Children need to grow independently, and we can't replace their growth journey
Every child is a unique individual, and they need to go through the process of growing up, face challenges, and take responsibility. As parents, we certainly want to give them the best help and support, but it is more important to give them enough space and freedom to learn to think independently and deal with problems independently.
Whenever we see children experiencing difficulties in their growth, we can't help but want to help them or even solve problems for them. However, we must not forget that it is by overcoming difficulties and challenges that children can continue to grow and become stronger and more confident. Our over-intervention may cause them to lose their ability to solve problems independently, and even affect their self-esteem and self-confidence.
In the face of children's growth, we should give them enough trust and encouragement, so that they can learn to take responsibility and learn to manage themselves. When they make mistakes, we can give them appropriate guidance and advice, but it is more important for them to understand the consequences of their mistakes and learn to learn from them. It is only through their own experiences that children can truly become strong and mature.
When children are faced with a choice, we should not make decisions for them, but we should give them enough information and support so that they can learn to weigh the pros and cons and make the choices that are in line with their wishes. Although this process of growth is full of challenges and risks, it is this challenge and risk that makes them learn to think independently, learn to take responsibility, and become more mature and confident.
However, growing up independently does not mean that we have to leave our children alone, but rather that we should give them the right support and help when they need it. We can be our supporters and encouragement and recognition as children solve problems independently. When they make progress and achievements, we want to express praise and affirmation in a timely manner, so that they can feel our support and encouragement.
We are the most important guide and companion for children on their growth path. We need to give them enough freedom and space to learn to think independently and solve problems independently, but at the same time, we must also give them enough support and encouragement so that they do not feel lonely and lost on the road to growth. Only in such an atmosphere can children truly grow up healthily and become responsible and responsible people.
Therefore, let us know how to give children appropriate support and encouragement on the way to growth, so that they can learn to think independently, make their own choices, and manage themselves, so that children can truly thrive. May we all be the best companions for our children's growth, contribute to their independent growth, and let them thrive in the wind and rain.