In the days of being single, I have become accustomed to living alone, and I am almost immune to those romantic things. However, just when I felt like I had adjusted to being single, an unexpected love affair changed everything. It wasn't a tacit understanding between me and my buddy, but an emotional shock that caught me off guard.
It happened on an ordinary weekend and I was spending time at home at a leisurely pace. The phone rang and showed an unfamiliar number. Puzzled, I answered**, but I didn't expect a familiar female voice to come from the other end. It turned out to be Xiaoyu, an old friend who hadn't been in touch for many years.
Hey, long time no see! How is everything? There was a heartwarming intimacy in her voice.
Hi Xiaoyu! What an accident, how are you doing? "I was a little surprised, I didn't expect that after all these years, she would still remember my number.
Xiaoyu told me that she had just moved to the city recently and was thinking of finding someone familiar to hang out with. So, we made an appointment and met on a sunny afternoon.
When we met, I found that Xiaoyu was still so young and beautiful, and she hadn't changed much from her many years ago. We chatted and chatted, reminiscing about the campus life back then, and there were many jokes. Gradually, I found myself feeling something different about this old friend I hadn't seen in years.
Hey, why are you a little different? Xiaoyu inadvertently broke the silence, her eyes flashing with a hint of cunning.
I laughed at her discovery and scratched my hair in embarrassment. "Maybe it's because I haven't seen each other for too long, and people will change a little. ”
Xiaoyu smiled, and there was a hint of deep meaning in her eyes. "I think you're more mature and more masculine. ”
It came as a surprise to me, after all, I had always been nicknamed "Big Boy" by my friends. Could it be that being single for a long time has really made me mature unconsciously?
The next few times we met, we became more and more acquainted. The appearance of Xiaoyu made me re-experience the sweetness and warmth of love. I once lost interest in romance, but I unconsciously integrated into this sweet relationship.
However, it also made me think, does being single for a long time really make people allergic to romance? Perhaps, it is not that we are allergic to romance, but that in our lonely days, we gradually forget the taste of sharing happiness with others. When someone comes into our lives again and ignites a small flame in our hearts, we will feel that special happiness.
I learned a lot in this relationship. First of all, I learned to reopen my heart and accept new possibilities. I used to close myself off the walls of singleness, and now I'm willing to open up to this unexpected and beautiful relationship.
Secondly, I learned that being in love is not a terrible thing. I used to feel that I had no chance with romance, but I found that I could find my own little happiness in love. This has given me a whole new perspective on love, and I no longer simply categorize it as a "romantic allergy".
And most importantly, I learned to be independent in relationships. Although I was delighted to meet Xiaoyu, I still understood that personal independence and pursuit are indispensable. Falling in love is only a part of life, not the whole story. While enjoying love, I was still able to maintain my personality and unique charm.
Perhaps, this is a different feeling of suddenly falling in love after being single for many years. It's not a tacit understanding between buddies, but a wonderful adventure with a conversation with yourself. In the process, I got to know myself again, regained the love brain I had lost, and made my life more colorful.
Overall, this experience of being in a relationship made me realize that being single for a long time is not a sin, but a stage where I can grow better. When the opportunity to fall in love comes, we must dare to welcome it and embrace this beauty with a new mentality. Perhaps, inadvertently, you will find that falling in love is not terrible, but a beautiful adventure.
Now I am no longer the bachelor who is immune to romance, but a brave man who is willing to adventure in love. Perhaps, you can also try to break the shackles of singleness and embrace the unknown love adventure. You will find that the colors in your life become richer, and you will become more vivid because of love.
Finally, I would like to ask you, have you ever had a similar experience? What does it feel like to suddenly fall in love after being single for many years? Feel free to share your stories and opinions in the comment section, and let's discuss this wonderful topic about love together.