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To be a person and do things, you must know 11 "unspoken rules" of human nature! (Necessary for social survival).
The "unspoken rules" of human nature 1Human nature is selfish, people at all times, are to put themselves first, the first consideration must be their own interests, few people can make exceptions, you should not be lucky, feel that you will encounter this kind of exception, otherwise, most of the time you will be disappointed, will be hurt.
The "unspoken rules" of human nature 2Human nature is a strong mentality, and at the same time, it likes to bully the soft, the more you whisper to people, the lower you are.
Fourth, nod your head, the more others look down on you, the more they don't take you seriously, the stronger and tougher you are, the more others will respect you.
The "unspoken rules" of human nature 3This society, in essence, is a jungle society with rules of the game, but the rules have always been formulated by the strong to restrain the weak, you can and should respect the rules, but don't be bound by the rules in all words and deeds, otherwise, you can only become more and more mediocre.
The "unspoken rules" of human nature 4One of the major weaknesses of human nature is laziness, especially laziness in learning, more than 90% of people in this society, after leaving the school gate and entering the society, are no longer learning, if you can be a few people who continue to study, you can surpass 90% of people.
The "unspoken rules" of human nature 5There is no fuss about human nature being hypocritical, and it is often not his true face that is exposed to others, but you have to watch out for those who deliberately pretend to be hypocritical to you, they want you to let down your guard and then attack you.
The "unspoken rules" of human nature 6If you want to influence and control a person, or make that person do what you say, remember to instill a set of concepts of benevolence, righteousness and morality in the other person first, that is, the right word, and at the same time, you should also be careful of the person who will tell you all kinds of great truths as soon as you come up.
The "unspoken rules" of human nature 7When you get along with people and weigh everything from the perspective of interests, you will rarely get hurt, at least not too much, and you will become smarter and smarter. On the contrary, if everything is about feelings, you are vulnerable, which is also human nature.
The "unspoken rules" of human nature 8If someone helps you, you should not only thank you verbally, but also in your heart, and repay the opportunity in time. If you help others, don't expect too much from them, and don't claim to be a benefactor, otherwise, the other party may resent you.
The "unspoken rules" of human nature 9For example, the people you want to see when you trek through mountains and rivers and across oceans and seas are likely not to want to see you, and they won't even remember you, because they only want to see people they want to see when they trek mountains and rivers and cross oceans.
The "unspoken rules" of human nature 10To survive in society, people can have little education, they can not have a high education, but they can't not not study, especially to learn human nature and unspoken rules, so as to see through people's hearts and control the initiative of interpersonal communication.
The "unspoken rules" of human nature 11When you invite guests to dinner, or when you have any happy events, you would rather not invite everyone in a group, rather than pull down one person in this group, people can not come, if you don't invite, it is equivalent to a severance order.
In short, social survival, being a man and doing things, understanding human nature and unspoken rules is very important, the above sharing is just part of it, if you want to learn and understand more, the following will recommend a set of classics for you to be a man and do things, "Be a man to be scheming, do things to be smart" + "Be a man to be shrewd, do things to be smart", a book "Understanding Human Nature" and a book of "Unspoken Rules".
First of all, this set of "Be a man must be scheming, do things must be skillful" + "Be a shrewd person, do things smartly", are all popular bestsellers in the category of being a person and doing things, and are deeply loved by readers and friends. Read through this set of "Be a man with scheming, do things with skill" + "Be a man to be shrewd, do things wisely", not only can help you cultivate the scheming and city government of being a man, but also help you master the skills and means of doing things, and be invincible in this society! If you want to comprehensively improve your ability and level of being a person and doing things, don't miss this classic set of "Be a man with scheming and do things with skill" + "Be a smart man, be smart in doing things"!
Speaking of the above "Understanding Human Nature", the author Adler is a world-renowned master of psychology, and Adler uses profound psychoanalysis to thoroughly analyze the truth of human nature for us, but it is not obscure to read. Read this book "Understanding Human Nature" attentively, learn to see, understand and use human nature, help you control the initiative of interpersonal relationships and even life, and also help you understand the unspoken rules of society. This classic "Understanding Human Nature", if you haven't read it, it is undoubtedly a big pity, don't miss it again this time.
The last recommended "Unspoken Rules" is a classic work of the famous university scholar Mr. Wu Si who has influenced at home and abroad for more than 30 years, and it is also the origin of the word unspoken rules. Although this "Unspoken Rules" is from the perspective of interpreting historical events, it expounds for us the unspoken rules that govern the operation of ancient society, but it also has enlightening significance for us to understand the unspoken rules and human nature of modern society. In addition, with this "Unspoken Rules" set of "Understand a Little Human Feelings Every Day", "The Art of Doing Things", and "Playing is Scheming", are also must-read classics for social survival, click on the link above, you can choose a single book or a set to read. (Exclusive content of Baijiahao).