A little secret between a couple. The couple is living happily on the surface, but in fact they are hiding an untold secret in their marriage, a secret that seems insignificant but almost changes their marriage...
Li Lin and Wang Ming are a couple who have been married for 7 years, and on the surface they live happily, with a car and a house and carefree. Li Lin is a middle school teacher, and Wang Ming works as a senior manager in a foreign company with a good income. The two children are also well-behaved and cute, the eldest is already in elementary school, and the second is in kindergarten.
The first time I met Li Lin was at a parent-teacher conference. She was gentle and generous, and had a good chat with the children's teachers. I noticed the diamond ring on her ring finger, and I guess she must be having a good time.
However, just a month later, Li Lin suddenly came to me, her eyes were red, and she said that there was a crack in her relationship with her husband. It turned out that Li Lin accidentally found that Wang Ming's computer had a large number of lover's chat records, and the content was very ambiguous. Li Lin was so angry that she quarreled with Wang Ming on the spot, but Wang Ming said that it was just a normal chat.
Li Lin's heart was like a knife, she couldn't believe that the person she loved the most would do such a thing behind her back. What made her even more sad was that Wang Ming was still dating in marriage, and she really cheated!
I watched Li Lin burst into tears and comforted her that there will always be bumps in her marriage, which made Wang Ming realize that mistakes are the most important. Li Lin cheered up and decided to continue this marriage for the sake of the children.
Marriage cracks will eventually bring estrangement. Li Lin began to be listless, irritable and irritable, and frequently set restrictions on Wang Ming, asking Wang Ming to hand over the passwords of all social accounts. Wang Ming also became reticent and uninterested, often working overtime until late to return home.
Such days lasted long in their marriage. Until one day, Wang Ming suddenly said to Li Lin, I really can't stand this endless supervision, let's divorce. Li Lin cried and begged Wang Ming to give him another chance, but Wang Ming was resolute.
And just like that, they walked into the courtroom, signed the agreement, and ended their 7-year marriage. Wang Ming soon got together with a female colleague, and I can often see photos of them in my circle of friends. Li Lin chose a blind date, but she always failed to find a suitable candidate.
The source of the breakdown of this marriage seems to be that Li Lin found out that Wang Ming was cheating in marriage. However, when I saw Li Lin again, who had experienced a lot of vicissitudes, she said to me with red eyes: "Actually, those chat records in Wang Ming's computer were actually left by me when I chatted with netizens. ”
I was stunned. Li Lin is dating someone online, but she framed her husband? Li Lin nodded: "Yes, in fact, I had a good chat with a male netizen, I knew that was wrong, so I set the account and password to be very similar to Wang Ming, for fear that one day he would check my mobile phone." ”
But why do you want to rely on Wang Ming's head? I asked, puzzled.
Li Lin said: "I drank too much that night, and Wang Ming just saw those chat records, so I panicked and quickly said that it was evidence of your cheating... Later, it just got darker and darker, and in the end we had to divorce. ”
I looked at Li Lin's self-blaming appearance, she already regretted it. A small lie, but it caused her to lose her true love and a complete home.
The road to marriage is full of thorns, and it is easy to stumble. I hope that all couples can tolerate each other's mistakes, communicate and understand more, resolve misunderstandings, and repair relationships. A lie or concealment will eventually be revealed, and the consequences will only be even worse.
This is the little secret I heard about this couple. An insignificant lie that almost changed the fate of their entire marriage. Once again, I witnessed the importance of honest communication, and once again realized that two people together need to understand, be tolerant and trust each other, which is more important than any words and commitments.
I hope that everyone will learn from this incident and not ruin their beautiful marriage because of a momentary mistake. May there be lovers in the world who will eventually become married!