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Lin Yutang said:"When I was in the world, I thought I didn't understand anything when I was young, I thought I knew everything when I was in college, I didn't know anything after I graduated, I thought I understood everything in middle age, and I realized that I didn't understand everything until I was old. ”
Everyone's life will be divided into many stages, but no matter what stage, the role they play is actually different.
Therefore, a person's greatest sobriety is to know when and what to do.
Then, through their long-term efforts and growth, they will be able to become more independent and stronger.
Even in the trough period, he can move forward through his own courage, continue to survive, carry, endure, and redeem himself.
There's a good saying:
"Life is like dumplings, if you don't pinch it hard, scald it with boiling water, and boil it with boiling water, how can it be ripe. ”
Always believe that even if you are at a low point in your life, you must firmly believe that God is reminding you and redeeming your destiny.
Let yourself live as a dumpling, not afraid of boiling water, not afraid of boiling water, temper in every way, and go to maturity.
Survive the pain of confusion
In life, in fact, people will encounter pain and confusion at every stage.
Because the evolution process of life has always been like this, because of the transformation of people, there will definitely be labor pains behind it.
So in the face of the so-called trough, we must have an optimistic attitude and spirit, and then we can really move in the right direction.
In fact, it is precisely because a person experiences confusion and sees helplessness that he will try his best to change himself and break through himself.
As Gibran said:"People cannot reach dawn except by the road through the night. ”
Only in this way will we be able to survive the suffering, sorrow, and even pain of confusion.
Only let yourself really rely on your own efforts, rely on your own pursuit of progress, and then let yourself be really strong enough to live this life without anyone.
The book "Chance Encounter" says:
"Everyone has experienced or is going through the darkest moment of their lives, which is a long, dark, cold, desperate tunnel. ”
In the years of confusion, you must let your ability be greater than your temper.
Then, I can swallow more grievances, endure more pain, and really make myself more calm and independent.
At this time, the confusion, exclusion, and suffering that they have experienced will all become the cornerstones and ladders of their own progress.
Remember to do everything on your own
When a person reaches adulthood, he must learn to be sober and let himself mature.
The basic trajectory of a person's maturity is to know how to rely on himself in everything.
Because every life is an individual, although there must be some connection between people.
However, in fact, everyone is lonely in their bones.
It can even be said that people can only slowly realize their own uniqueness, let themselves become independent, and rely on themselves to succeed.
Then you will have the confidence and the belief to play your relevant role well.
Cai Kangyong once said with emotion:
"You can't put your hopes in others, whether they are malicious or well-intentioned, don't put your hopes in others.
If you don't feel that others can help you at all, then you can't get anything in exchange for showing your collapse in front of others, but it will bring countless troubles to yourself. ”
In this world, the stupidest person is to entrust the initiative of his life to others, and to put his life hopes in the hands of others.
In fact, smart people will rely on themselves to become independent and strong, even in adversity and at a low point, they must rely on themselves to turn over.
Aurelius the Great said
When you are in adversity, it is important to understand that it is good for you, and you should cherish the trials that come with adversity.
Strive to be yourself, be brave to be yourself, continue to be yourself, and rely on yourself in everything, so that you can become more and more sharp and shining.
Carry it all on
As the following passage says:
"In this world, no one can really empathize with another person's wounds, you have thousands of arrows through the heart, you are in pain, and it is only your own business
Others may sympathize, they may sigh, but it will never be clear how far your wound has festered. ”
Everyone has their own life, everyone has their own life, everyone has their own survival trajectory.
So, don't expect the world to treat you well, that's naïve thinking.
At the same time, don't have illusions about human nature, after all, everyone has their own way of living and their own choices.
When you are at a low point in your life, you must firmly believe in your own strength and rely on your own wisdom and actions to get out of the trough.
Because when you are at a low point, it is precisely when you are saving your life.
Only by keeping yourself brave, keeping moving, keeping changing, can you carry everything.
Then, you will be able to bring out your wisdom and energy, and come up with actions and strategies, and truly live this life well.
Master Nebula once said a sentence:
"In the days of waiting, be humble and cultivate deep roots, so that you can flourish in the coming days. ”
In life, keep a low profile, remember to be calm, pursue progress, and be fearless, in order to improve yourself.
In this way, even if you are facing all kinds of life problems, even if you are at a low point in your life for a long time, you must believe that this is fate reminding you, warning you, and even saving your life.