Since "Song of a Good Man" has swept the country, singer Liu Huan has also become a well-known pop singer, and he has been praised by everyone as "**Godfather", "King of Singers" and other titles.
Some people say that if there is no Jerusalem, the Western world will lack color, and similarly, if there is no Liu Huan, the Chinese music scene will also lose a unique existence.
So, is Liu Huan famous just by virtue of his loud singing voice? In fact, the Chinese music scene in the last century was full of stars, and if a singer wants to gain a foothold on this stage, he not only needs to be proficient, but also needs to master some other skills.
Liu Huan has not only made outstanding achievements in **, but also has a unique talent in cross talk. It is rumored that if it weren't for the opposition of his parents, he might have become a leader in the cross talk industry, instead of the current **godfather.
However, Liu Huan doesn't seem to value these honors, he pays more attention to the success of his family. He has said many times that if he can change the way of education and pay more attention to the education of his daughter, maybe she will not achieve nothing.
Liu Huan regretted his daughter's education, what kind of education method did he take? Why would he say that his daughter had achieved nothing? Let's find out.
When Liu Huan gave birth to his daughter, he did not choose to ask the master to name him, but spent several days consulting dictionaries, dictionaries and Buddhist scriptures, and finally named his daughter "Liu Yixi".
Some people think the name is an insult to the girl, but Liu Huan said that he found "a trace" in Buddhist scriptures to mean that there is no desire in the heart and can bring good luck. Therefore, he wished his daughter a safe and smooth life, so he chose this name.
Although Liu Huan's explanation is different from the general understanding, his original intention and blessing to his daughter remain unchanged.
At that time, there were very few people who could read, and even fewer people were willing to read obscure Buddhist scriptures. Liu Huan's response not only did not change everyone's opinion, but instead made him misunderstood as a quibble and a desire to cover up.
In this environment, Liu Yisi suffered from low self-esteem because of this name, and her classmates often gave her some extremely insulting nicknames, and she couldn't bear it anymore after many times.
I don't want to be called that anymore, why did Dad give me that name? Liu Huan had a successful career at that time, and often did not return home at night, and his concern for Liu gradually decreased, so that when Lu Lu proposed to change his name, he refused before he heard the reason.
Why do you have to change your name? Isn't that a good name? Has she been influenced by her classmates lately? Lu Lu couldn't help sighing, Liu Huan was busy with work and had gradually neglected the child's education.
If she forces Liu Huan to do what she thinks, it will only make the relationship between the family of three more strained. Therefore, she decided to ask Liu Huan's friend to persuade Liu Huan and let him pay attention to her daughter's situation as soon as possible.
This method has proven to be very effective. The friend told Liu Huan that if something was imposed on them in defiance of the child's wishes, it would be a kind of harm. So, they decided to change "Liu Yisi" to "Liu Yisi", which temporarily repaired their relationship with their daughter.
Comprehending Lu Lu's reminder, Liu Huan began to realize the importance of family, especially the growth of her daughter. Deeply guilty, he decided to go with the Western ones"Happy education"to cultivate Liu Yisi.
However, this method of education eventually made him deeply miserable, as he began to wonder if he had not been so obsessed with it in the first place"Happy education", his daughter may be able to inherit his ** career and become an outstanding ** family, even if not, she can at least become a person who has achieved something in **.
Liu Yisi has shown excellent talent since he was a child, just by listening to Liu Huan play a tune, he can immediately remember the melody, and accurately point out when Liu Huan deliberately plays the wrong one.
Not only that, she is proficient in piano, drums, guitar and other musical instruments, and a piano piece can be played perfectly only after listening to it once, which makes Liu Huan full of praise for her.
For this reason, Liu Huan did not hesitate to spend a huge amount of money to buy a piano for her, planning to train her to become a piano master. However, the child's personality is always a headache, she is tired of boring exercises and has repeatedly expressed her dissatisfaction with playing the piano.
Dad, I don't want to play the piano, I don't like the piano, I want to learn the kind of instrument that doesn't have to be practiced. ”
Liu Huan was full of emotion, the road of art and sports competition is difficult and monotonous, and only by going through this difficult and lonely period can we reach the other side of success.
However, Liu Yisi was always unwilling to learn or listen to the truth, so Liu Huan had to give up this mind and let her grow up freely and happily. Lu Lu agreed with Liu Huan's decision, they all firmly believe that the happy growth of children is more important than any achievement, and if the price of success is the loss of happiness and love for life, they would rather let her be a happy ordinary person for the rest of her life.
However, their friends think that this method is extremely inappropriate, because the child is still young and cannot resist the outside world, as parents, they should teach their children the skills to resist **.
Is there something wrong with your education style, Yisi has a unique talent in **, and she should be given all the best on this path. You dote on her now, and she may resent you in the future.
When she encounters **, you should use the majesty of parents in a timely manner and teach her coping skills, this is the real love for children, your education method may have inadvertently harmed her, and the mistake is unbelievable!
It wasn't until later that Liu Huan understood his problem, watching children of the same age show their talents in various fields, while Yisi was unknown, and he didn't even have a skill that he could master, and when he wanted to make up for it, he found that it was too late.
Therefore, when Liu Huan was interviewed, he always unconsciously expressed his regret for his daughter's failed education. "If I could turn back time, I would definitely not treat my daughter like this, blind indulgence is not love, but harm.
If I had fulfilled the responsibilities of a parent, then she might have surpassed me in her achievements now, which is really my fault! Whenever he talked about this, Liu Huan had tears in his eyes, as if he verified the old saying: "Every family has a scripture that is difficult to read." ”
Even people like Liu Huan have family troubles, which is deeply regrettable. Someone reviewed Liu Huan's upbringing and found the root cause of his educational failure, it turned out that he seemed to be doting on Liu Yisi, but he was actually doting on himself, and he made up for the loss of his childhood and adolescence in this way.
During Liu Huan's upbringing, his parents' forced education made him feel pressured, and he even had many disputes with them during the rebellious period. He believed that if a genius could be cultivated by coercion, then the genius must be insane.
Liu Huan was born in 1963 to a family of teachers in Tianjin, his parents had a strong desire for control, and since he was in elementary school, he was burdened with a heavy burden, his father wanted him to study hard, and his mother wanted him to develop other hobbies in addition to his studies.
Liu Huan has a strong interest in cross talk, and because his home is close to the cross talk hall, he often listens to it after writing his homework, and also learns two sentences along with it. Dai Zhicheng, the future master of cross talk, was also by his side at that time.
They were still elementary school students, and after each performance, the two clapped excitedly, hoping to get the performers' attention. After a long period of contact, they got the opportunity to learn cross talk.
Interest is the best teacher, they make rapid progress, and they can also make up everyday things into interesting cross talk jokes. The teasing is Liu Huan, and the praise is Dai Zhicheng, their performances are both innovative and funny, making the performers think that they will shine in the cross talk world.
Chang Baohua took a fancy to Dai Zhicheng and Liu Huan, who had already emerged, and hoped to accept them as **, but Liu Huan's parents politely rejected the proposal because of "academic priority".
Dai Zhicheng became a master of cross talk, but Liu Huan gave up halfway, which is really a big regret in life. Dai Zhicheng also teased Liu Huan at the party, if his parents hadn't stopped him from learning cross talk, he might be sitting in Dai Zhicheng's position now.
However, Dai Zhicheng also said that if he was asked to choose again, he would still choose cross talk, because that was his love.
Liu Huan has come to the door many times to ask to learn cross talk, but they have been politely rejected on the grounds that they are important to their studies, which makes him unwilling. He is fervently eager to become a cross talk actor, but this conflicts with the future that his parents have planned for him.
Although Liu Huan worked hard, he finally gave up this dream, put all his energy into his studies, and embarked on the preset life path according to his parents' expectations.
Liu Huan, a well-behaved student majoring in French literature, but because of accidental contact with **, he aroused deep dissatisfaction and rebellion in his heart. When he heard his classmates play Chopin's "Butterfly" on the piano, it was as if a whole new world had opened up.
Since then, his enthusiasm for ** has been out of control, participating in various singing competitions and winning many times. However, this obsession of his was seen as unprofessional, and they demanded that he refocus on his studies, or even stop studying**.
Despite this, Liu Huan still insisted on his own ** path, because he knew that ** was his soul and an indispensable part of his life.
The excessive discipline of his parents made Liu Huan's rebellious period come later than others, he and his parents had many fierce arguments, and always insisted on taking the road of **, he firmly believed that only independent children can go further on the road to success.
As he predicted, Liu Huan was indomitable on the road to **, and won many heavyweight ** awards at a young age, and he also opened a new chapter in his life.
At the same time, he also ushered in his lifelong partner Lu Lu and daughter Liu Yisi, perhaps it is these tortuous family experiences that make him have such a deep belief in "happy education".
Conclusion: Children's education is a global concern, and most parents feel confused about how to paint the future on this blank piece of paper. They want their children to grow up healthy and happy, and they want them to be successful.
As a result, various educational concepts came into being. It has been argued that a rigorous education is the only way to produce exceptional children, and this is especially prevalent among parents in Eastern countries. While it is true that this type of education can make children better, psychological problems also increase.
Their spirits become fragile and easily irritable, which is clearly beyond the definition of "excellent".
Some people say that "happy education" is the key to raising excellent children, and parents in Western countries widely adopt this method, but as a result, children do live happily, but do not show good side.
This seems to indicate that the best way to educate is only by combining happiness and excellence.