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In a blink of an eye, it has reached the third day of the Lunar New Year, and we are all happily in the in-laws' house and mother's house to worship the New Year, and deeply feel the lively atmosphere of the New Year, so what to do on the third day of the new year? Isn't it also like the beginning of the new year.
1. Do you want to visit the New Year in the second year of junior high school?
During the Chinese New Year, the customs and traditions of each day are actually different, and the third day of the new year is also different from the beginning of the year.
First, the customs of the second year of junior high school, pay attention to "3 out".
The third year of junior high school sweeps the floor and does not go out, and the garbage is out
On the third day of the Lunar New Year, Xiaoli got up early, because Xiaoli felt that it was better to go to relatives earlier, if she went late, not only would it be difficult to walk on the road, but it would not feel good to visit the New Year too late.
However, after Xiaoli got up, she found that her parents had not gotten up yet, and her parents said that they could sweep the floor and collect garbage in the third year of junior high school, so Xiaoli wanted to reduce the burden of housework for her parents, so she picked up a broom and began to sweep the floor.
However, after Xiaoli's mother heard the sound of Xiaoli getting up and cleaning up the housework, her mother got up to check and found that Xiaoli was sweeping the floor, but she snatched the broom from Xiaoli's hand.
The moment the broom in Xiaoli's hand was taken away by her mother, Xiaoli thought to herself, "Mom is afraid that I will be tired".
But after my mother took the broom, she didn't say anything, but swept it herself, and said while sweeping the floor: "When you sweep the floor in the third year of junior high school, you can't sweep the floor like you, you have to sweep the floor like me." ”
Mom's words made Xiaoli a little confused, looking left and right, looking up and down, no matter how you look at it, you feel that your mother sweeps the floor and looks the same as herself? So, Xiaoli asked weakly, "What's the difference?" ”
Xiaoli's words made her mother look white, "On this day of the third day of junior high school, it is the broom day, and the sweeping floor cannot be carried out from the inside, but from the outside to the inside, which means to gather wealth. ”
Hearing her mother's explanation, Xiaoli suddenly realized.
The third day of junior high school does not go out to pay New Year's greetings
When her mother finished sweeping the floor and Xiaoli's father got up, Xiaoli excitedly asked her parents: "Whose house are you going to visit today?" After all, Xiaoli still misses the big red envelopes of her relatives, as well as delicious and fun.
Where to? Don't go anywhere, stay at home. Mom replied.
Xiaoli didn't take her mother's words seriously, she just thought that her mother was joking with herself, and she didn't take it to heart, and even took her mother's words as a "signal" to go out, so she began to wear a coat and prepare to go out.
Xiaoli's father saw Xiaoli's behavior and understood Xiaoli's thoughts, so he said: "What your mother said is true, let's not go out to pay New Year's greetings in the third year of junior high school." ”
Dad has always been not joking with himself, but after hearing Dad's words, Xiaoli realized that what Mom said was true. However, Xiaoli was very puzzled, why didn't she go out today? Aren't you all going out to pay New Year's greetings during the Chinese New Year?
Why don't you go out to greet the New Year today? Xiaoli asked her mother.
Today is Red Dog Day, Red Dog is a fierce god, meaning 'Red Mouth', that is to say, this day is prone to quarrels, and people quarrel, if you quarrel with people during the New Year, it is too unlucky, so this day will not pay New Year's greetings, to avoid disputes between relatives or something. The mother replied, "Oh", and Xiaoli seemed to be unwilling.
Seeing Xiaoli's listless appearance, my mother said again: "I have been busy for several days, and I have been visiting relatives in a row two days ago, and I am so tired that I am not able to do it today, so I can just rest and rest, clean the house, and relax leisurely, so that I can be more energetic in the next few days." ”
Xiaoli listened to her mother's words, thought about it and felt like that, so her mood was immediately different, and she was not so depressed if she didn't visit the door in the third year of junior high school, and her mood gradually improved.
In the third year of junior high school, he did not speak ill of him
After understanding why the third year of junior high school didn't visit relatives, Xiaoli stayed at home quietly.
However, Xiaoli found a strange thing, usually her mother always likes to nag herself, but today she always praises herself, and she doesn't scold herself for something, and she doesn't nag like usual, so Xiaoli asked her mother with a smile: "Can't you scold the child today?" ”
As far as you know", Xiaoli's mother also replied with a smile, "You can't scold your child in the third year of junior high school."
Hearing her mother's words, Xiaoli suddenly felt happy and in a much better mood, her mother didn't scold herself, which means that she was able to have fun.
Of course, although the mother doesn't scold, if the child is too "active", he will also be stopped by the parents.
In fact, the third year of junior high school does not speak ill of others, not only to say that parents do not beat and scold their children on this day, but also includes all kinds of bad words, unlucky words, and so on. And the object of not speaking ill is not only children, but also all people.
During the New Year, do not say unlucky words, do not swear, do not speak wildly, etc., in fact, it is to make the atmosphere of the New Year more pleasant.
For example, Xiaoli, when she heard that her mother would not scold herself on this day, she would be very happy in her heart, which really increased people's good mood during the Chinese New Year.
In the third year of junior high school, observing these customs will make our Spring Festival more meaningful and our mood will be better.
In addition, on the third day of the Lunar New Year, in addition to the "3 out", there are some customs that you can learn about:
Rats marry: According to legend, rats marry on the night of the third day of the new year, so we have to go to bed early in the third year of the new year so as not to disturb the rats.
Millet Day: The third day of the Lunar New Year is Millet's birthday, and rice is traditionally not eaten on this day so as not to affect the harvest of the coming year.
Burning the door god paper: In the third year of the junior high school, people will burn the door god and pine and cypress branches for the festival together.
Conclusion
By understanding the customs during the Chinese New Year, our Spring Festival will be more meaningful and ritualistic.
In addition, many customs during the Chinese New Year will actually make our lives happier on weekdays, such as not speaking ill of us, which will be more conducive to parenting and education, and more conducive to neighborhood relations.
Therefore, the significance of national culture may not be limited to a certain festival, but will affect every moment of our lives.
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