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01 The appearance of Sister-in-law Zhuang is a child daughter-in-law in the eyes of Da Zhuang and a small citizen in the eyes of Wen Li. At first, Da Zhuang didn't take Zhuang's sister-in-law seriously, and after marriage, he asked Zhuang's sister-in-law to serve him tea and water, and wait for him to wash his feet. The reason why Dazhuang married his sister-in-law Zhuang who he didn't love was because of his mother. Zhuang's sister-in-law came to Dazhuang's house at the age of ten, and later became Dazhuang's child daughter-in-law, which was completed under the operation of Dazhuang's mother. Dazhuang is a filial person, although he is unreliable on the surface, he still has a conscience in his bones. For the sake of his mother and for Sister-in-law Zhuang to survive, after all, Sister-in-law Zhuang has nominally become Da Zhuang's wife, Da Zhuang gave up Mei Mei, the object of free love, and married Sister-in-law Zhuang. After getting married, Dazhuang treated Zhuang's sister-in-law as a nanny, and Zhuang's sister-in-law was like a subordinate in front of Dazhuang. Although on the day of their wedding, Mei Mei took someone to Dazhuang's wedding, and Sister-in-law Zhuang secretly wiped her tears angrily, but Sister-in-law Zhuang still did not make trouble with Dazhuang, but accepted all this calmly. When she first got married, Zhuang's sister-in-law did not have any status at home, she listened to Dazhuang for everything, and she did all the work in the family, she was like a nanny of the landlord's family, working hard. 
02 The improvement of Zhuang's sister-in-law's status began to change after giving birth to her son. Since giving birth to her son, Da Zhuang began to care about and care about Zhuang's sister-in-law, and Zhuang's sister-in-law's status in marriage has also been improved. This is because not only Dazhuang likes his son, but Dazhuang's mother also likes her son, and Zhuang's sister-in-law gave birth to a son, which not only gave the Zhuang family a queen, but also gave her mother-in-law face, and also gave Dazhuang the capital to brag in front of Tong Zhi. Tong Zhi and Dazhuang are good buddies, Tong Zhi is stronger than Dazhuang everywhere, his status in the factory is higher than him, he is more educated than him, and the daughter-in-law he married is more beautiful than him, which is very damaging to Dazhuang's self-esteem. But Wen Li never gave birth to a son, and Sister-in-law Zhuang had a firstborn child, which gave Da Zhuang and Sister-in-law Zhuang face, and also allowed them to win back a game in front of Tong Zhi. In this way, Sister-in-law Zhuang is much tougher than when she first got married, and Sister-in-law Zhuang understands that her son is the weakness of Dazhuang, and she can use her son to control Dazhuang. In addition to giving birth to a son, Sister-in-law Zhuang also has a skill, that is, the ability to make the family better and better. 
During the difficult period, after Wen Li gave birth to her daughter, she lacked food and clothing, although she and Tong Zhi were both employees, but the salary was still not enough for a month's consumption. This is because Wen Li likes to dress up, and she also has the characteristics of a female literary youth, she likes to live a petty bourgeois life, and every time she is paid, she either buys new clothes, does her hair, or watches movies. The consumption of these things is much more expensive than the cost of living, so their family has become a moonlight clan, and they live on tight clothes and food every month, and then they have more children and have a harder time. But Sister-in-law Zhuang is different, she understands that in difficult times, eating enough is more important than face, plus she was born in the countryside and has the help of relatives, she and Dazhuang have a good life. She can cook, steam steamed buns, don't have to eat in the canteen, and there are few children at home, plus her careful budgeting, their family is thriving, so when Tong Zhi and Dazhuang are together, they are very envious of Zhuang's sister-in-law who can live. 
In this way, Dazhuang also psychologically recognized the ability of Zhuang's sister-in-law, and in difficult times, a woman who can live a life is much better than a beautiful woman. Sister-in-law Zhuang can not only live, but also take care of things. When Dazhuang and Tong Zhi divided the house together, Zhuang's sister-in-law inquired in advance about the policy of dividing the house by household registration, and then immediately moved the household registration of her in-laws, so that the size of the house with Tong Zhi's family was the same. However, when the house was really divided, the house of Dazhuang was 3 square meters smaller than that of Tong Zhifen, so Dazhuang found the factory leaders many times but did not solve it. So Sister-in-law Zhuang went to the factory to make a fuss, and what she said in front of the leader was reasonable, so she got the big house. This incident also made Sister-in-law Zhuang completely straighten her waist in front of Da Zhuang, and also completely changed her submissive status at home. Sister-in-law Zhuang is not simple, when she first got married, she knew that she had no place in Da Zhuang's heart, so she was willing to swallow her anger. 
Later, she gave birth to a son, she was good at status, and she had enough confidence, and then she ran a small family thriving, and was also assigned to a big house, her contribution to the family was greater than the other, and of course her status went up. This is also the wisdom of Sister-in-law Zhuang, she can bend and stretch, and she also knows how to judge the situation, and finally changed her status in the family. 03 The conflict between husband and wife arisesAfter Sister-in-law Zhuang gave birth to her son, she also had a talisman. Da Zhuang is a person who loves to mess with flowers and grass, and any little girl walks past him, he has to pat someone's buttocks. Sister-in-law Zhuang knows this, but she generally ignores it, and she doesn't be a person like Wen Li who can't rub sand in her eyes. But the relationship between Da Zhuang and Mei Mei aroused the anger of Zhuang's sister-in-law. In the face of Da Zhuang's spiritual derailment, what did Zhuang's sister-in-law do? She didn't make a big fuss like Wen Li, separated, divorced, and walked in three steps. She first sought death in front of Dazhuang to scare Dazhuang, and then told Dazhuang that if you want your son to have no mother, you will continue to date Meimei. 
After Zhuang's sister-in-law made such a fuss, Dazhuang was scared, and he also took care of his son, so he restrained a lot. Later, in the face of the fact that the woman outside wrote a love letter to Dazhuang, Zhuang's sister-in-law not only moved out her son and mother-in-law, but also threatened to return to the countryside, so that Dazhuang would have no son to accompany and no one to serve. Sister-in-law Zhuang also told Da Zhuang that she had told the woman's leader and made trouble in their unit. In this way, not only the woman lost face, but Dazhuang was also embarrassed, he had already seen his wife's ability to make a whole person, if he didn't cut off contact with the woman outside, then his life would not be easy. Sister-in-law Zhuang took Dazhuang in this way, and let Dazhuang retract her heart, not daring to do anything wrong, and also protecting her marriage. Compared with Tong Zhi's mental derailment, Wen Li's practice of hurting herself, Sister-in-law Zhuang can be said to be a step ahead, and everything she did hurt people who destroyed her marriage also had a deterrent effect on Dazhuang. Dazhuang can be so happy in this life, and it has a close relationship with Zhuang's sister-in-law. 
Sister-in-law Zhuang cleaned up the enemies of her marriage, treated Da Zhuang wholeheartedly, and did not have a cold war with Tong Zhi for a long time like Wen Li, Sister-in-law Zhuang did not hold grudges, she knew what she should do and what she should not do. She didn't separate, didn't divorce, and didn't hold grudges, so she firmly held the big village in her hands and realized her marital happiness. Written at the end: Wen Li and Tong Zhi have an emotional foundation, Sister-in-law Zhuang and Da Zhuang have no emotional foundation, but Sister-in-law Zhuang relied on her sobriety and patience to win a happy marriage for herself. It can be seen that in marriage, feelings are important, and management is even more important.