aunt's eyes were a little confused, as if she was thinking about something.
Finally, she nodded silently, as if touched.
For the sake of my children's happiness, I decided to run away from home and leave this unhappy family with my children.
The moment I left home, I felt a heavy burden of responsibility and hope on my shoulders.
I understood that I had to fight for the happiness and health that my child deserved.
In the cottage, I made a nutritious dinner for the kids.
The child looked at the food on the table, his eyes full of gratitude and happiness.
I understand that the child needs not only an aunt full of snacks, but also a mother who cares and cares for him.
However, the happiness did not last long.
One day, I received a strange **.
* There was a cold laugh from the other end, followed by the voice of the aunt: "Do you think you can snatch my relatives with me?" You don't deserve it at all! You'll regret it! "I was frightened by my sister-in-law's threat, but I couldn't let her disrupt my happy life with my child.
I decided to be strong and protect my child from any harm.
Soon after, the child began to look forward to seeing his father.
I understood that I could not hide the child forever, that he had the right to know about his father's existence.
So, I decided to write a letter to my child and tell him the truth about his father.
After reading the letter, the child's eyes were red and he silently hugged me.
He stopped asking me questions about my father, because he knew that I was his only one.
Recalling the various quarrels and conflicts with my aunt, I felt exhausted and helpless inside.
But I understand that I must keep my promise to my child and give him a warm and happy home.
That night, I suddenly grabbed my aunt's hand and asked her why she was so selfish.
Hearing her answer, I was furious and couldn't understand why she couldn't understand my concern and anger all the time.
Don't you understand? Your selfishness has caused your child to be yellow-skinned and malnourished! Don't you care about his health and growth? I shook her hand vigorously, anger in my voice.
The aunt was stunned for a moment, and a trace of guilt flashed in her eyes.
The aunt's voice revealed helplessness and remorse.
She suddenly grabbed my hand, her eyes filled with sincere apologies and longing for forgiveness.
Auntie, you know how I love my child, he is the most important person to me. ”
I said calmly, "We should work together, for the sake of the child, we want to protect his health and well-being together."
From now on, please stop buying him snacks, but focus on his diet and health, and make the right choice with me. ”
Tears of gratitude and emotion flashed in my aunt's eyes, and she held my hand tightly and solemnly promised: "I will change, and I will prove with my actions that I am a responsible aunt." ”
From that day on, the aunt changed significantly.
Instead of buying snacks, she prepares healthy meals and fruits for her children to provide balanced nutrition.
She proved her determination and change with her actions, and my attitude towards her slowly eased.
As time passed, the child's face gradually returned to ruddy, and the little face was full of life.
My aunt herself has lost a lot of weight, and she told me that she has started to pay attention to her healthy diet and no longer indulges in snacks and high-calorie foods.
The family went through a crisis of affection, but in the end we understood and supported each other and rebuilt the bond of affection.
Even in this selfish world, we can still feel the warmth and strength of family affection.