In the Tao Te Ching, it is said: Good is like water, and water is good for all things without fighting. Life in the world should be like flowing water, nourishing all things without fighting. If you have to compete in everything, won't life be exhausted?
In life, it is impossible for everyone to look at you well. For some inconsequential things, or bad people and bad things, learn to give in with a smileThis is not weakness or timidity, but an act of wisdom in life, and it is also a manifestation of personality charm. Concessions, like a spring breeze, resolve disputes and make people's hearts feel peaceful.
The eyes are wide with the galaxy, and the concession turns out to be forward!
Concessions, not cowardice,It's a kind of wisdomQianli's family book is only for the wall, so why not let him be three feet. The Great Wall is still there, and Qin Shi Huang is not seen. - Qing Zhang Ying's "Letter to the Family" The ancients said: "Those who are quarrelsome, heaven will fight with them; Those who are humble will be given by heaven. ”
Driving to work in the morning, there is such a road rage there barking wildly, if you argue, it is not only as simple as being late, you may have a physical altercation or even a fight in the hospital. Because I stayed up too late to work overtime and wanted to buy a cup of coffee to refresh myself, a person went to the leader to complain, saying that you left your post halfway.
The world is too big, there are too many birds, the pace is too fast, too many people's nerves are too tight, ordinary people should be careful in this world, after all, there is only one life, and we can't afford to gamble.
Sometimes, knowing how to make concessions is inevitably a smart choice. Han Xin's humiliation under his crotch is the best manifestation of concessions. When Han Xin faced the butcher's provocation, he chose to give in, obeyed his orders, and drilled under his crotch. If he was blindly impulsive at that time and lost his life, how could he become a general later. Sometimes the right concessions are precisely what you achieve. As Han Xin said: "If there was no humiliation of the crotch at that time, there would be no Han Xin in the future." ”
To be a human being, you must always remember where you are going and what you are going to do. To give in is to get around the troubles, so that the overall situation can be achieved. In life, sometimes you don't have to be too persistentYou don't have to fight for that "unnecessary idleness". In life, there are always those people who want to be competitive in everything, but in the end they hurt themselves. In fact, learning to back down is not a kind of protection for yourself?
Giving in is not a sign of weakness, but the great wisdom of life. It's like the sea, why is it so inclusive? Because it knows how to back down, to give up its position, to give up its own space. Sometimes, giving in is the best way to be yourself.
Smile and give in, not cowardiceIt's a charmEndure the calm for a while, take a step back and the rain is sunny - "Zengguang Xianwen" life is in the world, it is extremely important to behave in the world, knowing how to make concessions is a wise person, and letting a step is to leave room for further progress in the future.
Lin Xiangru was targeted by Lian Po after returning to Zhao after returning to Zhao, so he chose to give in with a smile and try to avoid itNot to contradict Lian Po is to make concessions. After Lian Po learned about it,Taking the initiative to come to the door to ask for guilt is also a concession. It was the concession of the two people that finally achieved a good story of reconciliation.
At the departmental meeting, the direct leader blames you because he does not understand your major or is afraid that your professional ability is stronger than his. If you don't collide, you can still have a roundabout, waiting for the water to come out. If you go back, you will be fired directly, and if you don't fire directly, you will also be unable to eat and walk around in the back, which often occurs in the modern workplace.
In life, some people have conflicts and feel that it is faceless to give in. As everyone knows, smiling and giving in is not cowardice, it is the embodiment of personality charm, and it is to retreat as advance. Feng Zikai said: "When the heart is small, all the little things will be big; When the heart is big, all the big things are small. "Pay attention to the poetry world, reply to the [Poetry Challenge] in the background, and the poetry gentleman will take you to read those super classic poems! I don't ask you to give him a foot, he will respect you. Smile and give way,On the one hand, it reduces the battle of words, and on the other hand, it also gives yourself time to calm down and fight backIt also reflects personal self-cultivation, but will be admired and trusted by others.
For the rest of your life, learn to give in with a smilePlanting green seedlings all over the field, you can see the sky in the water when you look down. A pure heart is the way, and regression is the way forward. —The concession of the monk Houliang Qi's "Rice Planting Poem" is not weakness, not humility, but a great wisdom that takes retreat as advance. Zhongyun in "Caigen Tan": "When the taste is strong, reduce three points for people to eat, and leave one step with people in the narrow path." "As a man, if you blindly calculate, you will only miss the star-studded opportunity, on the contrary, if you retreat at the right time, you can reap unexpected fruits. In getting along with family members, if you can be tolerant, the flower of family harmony can bloom; In the interaction with lovers, if there is more understanding and tolerance, the sweet fruit of love can be sweeter; In the interaction with friends, if you can be humble and courteous, the long river of friendship can continue. Only by making appropriate concessions at work can you climb from the bottom to the head of the person who bullied you. Human beings are a very complex and simple group, especially in the modern workplace, everyone wants to ride on the head of others, and everyone wants to be treated equally by others.
If you can take a step back, you can see a wider world, and if you retreat, you can not fight is a big dispute.
For the rest of our lives, may we all learn to give in with a smile, stay away from strife and trouble, and make our minds more open-minded and our lives more chic.