Urging marriage is the most troublesome thing for many people who have reached the age of marriage and have not yet had a partner. Whether it is the "urging marriage" of your parents, or the "urging marriage" of relatives and friends, they will chase you like a "life talisman", as long as you don't get married for a day, the marriage urging will not stop for a day, and the people who are enthusiastic about introducing you to the object will not stop.
But "urging marriage" is actually not a good thing. For parents, getting their children married is a major life event, but because it is a major life event, it is not hasty or urgent.
When they can't stand being urged to marry, many people can't understand why parents are so keen on urging marriage?
There are a variety of reasons behind blindly urging marriage:
First of all, traditional ideas are one of the important factors that lead to blind urging to marry.
In many families, marriage is seen as a necessary experience, and parents often believe that the sooner their children get married, the better. This concept stems from traditional thinking and social customs, which leads parents to believe that marriage is the inevitable destiny of their children, while ignoring their children's personal wishes and well-being.
Secondly, the parents' desire to control is also one of the reasons for blindly urging marriage.
Many parents see their children as their private property and believe that they have the right to determine their children's future. As a result, they tend to urge their children to get married as soon as possible. This desire to control not only hurts the child's feelings, but also affects the child's independent development and growth.
In addition, face problems are also one of the reasons for blindly urging marriage. When the children reach the age of marriage, the elders always ask each other about comparisons when they get together. If the children around you are all married and have children, and your own children are still single, you will feel very beautiful when asked by others. Therefore, parents often urge their children to get married as soon as possible for the sake of their own face, without considering their children's feelings and happiness.
You may feel annoyed and stressed in the face of this blind and frequent urging to marry, but remember that your happiness cannot be swayed by the urging of others. Marriage is a major turning point in your life, which is related to your future happiness and destiny, so you must stick to your principles and bottom line, and never make decisions blindly due to external pressure. Imagine if you sloppily step into marriage because you can't bear it, the unhappy marriage will be like a bottomless black hole, swallowing your happiness and future. No one will pay for your unhappy marriage, and you will have to bear all the consequences yourself.
So, no matter how much others push you, if you haven't met that right person yet, don't make a decision lightly. Remember, marriage is not child's play, but a major event that will affect your happiness in life. Only by sticking to your own principles and bottom line can you move towards a truly happy marriage.