Don t be someone else s lover, be a lover s woman, and in the end you will lose in these 3 points

Mondo Psychological Updated on 2024-02-25

I was 25 years old that year, had just started working, and I happened to be assigned to Mr. Wang's department. Mr. Wang is in his early 40s and is married, but he is still keen to pursue young and beautiful female subordinates. At first, I was not interested in Mr. Wang's overtures, but gradually, under his dedication and rhetoric, I was also moved.

Mr. Wang said that the relationship between him and his wife had long since broken down, and he only maintained a superficial marriage for the sake of his children. He promised me that he would divorce his wife and stay with me when he had a foundation for his career. I originally insisted that I would never intervene in other people's marriages, but under Mr. Wang's careful attack, I still couldn't hold it and started an underground relationship with him.

The two of us often go on dates secretly, and Mr. Wang will always give me expensive gifts. For a moment, I was intoxicated by this secret passion, as if I was about to become my new sister-in-law. It wasn't until one day that Mr. Wang's wife came to the door, and I realized that Mr. Wang had been lying, that he had a good relationship with his wife, and that I was completely a third party.

Mr. Wang turned his face in front of me and his wife, saying that I was taking the opportunity to seduce and make trouble, and I was very innocent. Only then did I realize that Mr. Wang was just using me to get excitement and satisfy his desire for conquest, and he didn't take me seriously at all. His wife insulted me and demanded that the company fire me. In order to keep my job, I had to cry and apologize to Mr. Wang's wife, so that I didn't lose my job.

After that, I decided to regain my strength, work hard, and changed departments and never saw Mr. Wang again. But just when I was about to turn regular, Mr. Wang suddenly came to the door and said that he was obsessed with me and wanted to give me a sum of money as compensation. I knew that Mr. Wang's intentions were ill-intentioned and rejected him. Unexpectedly, Mr. Wang was so angry that he falsely accused me of being in the company, and fabricated evidence to frame me. Only then did I realize that in the eyes of Mr. Wang, I was just a pawn that could be sacrificed at any time.

After this lesson, I finally recognized the reality, resolutely stayed away from Mr. Wang, and no longer easily believed in men's rhetoric. I'd rather be alone and struggle than be a helpless mistress or a lover for others to play with. The most precious thing in life is youth and dignity, and I will protect it with diligence and bravery. Now I have a successful career and have found a partner who truly loves me. Looking back on that year, I am glad that I stopped the loss in time and chose to turn back, so as not to be completely ruined in the whirlpool of feelings.

On the stage of life, every girl should be her own protagonist, cherishing herself and loving herself is more important than anything else.

In the world of love, a man's sweet words may be like seductive honey, but believing them too easily can put oneself in a difficult situation. It is necessary to be vigilant for those who will only use rhetoric to confuse you.

Some girls may inadvertently become a third party in someone else's relationship, and such a choice will not only put themselves in a painful situation, but also hurt other innocent people.

Characters like Xiao San are always helpless, because they lose themselves in other people's love. People who treat you sincerely will not let you fall into such a predicament, they will respect your feelings, and they will not let you be wronged in any way.

There will always be many unsatisfactory things in life, and we need to have the courage to face the cruelty of reality. Sometimes, when you look back in time, you will find the beauty that has been overlooked. When you feel lost in the journey of life, don't forget to look back at the people and things that have accompanied you, and you will find that the sun is still shining and the world is still beautiful.

Girls, remember that loving yourself is the most important thing. Only by loving yourself first can we love others better. Don't be fooled by men's rhetoric, and don't be a helpless junior. Choose to face the reality, turn back in time, and you will find the sunshine and beauty that belong to you.

Related Pages