Hello everyone, I am your friend, a veteran emotional expert who has been in the emotional world for many years. Today, let's not talk about the wind and snow, don't talk about romantic love words, let's talk about the truths of life that pierce people's hearts and make people blush. You ready? The rest of the words may be a bit harsh, but it's all the truth!
First, let's talk about kinship. In today's society, the affection between relatives is sometimes like a transaction, if you are rich and powerful, everyone will be close to you; If you don't have much use value, then don't blame your relatives for not being close to you. This sounds heart-wrenching, but the reality is that it is so. So, don't always blame others for reality, your own efforts to become valuable is the last word.
Let's talk about why retired people have to find a job to do. Some say it's because retirement is boring, some say it's because you're looking for something to do. But in many cases, it is because their children are not able to bear the financial burden of the family, and the elderly are really not able to work. This is not only the helplessness of the elderly, but also the sorrow of society. So, young people, don't let your parents have to run for a living when they are old, give them a little more effort, and let them enjoy their old age with peace of mind!
The conflict between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has been a difficult problem since ancient times. Why do so many mothers-in-law think that their daughters-in-law are unfilial? Tell you, a lot of the time it's because their sons are incompetent. A capable man, his daughter-in-law will naturally be filial to her in-laws, because she knows that her husband can hold up a piece of the sky. Therefore, men, don't let your women be wronged in the relationship between your mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, and make yourself strong first.
Finally, let's talk about borrowing money. Do you know when it's the most humiliating? That's when you open your mouth to borrow money from someone. In these days, it is easy to borrow money, but it is difficult to repay it, and once you borrow money, personal debt is like a bottomless pit, leaving you in a dilemma. So, no matter how difficult it is, try not to borrow money and maintain your dignity and independence, which is the most decent way to live.
Well, that's all for today's topic. These truths can be uncomfortable, but they are all part of our lives that cannot be ignored. Facing the reality, we can grow better. If you feel that these words have touched you, then don't forget that life is real, but we can still try to make it better. Remember, only if you are strong, you will not be looked down upon by others. Come on, friends!