How do you understand that you can save yourself? That is, do not pin your initial or all hopes on others, but take the first step yourself; "One life, two, two, three, three and all things" you want to come out of "one", can you expect someone to come to you every day and ask you, "Do you need me to save you?" "You have to let people know you're crying for help.
Human nature is sufficient" other people's help is only an auxiliary, the most fundamental need to rely on yourself, the so-called "teach people to fish is not as good as teach people to fish" fish can save you from hunger for a while, then do you want to learn "fishing" choose in your own, after learning your own fishing, you are not afraid of hunger;
There has never been a savior, even if there is a universal world, it will not be for you alone; Only those who save themselves have a chance to be saved; To help, you have to ask for help first, and before you ask for help, you have to have the desire to be saved from your heart, which is self-help, which is the original cause, which is the "one" in "one life, two, two, three, three and three things".
Take physical health as an example, only you can save yourself, "go to the cure before the disease", most diseases are caused by their own factors, and often ultimately come down to eating habits, do you usually balance your diet and eat regularly? Then there are external factors, such as bacteria, viruses, wind and cold, etc., which are related to personal immunity and resistance, and on the one hand, you should strengthen exercise, on the other hand, you should also pay attention to a balanced diet and regular diet; There is a saying that "illness comes from the mouth" is still very reasonable.
Therefore, you yourself are your own "doctor" - pay attention to your diet, strengthen exercise to prevent the occurrence of diseases, and in this sense, you can save yourself.
Nowadays, I often look at and hear about what someone has been kidnapped, someone has been killed, and other similar news and reports, and I often think "If I am the party, what should I do?" If it's my child, how can I educate him to cope? "Panic and fear are certain at the moment of the event, but is panic and fear useful? What happens after being panicked and scared? Despair? Expecting someone to come to the rescue? You have to save yourself first! First of all, take a few deep breaths, calm your mind first, observe (the offender), think, wait for the time to seek help, and don't annoy the offender when the time comes; On the contrary, if you are panicked and afraid that the six gods have no master, and your heart can't calm down, this is the heart of a criminal, and you are not saving yourself but harming yourself!
So, in this sense, "only you can save yourself".
Some people say that they are not very confident, so is the "self-confidence" given to you by others? Self-confidence is only slowly cultivated by yourself in practical actions, and it is also related to your own level of thinking and cognition, for example, if your ability level is 3, you have to compare with people with ability level 7 or even higher? At this time, you recognize yourself, work silently, and wait for your level to reach 7 or higher, and then compare with him, you will naturally be full of confidence;
So, in this sense, "only you can save yourself".
So, believe in yourself, you are unique, and in the end only you can save yourself, but don't blindly believe in yourself, be overly arrogant, and humbly ask for help when it's time to avoid unnecessary damage.