The world is big, and we meet a lot of people, but there are very few people who can stay for you.
Just like Su Shi sighed: "Life is like a reverse journey, and I am also a pedestrian." ”
When we are old and look back at the way we came, we will find that fate is not lonely in the end, there are always some people who pour in and are still with us for a long time.
It turns out that in a person's life, there are only the following three people who really cross you.
Friends, Washiko.
"The Ferryman" wrote: "If fate is a lonely river, who will be the ferryman of your soul?" ”Material wealth, as long as you work hard, you can get it. Not to mention the wealthy, but worry-free food and clothing is not a problem.
Spiritual wealth, perhaps many people will not get it in their lifetime. Holding money, you will cry poor, and you will be indignant.
What's even more terrifying is that people are old and still obsessed with money, competing with others for houses and land.
If someone can touch your soul and your soul is rich, then life will be easier all of a sudden. Such a person should be a confidant.
Reality tells us that it is rare to have a confidant. But it's slightly easier to meet true friends.
Wang Fuzhi, a thinker in the late Qing Dynasty, was frail and sickly in his old age.
There were friends who had traveled a long way to visit him.
On the day of parting, Wang Fuzhi said"Forgive me for not sending it far, my heart will send you thirty miles." ”
Friends feel that what Wang Fuzhi said is just polite words, and he doesn't take it to heart.
After walking ten miles, the friend found that he had left something behind, so he walked back to the prince's house to retrieve it.
The tearful thing is that Wang Fuzhi is still standing at the door, looking in the direction his friend left.
What goes away is the back, and what can't be left is the heart.
Wang Fuzhi said: "With affection and ability, the scene and the heart, the body and the god are obtained." ”The world is big, but there is no place where the "heart" cannot reach.
There are a few decent friends who don't stay with you or even keep in touch every day, but when you're stuck, they'll show up, and when they're sad, you'll be worried.
Some friends, for the sake of your life, stick a knife in both sides. Why not be moved? This is the heart of the cross.
When actor Wu Mengda was young, he liked to gamble and became in debt.
He approached his classmate Chow Yun-fat, hoping to borrow some money. But Chow Yun-fat refused.
A few days later, Wu Mengda received a play, and his financial difficulties were alleviated, and his life began to get on the right track.
After filming, Wu Mengda knew that it was Chow Yun-fat who was able to receive this scene.
No matter when and where, if someone quietly helps you, thinks about you, and expects you to get better, then cherish it desperately.
Children, crossing.
Some people say: "If you have children for a lifetime, you have to rely on yourself to support your own old age." ”Too many parents, when they are very old, still live alone, farming in their rural hometowns and staying in county towns.
Looking at the problem, we still have to look at the distance and think about the benefits.
When parents are too old to walk, the role of children begins to be reflected.
It is said that it is "not bothering children", but in fact, it is just like that, and it does not represent the facts.
In 2012, there was a teacher who moved China.
His name is Chen Binqiang, born in the 70s, and he has been loved by his mother since he was a child.
In the summer, he slept on the balcony with a mat and a cool evening breeze.
When I woke up early in the morning, I found that I had an extra blanket on my body. At some point, his mother crept over and covered him.
After experiencing his mother's teaching, he graduated with a bachelor's degree and taught in a school in Zhejiang.
In '07, my mother became demented and needed to be taken care of.
In order to balance work and take care of his mother, he trapped her behind him and rode an electric scooter between home and school, each of which was 60 miles away.
"When you were a child, your mother carried you on your back with a piece of cloth; Later, you use a piece of cloth and carry your mother on your back", which is to feed and feed.When we are healthy, we make money and support our families. It's like a tree, holding up a piece of blue sky for the family.
When our bodies are old and it is difficult to walk, our children will grow up. Children live like a tree, and we have our backs against the tree.
How can a piece of flesh that falls from the mother of a child not be closely connected?Don't complain that your children are useless, and don't accuse your children of being unfilial. Give your children more thumbs up. Parents should understand that what you like is a piece of flesh on your body; It is a tree that you can rely on when you are old.
Husband and wife, love.
There is a song in the TV series "The Legend of the New White Lady": "There is a fate to meet thousands of miles away, but it is difficult to hold hands on the other side; Ten years of repair can be crossed in the same boat, and a hundred years of repair can be slept together.
The fate of Xu Xian and the White Lady is full of legends.
It's a pity that a Fahai monk came out of **, and I have to point out that the white lady is the white snake and beat it under the Leifeng Tower.
So, in the TV series, there is an extra song: "Let me pity myself in the water, the sweet past comes to the bottom of my heart, how many memories hurt my heart."
After separation, I know what is the pain of longing, and what is the past that is difficult to erase.
Along the way of life, it seems incomplete without an unforgettable love.
Chen Shidao, a writer in the Northern Song Dynasty, said: "Husband and wife die in the same hole, and father and son are poor and separated." ”The original intention of being able to become a husband and wife is to "live and die together".
When we are in difficulty, we still have a lover to accompany us and work together; When we were very old, there were still lovers who brought water and food, and we could walk hand in hand.
On the road of life, whether the scenery is good or not is secondary, the key is who accompanies you to see the scenery. The scenery is there, and the narrow streets are also full of fun.
Of course, when someone crosses you, you have to cross yourself. After all, God can't afford to call a person who pretends to be asleep.
No one can grow up alone for a long time and be separated from society. You must always learn to get along with others, with your heart, with affection, and with your body to shelter others from the wind and rain, and also get an umbrella from others.
The person who really crosses you, from the moment you meet, crosses you to old age, to the ashes of life.
Crossing the heart, peace of mind is a blessing.
Health is a blessing.
Crossing love, accompanied by blessings.
From now on, I will be grateful to meet and not owe.
Author: Cloth Clothes Coarse Food.
Follow my words and go into your heart.
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