For nearly 5 years, I have been suffering from internal friction and entanglement. I think a lot every day, but I do very little. I feel that my heart is higher than the sky, and my life is thinner than paper.
The result of entanglement and internal friction is that the days pass day by day, and the face is getting older day by day, but nothing is accomplished. Yesterday I watched "Hot and Hot", and I personally feel that the biggest attraction is the heroine's success, of course, in this process, the heroine has been humiliated and frustrated in family, love and friendship, and because of this, the heroine's fighting spirit to win once was stimulated, so she began continuous fitness and exercise. The road to becoming a professional is long, and she is still a lot worse than a professional player, but as an ordinary person, she did win. A year can change a lot, and on Xiaohongshu, you often see titles like "Do you dare to change yourself in a year". I used to read such articles, all from the perspective of a bystander, just looking at how others can change themselves in a year, and I didn't really participate in it, because I didn't have enough perseverance and determination to believe that I could change! It seems that I have been looking for people around me who have changed themselves in a year or just a few years, and I am admiring others and envying others. And I haven't practiced it.
Now that I want to act, what do I need to do to improve myself? Spend a year taking three courses at the MOOC; 150,000 words in one year; Minimize 300 items in a year; Exercise for 15 minutes a day to relieve your shoulder and neck pain; Effectively accompany the child's growth ......These are the things that I usually do, and I can make them more refined and planned.
It can be used to stick to one thing in ten years, not ten things in a year, and the things I have listed seem to be a bit much! From the texts of "Kitten Fishing" and "Little Monkey Breaking Corn" in elementary school, we need to be taught to do things wholeheartedly, but so far I feel that I have not learned, focus on one thing at a specific time, and every day from six o'clock when I open my eyes and think about what I am doing today, until I close my eyes at 10 o'clock at night, it seems that I have not done anything. So I've been in internal friction, I've been looking for it, and I've been doing something, but because it's not standardized, I seem to have nothing to do!
Why do you want to do so much? Just start drying! 2024, come on!