Wen Muxin and Jiang Zuomei Niang, two independent and very different women, live in the world of marriage, but find that this word is no longer a beautiful symbol for women. Recently, the archaeology of the straight man Wu Jing has been set off on the Internet, which made Xie Nan feel depressed and unwilling to marry him in the next life. At the same time, Yu Wenhong, the originator of medical beauty, did not have a satisfactory married life, and her husband, who was 20 years younger, made a series of requirements after being promoted, which made her feel unhappy.
Marriage is not an easy road for women with money and resources. After Yu Wenhong promoted her youngest husband Rolando, she found that the balance was broken. Originally, the two had reached a balance in terms of needs, but with Rolando's promotion, he began to put forward new rules and requirements. "On the day you got married, the comprehensive conditions of the two people were about the same, but when you used money to assist his career, you were already breaking this balance. Yu Wenhong has been divorced four times, but this time she failed to see this truth, and as a result, she suffered a lot in her marriage.
However, some women know how to manage marriage. Some netizens shared the experience of her sister, although her sister earned more than her husband, she never thought of promoting him. She understands that her husband's ability is suitable for a fixed salary and does not pursue power excessively. She often expresses her difficulties in life, which makes her husband feel concerned and considerate. This way of doing business made her marriage more stable.
In ancient and modern times, some women are good at grasping the seven inches of men, making married life more harmonious. Liang Qichao's original partner Li Huixian is one of them, when Liang Qichao moved his mind to take a concubine, Li Huixian tactfully reminded Liang Qichao with a letter, so that he took the initiative to withdraw his thoughts. Li Huixian's wisdom and empathy made Liang Qichao repent and reform in his marriage, and finally respected her.
Jiang Dongxiu also showed the ability to catch the man's seven inches, and she used scissors and scolding the street to successfully stop the relationship between Gu Tingye and her muse's cousin. Writer Li Xiaoyi believes that "men in certain professions, they are the first to die, the second to face, and the third to be reluctant to pay." Men's psychology and values require women to be good at insight and grasp their pain points, so as to maintain the balance of the marriage.
Eminya shared a very rational point of view that when her husband succeeds in his career, he is no longer the person he was at the beginning. At this time, the wife needs to love and respect her husband at the same time, understand the restructuring of the marital relationship, and the impact of money on the relationship between husband and wife. She used wisdom and rationality to get along with her husband who had a successful career and kept the family balanced.
However, sometimes it is not wise to be excessively humble. Wu Jing's career grew wildly, which made his heart swell, and Xie Nan's feelings for him stayed at the stage of the newlywed, which led to conflicts between the two. In this case, the woman needs to both understand her husband's success and remind him of the family and feelings in a timely manner. Being overly accommodating and praising may not be a wise choice in marriage.
Finally, Lin Wanyang's words pointed out an important point: "There is a lot of luck in the world, from the beginning, to the end, it is all planning. Women should be good at understanding humanity and planning in marriage, not only to love their husbands, but also to respect their efforts and successes. In the face of variables in marriage, be good at avoiding risks and planning well, so as to gain more security and happiness in marriage.
In this uncertain world of marriage, women need not only love, but also wisdom and the ability to be good at management. A woman who understands humanity and strategy can maintain balance in marriage, not only making herself happy, but also making the whole family more harmonious. I hope that every woman can find her own balance in marriage and enjoy a good life.
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