Dai Jun has many identities, especially the host. However, in fact, as early as the age of 25, he became popular as a singer in the north and south of the Yangtze River.
This "Ah Lian" caused a sensation at home and abroad, and CCTV rated this song as a "95 golden song", however, with the popularity of this song, Dai Jun encountered many troubles.
Every time he performs, he sings the song over and over again until he gets tired of it. And because he had no backer, he was often bullied, and despite his first popularity, Dai Jun tasted only bitterness and bitterness.
Dai Jun, who had just reached the peak of his career, had the idea of retreating, and even wrote a letter to his mother to express his idea of quitting the music industry. However, the mother did not immediately reply to him, but shared another news: she had met her own spring and a man was pursuing her.
Dai Jun was stunned for a moment, and for some reason, his mentality immediately changed, and he never mentioned the idea of quitting the circle in front of his mother.
Instead, he also released a **, but the sales slapped Dai Jun in the face.
After all kinds of entanglements and hesitations, Dai Jun finally made the decision to change careers. And before that, he was also involved in a lawsuit and had a legal dispute with Xiyangyang Records.
Everything has been taken care of, and Dai Jun is no longer the same person he used to be. However, in her songs, that "Ah Lian" seems to have been lurking in her heart all along.
In 2001, the host Dai Jun and Li Jing co-hosted the show "Super Interview", in which a singer stood in front of the camera and asked various questions to the guests, as if he was in another world.
The same was true for Li Jing at that time, she started her business after resigning from CCTV and faced great pressure and setbacks. During that time, she and Dai Jun supported each other and snuggled together, so the friendship between them was very special, beyond ordinary friends, but not to the level of lovers.
Many people mistakenly thought that the two were in love, and they sent blessings to urge them to get married, until Li Jing and Huang Xiaomao got married later, and everyone understood that they were just friends, which many people did not know.
However, Dai Jun has not been involved in emotional affairs for many years, and there have not even been any scandals.
In a show, Dai Jun mentioned his emotional experience. When he was young, he worked in Shenzhen, and at that time he met his first love, a long-haired girl, gentle and lovely.
This memory is the most tender in Dai Jun's life, and unfortunately, due to practical reasons, they later separated, but even so, the two still maintained contact for many years.
Until he met another boy, Dai Jun took the initiative to choose not to contact this girl anymore, so this regret has been haunting his heart and cannot be erased for a long time.
His mother saw that Dai Jun chose to avoid talking about his feelings, perhaps because he couldn't forget his first love, or because he hadn't met the right person yet. When he turned 40, his mother couldn't stand it anymore and began to urge him to get married every day.
Dai Jun seemed to respond positively, but in fact he was not interested. His mother had arranged blind dates many times, but Dai Jun either perfunctory or simply did not go, resulting in several blind dates ending in failure.
His mother, annoyed by Dai Jun's indifference, ordered him to marry before he was 45.
Dai Jun is 53 years old and still alone. His mother couldn't let go, she no longer expected too much from Dai Jun at this age, and only hoped that he could live a happy life. As for marriage, there may be better options, but it doesn't matter if you don't.
Dai Jun is still active in front of the screen, although he is dressed young and fashionable, the wrinkles on his face show the traces of time, and his hair has turned gray, showing the appearance of an old man.
When everyone mentioned Dai Jun, they were speculating about why he didn't get married. Dai Jun is reluctant to delve into this issue, because life needs to be experienced by himself after all. Whether it's happiness or loneliness, it's a part of his life, and he should accept it.
He sometimes appears on some ** shows, and the guests often ask him to sing "Ah Lian". When he sang this song of his youth lightly, there was a hint of sadness in his eyes, which made people wonder what he was thinking.
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