In their own lives, each of us is like a ship that rises and falls in the ocean of destiny, tirelessly searching for a unique way to live in harmony with the world.
When you deeply comprehend these philosophical words, you will be able to gain insight into the essence of life and see through our common life journey.
The real shortcut is often to take the stupid road
In the profound historical masterpiece "Zizhi Tongjian", the depiction of Sima Yi is unique, praising him for showing extraordinary intelligence and far-reaching strategic vision when he was a teenager - "less intelligent, more strategic".
Through the image of Sima Yi, a historical figure, the book vividly illustrates the attitude of those who are truly eloquent and strategic: they never advocate the method of shortcuts, nor do they disdain to seek shortcuts in order to achieve quick success, but they are determined to work steadily, step by step, and carefully draw grand causes.
The wise proverb in the Book of Rites warns us: "Villains often take risks in order to take advantage of their luck." "Since ancient times, countless people have been driven by short-term interests, keen to pursue quick success, but neglected the path of stability.
However, people who rely on luck and choose shortcuts often unknowingly enter danger and even face a dead end. There is no ladder to the top, and any attempt to take advantage of opportunistic behavior may eventually lead to the opposite of what you want.
Therefore, only by sticking to our duty and upholding the principle of low-key pragmatism can we ensure that individuals can walk steadily and go long-term on the long road of life.
In many cases, what seems like a tempting shortcut is actually a lost path full of pitfalls.
The real road to advancement has always been down-to-earth, step by step accumulation, only in this way can we cast a solid foundation for success and reach the other side of the ideal.
The real high emotional intelligence is sincerity
We tend to think that it is essential to be calculating in our relationships, but in reality, sincerity is the solid brick that knocks on the door of the other person's heart.
Sincerity is a kind of communication attitude that is deeply rooted in the hearts of the people. As the great writer William Shakespeare once profoundly insightd: "Sincerity and unfeignedness are the most touching power." "Being honest with others is often more effective in winning their understanding and empathy.
Sincerity is also a kind of cultivation quality that makes people feel like a spring breeze. A person's upbringing is not only reflected in the superficial warmth and polite etiquette, but also in the sincere care for oneself and others. It is like a clear stream, moisturizing things silently, making people feel close and comfortable.
Sincerity is the personality charm that builds the foundation of others' trust in you. Your ability may allow you to gain benefits for a while, but only sincerity and reliability can be exchanged for lasting trust from others. Every sincerity you treat others will turn into a peace of mind entrusted to you by others.
Short-lived benefits may be fleeting, but the trust built can last a long time. Sometimes, sincerity may seem like a temporary temptation to give up your immediate profits, but it can invisibly win you long-term hearts.
Therefore, let us cherish sincerity because it not only warms others but also illuminates our path in life.
Truly powerful and allows anything to happen
We often mistakenly think that the mastery of life comes from the precise control of the outcome of everything. However, the script of life never follows the trajectory of personal will, it is always ups and downs, and it is difficult to **.
Although on the surface, everyone seems to be the helmsman of their own life, the real normal state of life is full of uncertainty. True maturity is largely reflected in the individual's ability to live in harmony with unpredictable situations.
The idea of "allowing" actually contains more power than control. This is precisely why we need to concentrate on cultivating the wisdom of "allowing."
On the one hand, this wisdom helps us to accept the impermanence of the world and the limitations of individual capabilities. There are many things in life that are beyond our scope of change, and many things are not dictated by our will.
By realizing that there is something wrong with oneself, one can avoid falling into blind attachment, and one can avoid self-embarrassment and unnecessary troubles.
On the other hand, through the wisdom of "permission", we can find the freest state of life.
When we no longer try to control every outcome, no longer try to manipulate any relationship, but embrace all changes and fluctuations with an open and inclusive mind, we will find that our inner firmness and calmness come precisely from a deep acceptance of external changes.
Only those who do not fight against the wind and waves can ride the wind and waves in the tide of life and move forward leisurely.