ModernSocialMedium,MarriageDiversity of ideas has become the norm. However, for an average parent, we always want to be able to see our children thereIn love, get married, and start a family to achieve their own happiness. However, when my 55-year-old mother learned the reason why her only 30-year-old son had never married, I couldn't help but break down and cry.
In the early years, the only child explained that his career was not stable, so he had not had the time and energy to find a suitable partner for him. The seemingly reasonable reason once made me have a certain understanding of his condition. However, as time went on, his excuses made me doubt the truth of them. In fact, whether he really doesn't want to get married, or just doesn't want to share his with melife。Such questions make me anxious.
As people get older, they are interested in:Marriagewill gradually increase expectations. Especially for those parents who have long wanted to find a suitable partner for their children, their children's marriage problems may become a pain in their hearts. In light of this, I once tried to think about the question of why some children always chase after careers and refuseMarriage？Perhaps, in the process of trying to build a career, they don't have enough energy and time to take care of itMarriageproblems; Perhaps, they are worriedMarriageIt will become a burden on the cause and will limit one's development and freedom; Or perhaps, they are afraidMarriagewill bring themselves the risk of not being able to ** andStress。Whether it is a personal choice or an outside influence, such reasons are understandable for this young generation. However, for a mother, such explanations are often not fully accepted and understood. I hope that my children can get married as soon as possible, form a happy family, and realize the value of their lives, which is the inner expectation of many parents.
WhileMarriagePerceptions among contemporary young people have also changed a lot. My son claims that marriage is no longer important for today's young people, who are more focused on personal freedom and independence, and believe that happiness can be achieved in other ways. When I heard his words, I was shocked and extremely disappointed. As a traditional mother, I have always believed in itMarriageThe sacredness and irreplaceability of such a view is simply a huge blow to the bottom line for me.
withSocialThe continuous progress and continuous development of the times, people are forMarriageand the family's perception is also undergoing profound changes. Conventional wisdomMarriageInstitutions are questioned and challenged, and the idea of individualism gradually becomes dominant. In the present daySocialYoung people pay more attention to the pursuit of self-realization and happiness. They will no longer beMarriageTreat it as an obligation or responsibility, but as part of a personal choice. They are more focused on developing their careers, pursuing their personal dreams, and more likely to complete their own growth and self-development before building long-term bonds with others. In addition, economicalStressMarriagerisks as well as increasing complexitySocialRelationships also make young people forMarriageMany doubts arise. To a certain extent, such ideas and currents of thought pose a challenge to family stability and traditional values. As parents, we often struggle to understand and accept such changes. However, we must acknowledge that everyone has the right to pursue happinessMarriageis no longer the only way to achieve happiness, and we should respect and understand the choices of young people.
In order to help my son find a suitable partner, my husband and I once asked someone to introduce him to a girlfriend, but he didn't even see him yet, and he felt that it was not suitable. Sadly, I once thought, is it not appropriate for me to choose the object for my son?
Finding the right partner is an important part of the quest for your own happiness. Parents are also struggling to find the right partner for their children. However, conflicts often arise when parents' choices do not match their children's expectations. Parents tend to make choices based on their own experiences and values, while children pay more attention to their personal feelings andEmotion。Such a difference can be disappointing and frustrating for both parties. At the same time, it also takes a certain amount of fate and timing to introduce the object. Some people may feel the recognition from their hearts when they meet for the first time, while others need more time together. As parents, we need to understand and respect our children's choices and give them more freedom and space to find their partner.
However, in the early hours of the morning, when I accidentally looked through my son's phone, I unexpectedly discovered a fact that shocked and unacceptable. In a **, the son and a boy looked at each other tightly, and then kissed each other. This scene completely broke me down, and my heart was filled with unacceptable pain and confusion.
The level of understanding and acceptance of sexual orientation varies from region to region and culture. Although the acceptance of homosexuality has been tolerated and understood by the younger generation, it is still a challenge for middle-aged and older people to accept and fully understand homosexuality. For me, as a traditional mother, I never imagined that I would have such a strong reaction and unacceptable pain to this. However, it is maturingSocialThe concept and values education has made me understand that everyone has the right to pursue their own happiness, whether heterosexual or homosexual. Although this is a huge challenge and collision for me, I believe that love is genderless, as long as my son truly loves this person, and the other party really loves him, then I, as a mother, should understand and accept them.
Despite the pain in my heart, I decided to face this terrible thing. That morning, I called my son ** and asked him to come to my house. He nervously asked me what was going on, and I just said I wanted to talk to him face to face. In order to make my son feel at ease, I prepared a cup of hot tea in advance and waited for him to arrive.
When we face some difficulties and challenges, it is the best choice to face them bravely and solve them. As a mother, although I was full of contradictions and pain, I decided to face this dilemma and be honest with my son. We need to give our children more understanding and support, respect their choices, and try to communicate and communicate with them.
The moment my son walked through the door, I saw the uneasiness and vulnerability in his eyes. I held his hand tightly and said softly, "Son, mom saw you."Circle of friends。The son looked up, his eyes filled with tears. He began to tell his story, the contradictions and struggles he had experienced for so long.
As a parent, we should build a good communication and trusting relationship with our children. When we understand the confusion and struggles of children, we need to listen to their stories and give them support and comfort. It is only through honest dialogue and exchange that we can better understand the real needs and feelings of children.
My son told me that he felt different from a young ageEmotiontendency, but he has always tried to hide and suppress his heart. He was afraid of me and my father as wellSocialofStress, afraid of losing our love and support, so he chose to remain silent. He had a period of deep inner struggle and self-denial. He went through a long period of psychological anguish and inner struggle.
Sexual orientation is an innate trait that is a unique part of every human being. However, due toSocialMany comrades will face a huge psychology in the process of growing upStressand inner struggles. They are afraid of being beenSocialcondemnation and discrimination, fear of losing the support of family and friends. Such inner pain and distress cannot be ignored for them, and we need to accept and support them with empathy and understanding.
After listening to my son's heartfelt words, I hugged him tenderly and couldn't help but cry. I told him that I would always be his strongest support, and that I would always love him no matter who he was or who he liked. I promised him that I would do my best to eliminate itSocialprejudice and discrimination, for him to fight for the respect and equality he deserves.
Mother's loveIt is selfless, determined, and unconditional. No matter what difficulties and challenges the child faces, the mother's love is unwavering. We should understand and accept our children's choices with an inclusive mindset and provide them with a safe and warm environment. Mother's loveThe power is powerful and infinite, and it can help children overcome difficulties and pursue their own happiness.
At this moment, I am determined to face this reality with my son and provide him with the most solid support. I solemnly promised him that no matter what he chooses, I will always stand by his side and work for his happiness.
As parents, we should always keep an open mind and accept and respect our children's choices. We should pledge to provide them with the most solid support and assistance when they encounter difficulties and challenges. Our love should be unconditional, and whether we are heterosexual or gay, our children deserve to be loved and respected.
As a mother, I used to feel pain and distress when faced with the reasons why my children could not get married. However, when I discovered my son's authentic orientation, I understood some facts. Whether it's chasing a career or refusingMarriageEveryone has their own choices and values. As parents, we should be more understanding and respectful of our children's choices. Whoever they are, we should all take it as they areMother's loveand a supportive attitude to accept them and give them the truest love and companionship. Mother's loveIt is often a warm and strong force that can help children overcome difficulties and move forward. I believe that with love and acceptance, our families can be better.