The process of blind date emphasizes the importance of fate and makes people believe that fate will arrange the most suitable person for us. Through blind dates, we have the opportunity to meet people who may share our goals and ideals, an opportunity that is sometimes difficult to obtain in everyday life. Blind date makes us believe that maybe true love is not far away, just waiting for the arrangement of fate.
However, there are also some pros and cons to blind dates. While it provides people with the opportunity to meet potential partners, it can sometimes be overemphasized by fate and neglected to understand real human interactions and understandings. Sometimes, blindly believing in fate can also lead to a neglect of true emotions and the choice of an unsuitable partner in order to cater to the so-called fate. Therefore, in the process of blind date, in addition to believing in fate, we must also remain rational and truly understand each other, so as to find the truly suitable person.
But as adults, we all understand that although we also pay attention to fate when we go on a blind date, most of the time, we still pay attention to interests, and the so-called big things are done under the weighing of pros and cons.
Most of the men and women who go on a blind date, the vast majority of them will not be just one person, but to see a few, the purpose of looking at people, one is to find a person with a suitable appearance, age and character, and second, to find a person with better material conditions.
Sometimes, going around in a big circle, I still go back to the original point, and I still feel that the previous phase is appropriate. What do you think about these?
Recently, a woman in Heze, Shandong Province was invited by a blind date to let the woman come out to chat and talk, and said that she wanted to send a surprise to the woman.
The woman was a little reluctant, after all, this blind date was a blind date with herself before, and after the blind date, the man did not fall in love with the woman, but disliked the woman a little.
For a blind date who dislikes herself, it is understandable that the woman is uncomfortable, so she is also very entangled in whether she should go to the woman, but the woman finally went.
The woman accepted the invitation after struggling for several reasons
First of all, the woman is relatively tall, and it is not easy to find a suitable one, and the reason why this man disliked women before was mainly because he disliked women for being tall. Although many girls want long legs and a thin waist, they are not so popular in real life if they are too tall. And this blind date seems to be more suitable.
Secondly, the woman still has a good impression of this man, after all, it looks like a good match for herself, and now that the other party is back to contact her, the woman naturally agrees to see if there is any possibility of continuing.
Moreover, this man seems to be serious this time, not only took the initiative to invite the woman, but also deliberately prepared some gifts, as a surprise to the woman, which can be regarded as attentive.
After the woman came to the agreed place, the blind date opened the trunk, and sure enough, there were some fireworks in it, the woman was very happy, picked up the fireworks and played non-stop, and seemed to be more satisfied with the man's intentions.
In this regard, some netizens said, you don't see that others are attentive, but you have taken a fancy to his Audi car, otherwise, you would agree so happily?
Some netizens said: Economic strength is the most important thing, what is the intention of a few fireworks? Without this car, it's no wonder that you can be happy, and you won't meet anyone in person.
What netizens said is actually somewhat reasonable, if the man is not strong, will the woman agree to the man's invitation?
From the girl's words, we can know that this man is the first object of the woman, and after he dislikes the woman, he looks back with a lot of girls, and only after finding that there is no suitable one, he comes back to find this girl.
But then again, isn't that what blind dates are all about? Strangers pick each other and seek the right fit.
Aren't men choosing, women choosing? It's just that everyone's choice is different.
Nana said
"In blind dates, we pay attention to the fit of fate, and at the same time, we have to carefully weigh the interests, so as to ensure that our emotional foundation is solid and our lives are harmonious and happy. ”