I still remember that in "If You Are Honest, Do Not Disturb", ** and Ge You met for the first time, there was such a conversation:
Ever heard of love at first sight? ”
I fell in love with you when I saw you. ”
We can't fall in love at first sight, love at first sight is not that you fell in love with me at first sight, or that I fell in love with you at a glance, not looking, but the taste, each other was attracted by each other's smell, fascinated, and the smell was like, do you understand? ”
It's like what Frank said in "Smell a Woman":
"As we get older, what we hear, see, encounter, and think slowly accumulates into a special taste. Every woman has her own unique scent. ”
Because the face can be lost with the passage of time, the original stunning will also be used to it for a long time.
But the smell of a person, every time they smell it, can always evoke the memory of being attracted to the other person when they first met, day after day, more infatuated.
Therefore, the most significant difference between a woman after the age of thirty is not in appearance, but in smell.
*: Visual China.
Housewives who love life exude the fireworks of the world
There is a clip in the movie "Smell the Fragrance and Know the Woman", which is very interesting:
Around the glorious stage, there are all kinds of precious perfume smells, but what attracts the male protagonist Frank is not these smells, but a desolate soap scent.
It was the scent of soap that was out of place with her surroundings that led Frank to invite the girl to a beautiful dance.
The beautiful music, the unearthly girl, the faint fragrance, and the wonderful dance steps are enough to make Frank remember it for the rest of his life.
Yes, it is this faint soap fragrance that makes people the most inseparable, and it also makes me involuntarily think of my mother in the kitchen and living room.
This faint aroma seems to be absent and looming, but it has been lingering on the tip of my nose for as long as I can remember, and it makes me extremely relieved, that is, the smell of my mother, and the smell of fireworks in the world that surrounds all housewives.
Mother's taste - a warm and ** noun, when we are adrift, we can always concretize this abstract noun as sauerkraut dumplings, tomato scrambled eggs, lo mein and even stir-fried rape.
It is the concern and longing floating in the kitchens of thousands of households, and they turn into an invisible thread, connecting the blood and family ties separated by thousands of miles.
When I was a child, I thought that being a housewife was a very simple and easy task, but when I grew up, I gradually understood that it was not easy.
Yishu once said:
"Being a housewife probably requires management skills. ”
I couldn't agree more.
I remember my mother always standing in the kitchen full of the smell of oil smoke, wearing an apron, adding all kinds of seasonings to the pot, and with a sting, the house was filled with a fragrant smell of fireworks.
As I grow up now, I've eaten countless meals, countless dishes, and smelled all kinds of perfumes outside, but what really makes me feel nostalgic is the side dishes that my mother often cooks for me, and the smell of soap and fireworks on her body.
*: Visual China.
An intellectual woman who loves to read, exuding a bookish atmosphere
* The heroine of Jane Eyre is fostered in her aunt's house when her parents died when she was a child, and her aunt and cousin make things difficult for her at every turn.
Jane Eyre's happiest moment during her tormented ten years of sojourn was climbing onto a windowsill and hiding herself under a red curtain to read.
The inner strength gained from reading made Jane Eyre forget her pain and always maintain her courage in life.
Jane Eyre's bookish aura forged by reading makes her a unique landscape unlike those young ladies who wear expensive perfumes and pursue glitz.
Her uniqueness attracted Mr. Rochester, who was always cold and eccentric, and made him have a different affection for her.
Reading is the baptism of the spirit again and again, and in the accumulation of time, it creates an intellectual and elegant atmosphere, which will be with you.
A woman, from youth to twilight, ultimately relies on the "bookish qi" formed in this life.
* The beauty of the talented girl Lin Huiyin is beyond doubt, and there is no need to say much about her family background.
But this young lady is remembered by the world, not because of her beautiful appearance and so-called background, but because of her own talents.
She has written countless words in her life, and her unique fragrance is all present in these poems.
In "Wonderful Sayings", Jiang Sida said something that made people laugh:
"You can become a big star in one day, but you can't read Lin Huiyin in one day. ”
A woman's bookish spirit requires the precipitation of life experience and long-term knowledge accumulation, and after the baptism of books, it will naturally become intellectual and elegant, exuding a refreshing bookish charm from the inside out.
*: Visual China.
A professional woman in the workplace exudes the smell of confidence
Some time ago, I revisited a classic movie "The Queen Wears Prada":
The heroine Andy's dream is to become a newspaper reporter, but by accident she enters a fashion magazine and works as an assistant.
Although she experienced many setbacks along the way, Andy took her work seriously, and finally she successfully transformed from a small assistant to a good working woman.
She not only succeeded, but also evolved from a fashion novice to a dressing master, and she could blurt out the names of many fashion brands and designers, which amazed the entire magazine.
She can perfectly cooperate with the work of her superiors, and if she is the editor-in-chief, she can reach her destination in the shortest time.
In the end, Andy entered the newspaper as a reporter as he wished, and the whole person exuded an air of confidence.
Why do working women exude that mature and confident smell from the inside out?
Because of the realization of their self-worth in the workplace, but also because of the sense of security brought by economic independence.
A wise woman who will strive to be financially independent, not dependent on others, and live a high quality of life exudes a unique personality charm and is also worthy of admiration.
Not only do they have a big heart that is self-confident and self-consistent, but they also have the ability to pursue a better life.
Such a woman is in control of her own life.
*: Visual China.
Women are like flowers and fragrance, and every lovely woman has her own unique smell.
Proust said in "Reminiscences".
I soaked the cake in black tea, and when I ate it, the aroma of the pastry soaked in the tea made me vividly recall my childhood experience......
"When the years go by and everything disappears, only the smell wafting in the air lingers, making the past vivid. ”
Therefore, the smell is the time machine, and the flavors that remain in the memory are the romance that life gives us.
I hope that every woman can keep her own unique "fragrance" and live her own color in this world.
Author: Yueyu, a niche author who always believes in the power of words and is eager to use words to ** the heart.