In life, we often hear such words:
His wife is so good and beautiful, why is he still looking for a third party? This third party doesn't look as good as his wife at all, what does this person think......”
This is also something that many people can't figure out, why do men have extramarital lovers, why are most of the lovers they find inferior to their wives?
Vanity plays the hawk
The reason why a man has an extramarital affair is because of this man's vanity, and he feels that he has a woman outside and a woman at home, which is really his charm, and he is very happy in his heart.
In fact, the man didn't think much about it when he was looking for this lover outside, it was because of his vanity that he was with the woman outside, so he didn't pick and choose the woman outside, and naturally he was not as good as his wife.
Some men think that there is a woman outside, just because they are very attractive, they will not talk about it to their wives in the family, but they are always embarrassed in front of their brothers outside.
Someone once said: The thing that many men are proud of is that they have something to do with someone else's wife. ”
So men tend to be more vain in some things, so that this kind of thing happens.
Excellent women don't do three
The reason why the outside third party is not as good as this man's wife is because if the outside woman is excellent, she will not become a third party. This woman is not good, so she can become a third party.
Such a woman's posture is very attractive, so that other men can't stop after getting married, in fact, this kind of woman has nothing, and she won't make men particularly care, so she is a third party.
If you go to the mall to buy clothes, you really like the clothes, but you just like it, and you don't really love it, so at this time you just try it on.
But if you like this dress very much, when you wear this dress and you can no longer take it off, you have to take this dress home with you to live or die, this is your willingness to pay for the other person, pay for this dress.
Therefore, men sometimes have a scale in their hearts, if they like a woman very much, they will marry this woman home, but if it is just because they like it, then men will not marry each other home, men are just playing.
There are some people who are often scared as the third type, and sometimes even challenge the bottom line of the original match, in fact, such people are particularly stupid, and there are some self-righteousness.
Because a woman will understand a truth if she is smarter: it is impossible for someone who really likes you to be a third party, this person will give you a name, so this person will treat you sincerely and marry you home, instead of making you a street rat and a third party that everyone shouts and beats.
There is still a difference between those who are chasing and those who are catching up
Wives are often chased by men with great effort, although there are others outside, but when pursuing their wives back then, men were also surprised and suffered, and they also pursued each other without hesitation.
The reason why a man pursues a woman and wants to marry this woman home is because this woman is excellent and has a matching appearance. So the time and energy that men spend wants to make this woman their wife.
But the third party outside is different, this third party is often posted upside down, and men often don't pursue this woman. The reason why a woman sticks to a man upside down, turns around and pursues a man, and pursues a married man.
It shows that this woman can no longer find the object she wants among unmarried men, and at the same time, it also shows that this man still has weight in a woman's heart, but this woman is not so important in a man's heart.
If a thing is good, it has long been taken away by others, just like if a woman is really beautiful and good enough, this woman has long been married home by others, and it is impossible to become a third party in this society.
If a woman is good enough, this woman will not become a third party to others after she gets married, because this woman has the ability to manage her marriage well, and she also has the ability to manage her lower body.
The man's wife is a man who spent a lot of effort to catch up, and if he wants to talk about marriage with the other party after catching it, he also needs the consent of the other party, which shows that the man has paid a lot on the woman, because the man feels that the woman knows that he has paid.
Judging from these circumstances, as a man's wife, she is often stronger than a third party, because this woman has the capital to be chased by men, but if a woman has no one to pay for herself, trying to seduce a man with a family, then it is enough to show that this woman is not so good, or even worthless.
When a person enters into marriage, he must be responsible for his marriage, whether it is a man or a woman.
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