Introduction.
Sophocles's phrase "A wise general speaks only of strengths and not weaknesses" not only reveals the core wisdom of war strategy, but also deeply reflects the subtle art of interpersonal communication. On the big stage of society, the relationship between people is like a complex and changeable drama, sometimes harmonious and resonant, sometimes contradictory and conflicting. Learning how to protect oneself in these complicated interpersonal relationships and not easily exposing one's weaknesses has become the wisdom that everyone must master.
Keep a moderate distance
The moon is cloudy and sunny, and people are gathered and scattered. This poem profoundly depicts the changes in human relationships in life. Just as the moon waxes and wanes, the relationship between people is constantly changing. Sometimes, we are so close to someone that it seems like our hearts are connected to each other. Sometimes, however, we are alienated from certain people, as if there is an insurmountable chasm in between. Therefore, maintaining a moderate distance has become an important strategy in interpersonal communication.
A moderate distance will not only allow you to have enough space for each other and avoid the friction and collision that can come from getting too close, but it will also allow the relationship to maintain a delicate balance. This balance is neither too distant, nor too intimate, allowing the relationship to shine in a moderate distance. Whether it's family, friendship or love, we need to learn to maintain this balance so that the relationship can last for a long time at a moderate distance.
Don't trust other people's words
In interpersonal interactions, we often meet all kinds of people, who may be enthusiastic on the surface, or eloquent, but who may hide hidden secrets inside. Therefore, not believing the words of others has become an important means of protecting yourself.
The phrase "Knowing the Person, Knowing the Face, Not the Heart" reminds us that when interacting with people, we must learn to distinguish the true from the false, and not be confused by superficial phenomena. Some people may be enthusiastic about you on the surface, but they may have a cold knife hidden behind them. They may betray you for a small profit when you are defenseless and put you in trouble. Therefore, we need to be vigilant, not to easily believe the sweet words of others, and not to expose our weaknesses to others.
Don't reveal your hole cards easily
In interpersonal interactions, everyone has their own hole cards and secrets, and these are the sources of our unique charm in life. Therefore, not revealing your hole cards easily has become an important strategy to protect yourself.
You can't have the heart to hurt others, and you can't have the heart to defend people. This sentence reminds us that in society, everyone needs to have a certain degree of precaution. Don't reveal your hole cards to others easily, otherwise you may inadvertently lose your advantage and initiative. Retaining a touch of mystery and elegance not only makes us more glamorous and confident in life, but also makes us more calm in the face of adversity. At the same time, we must also learn to protect our privacy and avoid unnecessary harm in society.
Don't rely on others
In interpersonal communication, we need to learn to maintain the quality of independence and autonomy. Don't rely too much on others, but learn to master the rhythm and pace yourself. Only in this way can we show our unique charm more freely in life.
It is better to rely on others than on yourself. In this world, the only one who can really rely on yourself is yourself. Therefore, we need to learn to deal with problems and solve problems on our own, and not to rely too much on others. Of course, this is not to say that we should completely isolate ourselves and cut off from others. On the contrary, it is very important to maintain good relationships with others. However, while maintaining relationships, we also need to maintain our own independence and autonomy and not rely too much on others.
Always know how to feelYes
Gratitude is a very important quality in interpersonal communication. When we receive help and support from others, learn to cherish and be grateful. Every help and support is a precious gift, and we need to feel and appreciate this friendship with our hearts.
The grace of a drop of water is reciprocated by a spring. This quote reminds us that we need to know how to reciprocate and be grateful for the help and support of others. This is not only a moral requirement, but also a kind of wisdom in interpersonal communication. When we know how to be grateful, we will cherish our relationships with others more, and we will know how to respect and understand others more. In this way, our lives will be more harmonious and wonderful.
Wen Qiuyu's message
Interpersonal communication is an esoteric art that requires us to constantly learn and explore. In this complex and ever-changing society, we must learn to protect ourselves and not easily expose our weaknesses. Only in this way can we be invincible in interpersonal communication and show our unique charm. At the same time, we must also learn to respect and understand others, and feel and experience the emotions and needs of others with our hearts. Only in this way can we build truly healthy and harmonious relationships.
To be a man, you have to leave three points of leeway for yourself. This is not only a strategy for self-preservation, but also a kind of wisdom. Because in this world, there are not many people who are really worthy of your heart. Therefore, we need to learn to distinguish between the real and the fake, to be vigilant, and to protect our weaknesses. We must also learn to cherish ourselves, love ourselves, and be grateful to ourselves. Only in this way can we maintain our independence and autonomy in our interpersonal interactions. Invincible.