In modern society, with the development of the aging trend, many men are still struggling in front-line positions after the age of 60. It's not that I don't want to retire, but now people are under a lot of pressure, and in order to create a better life for their families, as a man, they must fight to the end.
Based on my own personal experience, combined with the people around me, the ten years from the age of 56 to the age of 65 are really the most difficult years in a man's life after he is 55 years old.
However, it is difficult to pass the passLife is like a marathon and a long-distance race, and the one who survives to the end is the winnerOnly by surviving many difficulties can we enjoy the hard-won blessings.
Men at the age of 56 and 65 will be very "difficult" in the past ten years, try to be prepared for 4 points!
Those who have many years of social experience know that the age of a man's career is 30 to 50 years old, and once he is past 50 years old, men's advantages in the workplace are becoming less and less obvious.
An old classmate was also a college roommate, everyone was about the same age, and after graduating from college, he went to work in the private company, and several of our other roommates went to work in the unit.
Later, he became the regional general manager, and his career flourished, and his income was several times that of us, which was enviable, and he paid out of his pocket for every class reunion.
As a result, when he was in his early 50s, he was suddenly laid off, and now he is unemployed at home, living a very embarrassing life, and he has never attended a class reunion again.
The other few of us, some of whom are teachers, some of whom work in the unit, are also average. Although I did not suffer from unemployment, I gradually felt "marginalized" by the management of the unit.
An old classmate who works in the unit complained that he is really dispensable in the unit now, and important tasks are arranged for other young peopleWhat honors and medals, I can't take my turn at all, I am ignored by the management, and I am also suppressed and ridiculed by new employees, and I am a little disappointed and frustrated.
Every day in the workplace, there are still several years to survive until retirement, self-esteem is damaged, and I really want to quit my job and find a new job outside. Fortunately, he was strongly blocked by his family and friends, so he barely maintained the status quo and did not make impulsive mistakes.
Coupled with the gradual aging of the body, physical and mental exhaustion, doing a lot of things seem to be powerless, the rest of the life feels hopeless, depressed all day long, full of anxiety, restlessness, often insomnia at night, dizzy and swollen during the day.
As a man, if you want to survive this time, you need to prepare for these 4 points as soon as possible.
The society is very realistic, after a man reaches the age of 55, if he does not have enough economic strength, it is difficult to win the respect of others.
Therefore, at an age when you can make money, you should work hard for your career, save money hard, stay away from a group of friends who drink and meat, don't spend too much money on eating, drinking and having fun, and think more about your future.
In addition to making money and saving money, we also need to adjust our mentality. If your ability is really limited, after the age of 55, you will not have any major achievements in your career and your savings will not be much, so don't be discouraged and keep a normal mind.
Life is like this, full of all kinds of uncertainties, don't try to take advantage of everything, some things that don't belong to us, don't force it, learn to accept imperfect life.
It's been a difficult decade, but life has to go on, we still have to stay optimistic, communicate more with our families, and if there is anything that is not as good as our hearts, we can talk to our relatives and friends, and don't hold back in our hearts to be depressed and unhappy, and it is easy to get sick.
The more difficult times you encounter in life, the more you must be stable, not too impatient, too impatient, but easy to make mistakes, and it will be difficult to turn over.
Therefore, think twice before acting, practice a calm way of doing things, calm your mind, think about every step for the rest of your life, but seek no regrets.
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