The marriage of a young man in the countryside to a second-married woman has sparked heated discussions, and the jokes in the comment section are constantly funny
Foreword: It has become a social phenomenon that older men in rural areas have begun to marry second-married women. In this world, everyone has their own past and choices, and the marriage choices of second-married women must be understood and respected. This article will explain the reasons and effects behind this phenomenon, as well as the various opinions and discussions of netizens in the comment area.
There are multiple reasons for the phenomenon of older men in rural areas marrying second wives.
The imbalance in the gender structure of men and women in rural areas and the exodus of the population have exacerbated the difficulties of older young men in finding suitable wives. As the younger generation moves to the cities to work, it is often men who remain in the countryside, while fewer women are of working age. At the same time, the weight of high bride price, the economic pressure of buying a house and a car, and the evolution of the concept of marriage have all affected the marriage choices of these young people to a certain extent. Therefore, the second wife, who was once marginalized by society, began to become the marriage choice of some older young people. This phenomenon is not only a challenge to the traditional concept of marriage, but also an adaptation and response to the practical dilemma.
Expansion: As society changes and develops, the demographics and values of rural areas are also evolving. The traditional concept of marriage is being challenged and re-examined by modern society, and people are beginning to pay more attention to personal choices and happiness. In this context, it has become a trend for older men in rural areas to marry for the second time. After experiencing the ups and downs and changes of marriage, second-married women tend to be stronger and more independent, with a more mature outlook on life and emotional experience. Their experiences attract these older men and become new beginnings in each other's lives. This choice of marriage is both an affirmation of the past and a promise of happiness in the future.
The reactions in the comments section of netizens were varied.
1) Netizens have different attitudes towards second-married women, with some expressing disunderstanding and others expressing support. Among them, some netizens said that there is nothing wrong with second marriage, divorce is a brave choice, and emphasized that the marriage relationship should be based on respect and understanding. They believe that society should be more tolerant and understanding of women's choice of second marriage, and abandon prejudice and discrimination against women. In a life that is not easy, everyone should have the right to choose their own happiness, and should not be bound by traditions and ideas.
2.Another group of netizens expressed their hesitation and rejection of second marriage. Some said that they could not accept a second marriage and would rather live a single life; Some people think that second-married women are more responsible and responsible, and are a better choice for some older men, but they are still resistant to second-marriage. These perspectives reflect society's complex perceptions and attitudes towards marriage and the family.
Amplification: In the comment section, netizens have a wide range of opinions, reflecting the diversity and complexity of society's choices about marriage. Some were in favour of respecting each person's right to choose and that more understanding and support should be given to second-married women. They stressed that marriage is based on mutual respect and understanding and should not be limited by outdated ideas. Others, on the other hand, are conservative and skeptical and repulsive about marriages with a history of second marriage. They may be influenced by traditional beliefs and cannot fully accept non-traditional forms of marriage. Together, these different perspectives and attitudes constitute a pluralistic understanding of marriage and family in society, and also reflect each person's unique cognitive and emotional experience when choosing marriage.
Conclusion: Respect and inclusion are fundamental principles based on individual agency.
In modern society, the choice of marriage should be based on the will and well-being of the individual, and should not be limited by traditional or social ideas. There is nothing wrong with second-married women, and divorce is not a shame, but a brave choice. With the help of voices and reactions in the comment section, we can better understand and respect everyone's choices and experiences, and eliminate prejudice and discrimination against second-married women. Everyone should have the right to pursue their own happiness, regardless of their marital background, and should be respected and understood. With these ideas and beliefs, society will become more inclusive and open, creating more choices and possibilities for everyone.
Abstract:This paper conducts an in-depth study of the phenomenon of second marriage among older men and young people in rural areas, and analyzes the reasons and influencing factors behind it. By observing and summarizing the reactions of netizens in the comment area, it shows the diversity and complexity of social marriage choices. Finally, the conclusion stresses that respect and tolerance are fundamental principles based on the right of individual choice, and that everyone should have the right to pursue their own happiness and should not be limited by old ideas. It is hoped that the future society will be more open and understanding, and provide more space and possibilities for everyone's choice.