Some time ago, there was such a ** on the social platform.
A thin and white girl, in a drunken posture, lay down on the sofa of a large flat-story mansion.
The delicate body is covered with a fur, revealing the slender ankles in the beautiful high heels.
With melancholy copywriting, the whole ** is full of a".A sense of brokennessFeelings of vulnerability
In the comment area, the style of the most liked messages is like this: "No wonder the president relented when he saw the heroine sleeping on the sofa." ”
There was even a wave of the song called ".The boss's wife lies on the sofa"The imitation craze.
Countless girls have posted their seemingly casual, but every action is a well-designed follow-the-trend:
In the cold winter, I have to wear a thin little dress and uncomfortable high heels at home, and half-lie on the sofa in an awkward position.
Originally, this incident was quite normal to this, and the girls who took pictures had nothing to criticize, but the comment area was filled with a lot of arguments that I couldn't understand:
There are pathological envy of the thin figure of the "boss wife":
I'd rather be sick than fat. ”
Thin is very happy, I don't need to find the angle of the p picture when I take pictures, I have chopsticks legs and ant waists, I pursue beauty, so it doesn't matter if I get sick. ”
There are those who are vainly self-conscious, show that they are wearing thick pajamas at home, and constantly belittle themselves and ordinary girls:
Others lie down to be the heroine, and I lie down to be half a pig. ”
I lay down there, and whose pig was on the kang, and it was still on all directions. ”
There are those who compare themselves to nannies on the surface, but in fact belittle working women:
I'm lying on the sofa, President: Wu's mother, go back to your room to sleep when you're tired, I don't want to see this situation a second time. ”
I'm lying there, President: The nanny is dead at home? ”
When this seemingly "playful", the challenge of following the trend of advocating the "white, young and thin" aesthetic and advocating and weakening women intensified, and finally someone saw that something was wrong:
Why is this beautiful woman lying on the sofa so good-looking, everyone doesn't think that she is a female president and not a family lady, not to think of the boss's white moonlight and wife. ”
Allowing women to give up comfortable clothing in pursuit of fashion, attacking personal preferences for dressing styles, is a kind of PUA that everyone often ignores. ”
Blogger "Genius Girlfriend Nana" said it well:
Even if she advocates the life of a beautiful wife who does not touch the spring water with her fingers and always maintains a beautiful and elegant life, she does not have to use the working woman Wu Ma as a self-deprecating foil.
Society is deliberately and unconsciously deepening the tendency of women to become beautiful dolls. ”
I think so. You will see that the memes that are now popular on the Internet are becoming more and more inexplicable, and some of them are really uncomfortable:
For example, ".Gangsters excited punches
The girl said that she spent 6,000 yuan to learn women's self-defense boxing, and then staged a scene of "small fist punching your chest" in front of the camera.
deliberately showing his weakness and weakness, like tickling fists and feet, reinforces the stereotype of women in society.
As expected, the comment area is basically unsightly.
For example, ".When gangsters broke into my house
This stalk originally became popular abroad, and netizens restored it on the spot:
When a gangster breaks into the house at 3 a.m., what use can your skills be.
The original style of painting is very normal: violin, speech and debate, and playing hula hoop.
As a result, when it spread to China, it completely changed its taste, and it became the reason why some girls used to pat the edges:
When the gangsters broke into the house, the girls, without exception, pulled their clothes to their waists, twisted their bodies and danced.
If you don't understand, what is this doing?
For example, ".I wanted to eat sugar gourds and knelt in the snow for half an hour
Countless girls posted the sugar gourds they bought, but they had to be accompanied by such copywriting:
I said I wanted to eat strawberry sugar gourd, he asked me to kneel in the snow for half an hour before buying it for me, saying that the next time I ate it, he would beat me, although the weather was more than ten degrees below zero, but love can relieve the pain. ”
I said I wanted to eat a rock sugar gourd, begged him for three days and three nights, he picked up the ashtray and hit me with his backhand, I know, he just thinks that the rock sugar gourd is easy to get fat after eating, he is so good, blame me for not dodging. ”
Today, I wanted to eat sugar gourd, but my boyfriend said that I was a loser, punished me for kneeling in the snow for six hours, and slapped me ten times. ”
Use domestic violence stalks to entertain, and there are many people in the comment area who say "This copywriting is so cute"??
And "Kitsune Challenge": Shoot ** to compare who is more like a vixen and who can seduce people more.
Poor body size challengeThe taller and more powerful the boys and the thinner and younger the girls, the more they can arouse the envy of the comment area: "It's hard not to love!" ”
The common denominator of these stalks is that they convey such a value either explicitly or implicitly:
Women are delicate, vulnerable, need to be protected, and are charming to be attractive.
In the world of wife literature, girls only care about:
Through men's control, possession, and dominance of themselves, they show that they are worthy of love and worthwhile.
Through the envy of other women for their white and thin appearance, to obtain a certain secret sense of superiority.
Some people may say, isn't it just a joke? It's good to have fun, you don't need a glass heart and a platform online.
But as Dai Jinhua said, "You consume this kind of culture, and you think it's just providing you with happiness."
However, unconsciously constructing your emotional way, constructing your values, and constructing your way of life;
What constructs your longings, your fears, and your needs are the things that you easily go to for recreation.
It has quietly changed the entire Chinese vision, Chinese society, changed the structure of this society, changed the relationship between people, and changed people's most basic concepts of life, love, hate, death, and so on. ”
What society needs today is people like you and me who will be sensitive, alert, and thinking about popular Internet memes.
Those girls who envy the fragile and slender "boss wife" lying on the sofa and belittle the working woman Wu Ma, maybe they should take a look at Rose's classic line in "Titanic":
Everyone wants me to be an elegant and delicate little woman, but I'm not.
I'm strong, I'm like a horse, and I have to do something instead of sitting and being an ornament.
Look at my hands, these are the hands of labor. ”
We don't need to be so thin that we can't even hang up the president's coat, and we are distressed and protected;
You don't have to use the "gangster excitement fist" to show your weakness;
If you want to eat rock sugar gourd, you can buy it yourself, don't entertain domestic violence stalks;
Don't feel inferior because you're not a fox;
You don't have to deliberately pursue the extreme body size.
It's like Beauvoir said in "The Second Sex":
Some women see themselves as bouquets, some as large birdcages;
Other women become museums, others become incomprehensible symbols.
Being loved is never the be-all and every aspect of life. Coconut wants you to treat yourself as an independent individual first.
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