Establish optimism and self-confidence, and don't demand perfection
Before the interview even began, many people's confidence edifice had collapsed. They know that the interview is the most crucial part of the recruitment process in the examination and recruitment of public institutions, so they habitually exaggerate every factor in the interview to an infinite extent, and regard every factor as an insurmountable mountain. As a result, they were defeated without a fight, abandoned their armor and surrendered.
They imagine the examiner as a "cold-faced killer" who makes things difficult for them in every way, and imagine the competitor as a "martial arts junjie" that I can't do, but they feel that they are useless, their language expression is not good, their image is not good, and some candidates are even worried that the examiner has a bad impression of them because their eyes are too small. Once he psychologically accepts a hypothesis, he will step into a self-imposed trap that will seriously affect his rational judgment.
The interviewer can think of the interviewer as your superior, and the competitor as your colleague, and prepare with a "I can do it, you can do it, I can do it, you can do it" mentality, so that you can maintain a positive, optimistic and enterprising mental state.
The absolute perfectionist means the eternal self-denial, because he can never achieve any of the goals he has set for himself; An absolute perfectionist also means that he does not know the importance and does not distinguish between priorities and priorities, and he will force himself to do excessive and unnecessary stops in every detail. In the interview preparation and exam process, perfectionists often waste a lot of time on unnecessary things, putting the cart before the horse, and missing the point.
Before the interview, what a perfectionist is most willing to do is to create thousands of psychological pressure on himself; During the interview, the perfectionist will try to hide and cover up his or her shortcomings. In the preparation stage, it is possible to encounter interview questions that you don't know, and in the actual combat drill, you may suddenly appear blank in your brain, and you don't know how to answer, which is very normal, and it is also likely to happen on the day of the interview, so don't have a psychological burden. Perfectionists, on the other hand, are hesitant to deny themselves because of these things.
Therefore, during the interview, you don't have to feel sorry for yourself, you don't have to be arrogant, think more about your strengths and strengths, and you don't have to be afraid of exposing your shortcomings under the stern gaze of the interviewer and shake your confidence, and become a crappy perfectionist.