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At that time, on the 10,000-square-meter green grassland, the roses of the Chinese women's football team bloomed proudly, bright and dazzling. In the rippling pool of blue waves, five golden flowers cleaved the waves, competing for beauty. Back then, in the badminton area, there was always a young lady who could take the lead and lead the **, how could it not be beautiful? Ten years ago, in 2014, our tennis sister Li Na was glamorous on the ** court in Melbourne after the Australian Open. Nowadays, on such a quadripartite stage, maybe the opponent is constantly improving, and we are still standing still, maybe we have lost the original mission and personality pursuit hidden deep in the body. So, when others become more and more fierce, we become more and more weak. At a certain height, our daughters have too much unattainable. Watching them being brutally suppressed, I felt a little suffocated and distressed. I know that my daughters can be as tender as water, but I also know that they need to be tempered into steel and have a temperament that combines strength and softness.
I have to admit that our life is getting better and better now. There are also more and more high-tech elements in various gyms. Careers such as physical trainers, nutritionists, and so on are also in the ascendant. The conditions are there, and the starting line is drawn. However, in the field of competitive sports, watching the growth and development of some athletes abroad, I even have some doubts about whether our daughters' bodies are fully mature. Why do those foreign female athletes feel like they have mother-level strength and fitness, while we are somewhat weak? As soon as I arrived on the field, as soon as I compared, I felt that I was being bullied by the big and the small, and I was faced with a strong sense of oppression. A sense of loss also arises spontaneously. In fact, it's not that we don't know how to be strong, it's that we always waste the opportunity to make ourselves strong.
Among them, there must be outdated notions at work. Everyone has a love for beauty, and the beauty of women is justified. But our daughters clearly misunderstood the great definition of beauty. They only see the outward beauty of body proportions and physiognomy, and ignore the inner beauty of strength, health, and wisdom. Even those heartfelt joys and cheerful smiles are ignored. In fact, in this world, a smile is the most beautiful and the most rare. Therefore, they used the beauty refining operation in the wrong place. Foreign counterparts in the gym are made of steel and iron, but our daughters are graceful, what willow eyebrows, what water snake waist, the gym has also become a beautiful landscape. The gym becomes a space for display and beauty. They maintain all their beauty in the pleasure of the opposite sex, and do not know how to transform beauty into a factor of survival and an element of life. Beauty is not a commodity, and our body is not a product, but it will be the backbone of our lives. However, unfortunately, for the sake of that self-feeling beauty, they are afraid of becoming fat, and as soon as they get fat, they will burn off the excess calories and practice their bodies. The idea of the individual is like a shackle that shackles over the soul and body of the individual.
It's just that the daughters are ignorant and immature. The most terrible thing is that as adults, we regard them as the capital of the family, the ability of our parents and the little padded jacket. We want to enrich them, we want them to always experience warmth, not to let them be wronged, not to let them get in touch with the bottom of the mind, it is the truth that women do not stay in the middle, they hope that their daughters can be a springboard for some kind of career to marry a good family, to marry a husband and children. We adults would rather spend our money on their beauty and hair than let them fly in the sky of their dreams. We were afraid that they would break their wings, that they would be ravaged by the wind and rain. This is how they withered and slowly withered in our fright. Flowers are in full bloom, they need fertile soil, they need the support of the small family environment, and they need to prepare books for the social environment, sunshine and rain are only the necessities of their growth, but they cannot make them bloom the flower of life. What can be said is that in our real world, there are too few strong women, and they should not just have children. They need to be more socially responsible.
All along, there has been a phenomenon of male superiority and inferiority in our environment. Slowly, the relationship between men and women is moving towards equality, and there may be a time of misalignment in the future. Although in some areas, men's hormones are more vigorous, but as the same woman, daughters should not just grow in the garden, but should be an oasis in the desert, a snow-capped mountain snowdrop. Everyone is born ordinary, but not everyone is born just for the ordinary. Daughters should live a wonderful life, not be willing to be ordinary, but can achieve a great life in an ordinary world. Maternal care is the warmest thing in the world. Zheng Qinwen's father said it well, Zheng Qinwen is only twenty-two years old, she still has a long way to go in tennis, and what they want is a Grand Slam. With ideals, goals, motherly fatherly blessings, and the company of "literature" fans, Zheng Qinwen will definitely be able to thrive and achieve his greatness. The daughters have a strong magnetic field in them, as well as infinite possibilities and resources. Why can't you do a self-discovery? Give yourself more chances?