First of all, we need to make it clear that excellent children are not born, but are cultivated by parents through scientific education methods and appropriate routines. These routines do not refer to simply imitating other people's education methods, but to follow the laws of children's growth and education, and scientifically guide children's development.
For example, often say things like this to your child:
Wow, I think we should listen to you, as long as the child does not have any major mistakes or dangers, try to let the child make his own decisions, which can effectively cultivate the child's independence and autonomy
It's so powerful, I can't do it, you succeed through hard work. Last night, the child accidentally fell, and then cried a lot, everyone was saying hey, it's all the problem with the floor, and some said that it's okay My baby is the most well-behaved, and it's different if you fall. I picked her up and said to her, "Did you fall?" He said no. I just said in passing, you are really amazing, very brave, and you can protect yourself, I broke my hand when I was a child, and he stopped crying all of a sudden. He felt that he was better than adults, which protected her self-esteem and made him feel less hurt.
You did your homework in one sitting, it's amazing. Such children have good concentration, and they don't have to worry about learning.
Also, how should parents use routines to cultivate excellent children in daily life?
1. Set clear goals
Parents should set clear educational goals based on their children's actual situation and their own expectations. These goals should be specific, measurable, and challenging in order to motivate and motivate children. At the same time, parents should also work with their children to develop a plan to achieve these goals and ensure that the plan is feasible and adjustable.
2. Establish good communication
Parents should establish a good communication mechanism with their children to understand their children's thoughts and needs. Through communication with children, parents can find out their children's strengths and weaknesses in time, and then give targeted guidance and help. At the same time, good communication can also enhance the emotional connection between family members and create a warm family atmosphere for the child's growth.
3. Guide children to establish correct values
Parents should guide their children to establish correct values, such as integrity, diligence, responsibility, cooperation, etc. These values not only help children become morally cultivated people, but also build a strong foundation for their future studies and work. Parents can subtly influence their children through their role models, storytelling, situational simulation, etc.
4. Cultivate children's autonomy
Parents should focus on cultivating their children's autonomy and allowing them to learn to think independently, make decisions and manage themselves. This will not only improve your child's learning efficiency and quality of life, but also prepare your child for independent life and work in the future. Parents can stimulate their children's sense of autonomy and motivation through appropriate encouragement and rewards.
5. Pay attention to your child's mental health
Parents should pay attention to their children's mental health and find and solve their children's psychological problems in a timely manner. This includes negative emotions and psychological disorders such as anxiety, depression, low self-esteem, etc. Parents can understand their child's psychological condition by communicating with their child and observing their child's behavior changes, and seek help from professional psychological counselors in time. At the same time, parents should also pay attention to their children's interests and personality characteristics, respect their children's choices and development, and provide children with a variety of growth environments and opportunities.
To sum up, excellent children are cultivated by parents through scientific education methods and appropriate routines. In order to achieve this goal, parents need to set clear goals, establish good communication, guide their children to establish correct values, cultivate their children's autonomy, and pay attention to their children's mental health. At the same time, parents should also continue to learn and explore new educational concepts and methods, and constantly improve their own educational routines to better cultivate their children's comprehensive quality and future competitiveness.