Meet the people you meet among thousands of people, in the endless wilderness of time for thousands of years, there is no one step earlier, no one step later, but just happened to catch up. —Zhang Ailing.
Some people have been in love for ten years and love each other, but in the end they have not been able to achieve positive results.
But some people can get married in a flash after knowing each other for a few days, and they will be with each other until they are white.
So, who you will marry is predestined.
Some people are destined to be in love only, and marriage can only be attainable for some people.
So, when we are in love, there are some things that we have to think about.
Among the people who can't enter the marriage hall together in the end of the long-distance love run, some of them parted ways with each other because the bride price was not negotiated.
And among them, there are those who can't afford to give, and there are those who don't want to give.
I once had a friend who needed 29 because of his girlfriend who had been running for ten yearsThe bride price of 90,000 yuan broke up.
But a few months later he met a new blind date, to 39The bride price of 90,000 yuan, but he agreed without hesitation.
He said he didn't expect him to have a relationship with his girlfriend who has been running for ten years, but the other party talked to her about money.
He felt that he had been with the other party for so long, and the other party still didn't believe in him so much, he asked
Could it be that his companionship and dedication for so many years are not worth 29Does 9 can bring a sense of security?
Wouldn't it be good to have less bride price and leave more money for your own small family?
Do you think only of yourself and not of us?
Then I asked him why the blind date asked for more bride price, and he could pay it willingly?
He said, I don't have any feelings for her, she wants more peace of mind, so give it to her.
He is considerate of those close to him, but he is tolerant and generous to strangers.
I don't really understand the logic, and I don't think it makes sense.
Maybe the authorities are obsessed, I don't know if he will regret his decision at that time in the future.
It may also be the inertia of thinking, he may habitually have higher requirements for his relatives and habitually bargain with those close to him.
He needs the other person to act according to his expectations, and he is not willing to compromise if the other person is not willing to do what he thinks.
Because he has never been a compromiser.
He has no sense of compromise and is not willing to make concessions.
With his character, they are destined to separate.
Although the woman is usually very tolerant of him, she will also have her own ideas and her own insistence.
If he had always insisted on himself and refused to give in, they were destined to separate.
There are not too many ten years in life, and although their ten years are a pity, they seem to have been destined in the dark.
Many small things in love can become big things when they turn into marriage.
Because marriage will bring about substantial relationship changes, for many people, before marriage, it is a lover, it is a state of vigilance to pursue, and after marriage, it is a family member, a state of relaxation and relaxation.
Whether such a change is intentional or unintentional, it will make the marriage even heavier.
Because marriage requires not only space, but also responsibility.
Let's hope we can all find the one we were destined for.