People with a good relationship, we often get together for dinner, it doesn't matter who invites whom, because the relationship is good, we don't take advantage of each other, because we can trust, we don't account too much.
There are actually two kinds of relationships between eating and drinking together, one is wine and meat friends, and the other is sincere feelings.
Especially the second type, they have deep feelings for each other, so when they get together often, they can't avoid eating together.
But some relationships are unreliable, such as these 4 motives.
01. People who have nothing to do invite you to dinner
There are people who you haven't been in touch with for a long time, and the other person suddenly shows up and wants to invite you to dinner.
When you ask him about something, he just says, "You'll know when you arrive," and never says anything.
When you meet such a person, you must keep your distance from him, because he doesn't say anything, asks you for help, and suddenly finds you, and he doesn't have much contact with him on weekdays, and it is usually difficult for him to find you.
02. A dinner organized by someone who has an enmity with you
Some people have a very bad relationship with you, you can't get along with each other, and even when you meet, your face is red-faced, and you always have arguments, and no one looks at anyone well.
So in such a relationship, if we can not go to the drinking party or party he organized, we will not go, because the other party has a poor relationship with you, and if he still invites you, most of the embarrassment will be waiting for you.
Some people don't have a good relationship, so go their separate ways, don't have anything to do with him just because you are in the same circle.
03. A party invited by classmates who are like strangers
In fact, many old classmates meet and get along in an awkward atmosphere, too warm, and they haven't seen each other for many years, which seems fake;
Too lonely, nothing to say to each other, too unfamiliar.
In particular, there are people in the classmates who like to compare, which makes a party become a miasma.
Therefore, when some people organize a class reunion, if there are people who like to compare, you better find an excuse to refuse.
Because after a party, most of them will be unpleasant, and some people will boast about themselves and only show themselves.
Gathering with such a person is not only not interesting, but also disgusting!
04. Relatives who are not close to each other suddenly have a treat
Some relatives, why do they suddenly have a treat?
Because he's in trouble!
I can't help it, I just remembered my relatives, I invited you at this time, whether I want to go or not, it's all up to you.
If you feel that your relatives are not close, you can ignore them, and you can not go.
Even if you go for the sake of face, don't be stupid and help with anything.
Some relatives only think of you when they use you, but in fact, you are not very important to him.
Therefore, such relatives, don't help or not, don't blindly help, let yourself be wronged.