Nowadays, many people invite others to dinner, and meals have become a common thing.
When you are born to eat with others, there are some things that you must pay attention to. In addition to these, you also have to understand a truth, the following four kinds of people invite you to dinner, you had better return the invitation early, otherwise you may offend people.
Leadership
When the leader invites you to dinner, you don't think that this person should invite you to dinner because he is the leader. Don't feel that the leader's salary is higher than yours, so these meals are nothing in the eyes of the leader.
You must know that although this person is a leader, inviting you to dinner is not something that this person has to do. When the other party invites you to dinner, you must remember the other party's dedication.
As leaders, they understand better that they must be rewarded for their efforts.
Therefore, when the leader invites you to dinner, you must give the leader some due returns, so that the leader will feel that you are a person who knows how to be grateful.
At the same time, you must not think that the leader's salary is high, you should be invited to dinner, some people are stupid, and they will take the initiative to say to the leader: "Leader, your salary is so high, please invite us to dinner." ”
When you say this, you have actually offended the leader, and the leader's salary is high because people have the ability and ability, and it is not the leader's obligation to invite you to dinner, and the leader has no obligation to pay for your meal.
People who are not familiar with it
If a person is not familiar with you, for example, the two of you went on a business trip, so the two of you had a meal together, and the other party paid you at this time, then you must ask back, or at this time you have to transfer the money to the other party.
An unfamiliar person does not take the initiative to invite you to dinner, but for some reason tells you the money for the meal. Don't feel that the other party has paid, you should take advantage of the other party's small advantage, sometimes take a small advantage and suffer a big loss.
This kind of chance encounter, maybe after a while, the two people will no longer have anything to do with each other, so when someone else pays for your meal, you should also give it to others.
People who are calculating
A calculating person will naturally care about this meal, on the surface it seems that the other party invited you to eat, but in fact, the other party is still calculating in his heart, when you meet such a person, you should also return the other party's meal money to the other party, or you want to invite back.
The decision to go to the village is that you must not eat with a person who cares about everything, sometimes the other party may have to calculate even a dollar clearly when paying, and it is more tiring for you, this time you may have to give in, but next time you may not be able to stand it.
Sometimes we have a job and have to eat with such a person, so when you are with this kind of person, you should know the other person's temper, so at this time you should also be generous to the other party, this time it doesn't matter if the person passes.
Everyone likes generous people, but they may not be generous when they encounter some things last time. It's like when you meet someone who cares, once you let the other party, the next time you may have to let the other party, and after a long time, your heart will be particularly unbalanced.
In the face of such a calculating person, even if the other party is your friend or your relative, you should invite the other party back. You can not see others, but you should be clear in the face of such a person: the other party is calculating, so you can't be confused.
Friends of friends
A friend's friend is not your friend, so when a friend's friend invites you to dinner, you must remember: this meal must be returned.
A friend's friend looks very good to you, because the other party is a friend of your girlfriend, so this person will invite you to dinner, strictly speaking, this meal is not for you by your lover, but for the sake of your friend's face.
When a person invites you to dinner in the face of your friend, you should be clear that this treat is not for you, so you can't count this meal, even if you eat this meal now, then you have to invite this person out to eat in the future.
In fact, in life, it is easy for us to meet friends and friends, and when they eat together, we may also eat with them, these things are inevitable.
But when you have this meal, you should know that you owe it to others, don't feel that you eat it, there are no such generous people in the world, when you don't return the invitation, you will find that you have not only offended your friend's friend, you have also offended your friend.
Friends don't have to be so inhibited, but you and your friends must be clear about the situation.
Individuals must not be greedy for cheap, as an adult, everything you accept may have an impact on you. When someone invites you to dinner, you don't have to be stingy, you can also invite someone to a meal, sometimes what you lose or gain, often more than a mobile meal.
Enjoy the New Year