People are mutual, with the courtesy, pay attention to the courtesy, pay attention to the sophistication of the world, the relationship can be close and close.
But not all people and things are worth saluting;
Not all gifts can be given.
The following three kinds of etiquette, in fact, you can not follow, otherwise, the money will not only be wasted, but also add blockage to yourself, don't be a stupid wrongdoer, it's really unnecessary, smart people have long been gone.
There is no relationship or friendship with colleagues, everyone is just running around for a living and a living.
Many people don't care about money, but about the other person's heart; You have given sincerely, but you have not been rewarded.
What's even more excessive is that some colleagues, when they want to return the gift, they pretend to be crazy and stupid and refuse to return it.
You must know that not all people deserve to be honest with themselves. Sincerity for sincerity, and if you can't change it, turn around.
In daily life, you must know how to distinguish which people are worthy of deep friendship, and which people are just holding the psychology of taking advantage of you to associate with you, the former is worthy of courtesy, and the latter is not worthy of your money.
Many people will encounter a situation where classmates who have not been in touch for a long time suddenly give themselves a **;
He suddenly contacted you enthusiastically in order for you to give him money as a gift;
Giving a gift is a heart, and it is also a proof of a good relationship.
At this time, I advise you not to follow the courtesy, first, there is no emotional foundation between you, and you can't talk about what intersection you can have in the future, and taking the money out is basically giving the other party a face, causing a certain loss to yourself;
If you don't follow the courtesy, it won't affect your quality of life, so don't waste your effort on them.
This kind of gift that has not been in touch for a long time, maybe what people care about is not their relationship with themselves at all, but they just accidentally remembered that they can make up some money.
Therefore, whether it is a friend or a relative, it is necessary to contact in order to get closer and closer, and if the two parties do not contact each other for a long time, then there is no need to be close.
Stay away from such people as soon as possible, and you won't have much to lose.
As the saying goes, "come and don't be rude", the matter of courtesy also needs to have back and forth.
If someone else doesn't invite you for a happy event, but you come uninvited, or give it away, it's impolite. This kind of ceremony, called uninvited ceremony, is an unwelcome ceremony.
Not only is it thankless to contribute money and effort, but it will also make you physically and mentally exhausted; This kind of unilateral effort is really not worth it. When you meet such a person, no matter how good the relationship is, there is no need to be courteous.
Summary: Adults should treat their interpersonal relationships correctly, spend every amount of money on the "blade", if you follow any courtesy, you will not only suffer more losses, but also bring some unnecessary trouble.