Love is a beautiful thing, and how joyful it is to enjoy it when we are mature enough to deal with the problems it brings. Love is always generously presented to those who can love and know how to love, giving them the best enjoyment. But love has become a kind of torture, because fate is blind, and sometimes we accidentally meet people who don't know how to love.
Zhao Yu and Eunjuan attended the same girls' school when they were in middle school. At that time, Zhao Chong was still an ugly duckling. And Eunjuan is not pretty, mainly because she is overweight. After graduating from girls' school, her father helped her get married, of course, everyone knew that the other party was interested in the family's money. So, in order to escape marriage, Zhao Ya lived with her aunt and entered college with the secret help of her mother.
However, this problem was soon discovered by his father, causing Zhao Jue to fall into no economy. As a last resort, she began to work north to support herself. However, after graduating, Enju married a Jewish man and went to Chongqing. After the war, the Jews established their own state, and Enjoo's wife used her husband's position to become the wife of a politician, and the family immigrated to the United States.
Soon after getting married, Eunzhu returned to Shanghai from Chongqing and met Zhao Jue once. At that time, Qiao Jue, who had transformed into a beauty, still firmly believed that "purposeful love is not true love", and seemed to be reluctant to accept Eunzhu's "benefit marriage" which caused a commotion. It's done. Her conversation was full of condescension.
Zhao Jue later married a university teacher and moved to the United States. However, her relationship with her husband does not seem to be very deep, and after the founding of the People's Republic of China, her husband returned to the mainland alone, while Zhao Jue stayed in Washington alone to support herself.
She writes a letter to Eun-joo, who was already famous at the time, asking him to offer her a job. Of course, I never thought about remarrying, but maybe I was thinking in my heart, while thinking about myself, my family, and society, falling in love or getting married, not love, I don't know.
But when she saw Eun in the newspaper and heard the news that Zhu was on the same boat with **, I couldn't help but feel bitter in my heart.
When Zhao Jue was studying in a girls' school, she had a crush on a pioneer classmate from the same school. When she gave a speech from the podium, Zhao Jue was deeply impressed by her heroism. When she graduated, Zhao Jue gave her a pair of silver vases. Later, after a classmate who had little contact with her went to Beijing to study at university, she actually came to visit her and took the initiative to write a letter to her.
Zhao Jue suddenly understood that this classmate was just thinking about Zhao Jue's feelings for her, cultivating her to be a revolutionary, and receiving financial support from her family. Zhao Jue had already made up his mind and would not contact her again.
Even though we didn't see each other until decades later, I still had a bad premonition.
When you are young, you must experience love. Whatever the outcome, don't complain, doubt, or regret it. When love begins, treat it with the most sincere heart, and when love ends, let go with the most grateful heart.
If a woman can maintain her innocence for the rest of her life, whether she gets true love or not, it will not affect her pursuit of true love. However, a woman's heart is often shaken, and although she can't wait to find true love, she misses the marriageable age and has to rush to find a man she feels comfortable with and get married. No true love, no economy, no status, is the greatest sorrow of a woman.
The selection criteria for marriage and love may be different, but if two people want to live together, it is not possible to live without a little love.
The reasons why women love men are always complicated. Tall, handsome, conspicuous, financially well-off, well-off, old, willing to endure everything to make herself live well, all of this has a purpose. It's love.
Love is a beautiful thing, and if you are able to grow and deal with the problems it brings, you will be able to enjoy it happily. Love is always generously presented to those who can love and know how to love, giving them the best enjoyment.
But love has become a kind of torture, because fate is blind, and sometimes we inadvertently meet people who don't know how to love.
We value love, we only want to rely on it and not give it, and we have jealousy, possession, and destruction in our hearts. We desire to be loved, but we are not willing to give. Can such a mind understand the eternal existence of love itself?
It's easy to say I love you, it takes less than a second, but it takes a lifetime to practice love.
Many people have lost their once beautiful love. Years later, when you look back, you will say, "It's not reality that conquered love, I just didn't have the courage to take it on at that time." "Loving someone with all your heart is hard, not easy, and requires too much time and effort. And love is even more difficult to survive in this materialistic world. To cultivate love, in fact, more gratitude is needed. ”
When love comes to you, thank God for giving you such beautiful love. You have to start learning to love. Whenever you receive love, thank God (her). Poverty, wealth, loneliness, health, or sickness, I have never abandoned you.
I will never let you go. This kind of love is worth cherishing with your heart. When love is lost, I thank you for having such pure and complex love. It taught me to grow and, in the process of losing, to love.
Gratitude is a more stable and lasting love. This is not a momentary surge of emotion, but a deep feeling and understanding. It has no personal bias and does not elicit an emotional response. It teaches us how to love, how to transform what we have into warmer, more powerful power to illuminate others. It allows you to reflect your heart to others. The ego makes your heart calm and peaceful, but at the same time full of the strongest beliefs. Because tolerance is an innate human quality. This love never goes away, it just is often forgotten.
Life is short, but don't think there is no way. Remember, love is the only way. As Stetson said, one cannot live without love, especially the one you love. It's bad not to be loved, but love teaches you to grow and take responsibility, even if you can't rely on your instinct to love. In fact, people learn to love in the process of loss.
Love is the most beautiful thing in the world, but how many of us really feel its beauty? In the east, there are Liang Sanbo and Zhu Yingtai, and in the west, Romeo and Juliet, these "tragedies" have existed for thousands of years. Over the years, it has become a legend.