I have lived for more than 30 years, I go home for the Spring Festival every year, I figured it out this year, I don't want to come back in the future, it's useless to persuade me, even if I don't care if I'm not filial.
When I went home for the New Year this year, I will tell you a few of my feelings, I don't know if I am hypocritical, or if it is indeed like this.
1. After the New Year's visit on the morning of the first day of the new year, the next activity is immediately the organization of the bureau, the countryside likes to play cards too much, and some families can even organize 3 to 4 tables, regardless of men and women, regardless of age, everyone is very enthusiastic. This year, there is one less person in my family, they have to let me participate, otherwise they won't be able to form this game, I'm really not interested in participating, I might as well sleep and play with my mobile phone at that time, if I don't participate, they rely on the old and sell the old to say that I don't serve the countrymen in the city, it's just PUA, it's annoying.
2. Walking relatives is not the taste of childhood, when I was a child, I went to my grandmother's house, I felt that my aunts and uncles came back and everyone was very enthusiastic together, it was a heart-warming feeling, now I go to relatives, and after I arrived, I first asked for a good New Year, and then began to pretend to care about how you are doing in the city, what job, how much you earn a year, whether there is a partner, and when you plan to get married. You ask me how much I make, I ask you how much you make, she is jealous when you earn more, she laughs at you when you earn less, and many people like to brag, and those who earn 1 yuan can blow out the momentum of 100 yuan.
3. Peers are becoming more and more estranged, everyone does not live in the same city after work, and now when I go home, I see that there is no taste of childhood, and everyone no longer organizes parties, and it seems that they are not very interested. The younger generation doesn't know you at all, and the old people are silent.
So what exactly is the meaning of going home for the New Year? Who is it for? Instead of going home unhappy, I should be comfortable alone in the city where I work. The Spring Festival seems to be losing its value.