Refuse to be kidnapped
Have you ever had the experience that young people choose to "break off their relatives", which seems to be a trend now? In this fast-paced society, more and more people choose to distance themselves from their relatives and no longer cling to the traditional concept of family affection. Behind this phenomenon, there are a series of deep-seated reasons, let's dig deeper together to see the truth.
First, let's focus on the issue of "preference for sons." In some families, girls are seen as a burden and are expected too highly. Instilled from an early age with the notion that "the married daughter spills the water", these girls not only have to face the burden of the family, but are also required to provide all kinds of assistance to their younger brothers. This heavy burden makes them grow up with low self-esteem, forcing them to keep working hard to prove their worth. Such a family environment makes them feel lacking in warmth, and choosing to "break off" has become a way for them to pursue freedom and dignity.
Secondly, the relationship between relatives is not always picturesque. Some people, in difficult times, will only count the number of relatives around them, and after success, they will become enthusiastic. This kind of hypocritical kinship makes young people feel suffocated and stressed. In a conversation centered around money and objects, it can be difficult for young people to find real emotional support. The comparison and number of relatives make young people drift apart, and choosing to "break off relatives" has become a way to get rid of this pressure.
Finally, the shadow of the original family is also one of the reasons for the phenomenon of "severance". Many people's injuries come from childhood, and this kind of injury takes a lifetime. Parents treat their children as property and hope to fulfill their expectations and desires through their children. This attitude of taking advantage of children causes many people deep pain in adulthood. The shadow of the family of origin makes young people realize that perhaps "breaking off" is a way to get rid of the past and find true freedom and happiness.
On the whole, the reasons why young people choose to "break off their relatives" are complex and profound. Whether it's because of gender inequality, false kinship, or the shadow of the family of origin, to some extent, it is driving young people to find a freer way of life. Perhaps, we need more understanding and love to solve these problems and create a more harmonious family environment. For young people, perhaps before choosing to "break off", they can try to communicate and understand and find a way to solve the problem.
Finally, let's think about a question: do you think your loved ones, the script of life, are you like? Welcome to share your views in the comment area, and let us work together to ** this complex and profound social phenomenon.