Once upon a time, when it came to marriage, people often presented a picture of happiness in their minds: holding hands and supporting each other through the wind and rain of the rest of their lives; At dusk, we drank tea and chatted together on the rocking chair at the door of our home; The children are laughing and playing, and the family is warm and happy. However, now it seems to be a little less lively and more indifferent.
Why don't young people nowadays want to get married early? "This question may often cause ripples in the conversation of friends and family. The reasons for this can be summarized in five points: career priority, economic pressure, freedom and chic, interpersonal pressure, and changes in the concept of marriage. Let's join hands to explore and see what kind of truth of life is hidden in the entanglement of these five reasons.
1.Career priority: the choice between love and dreams.
In today's society, young people are flocking to the cities in pursuit of glamorous careers. For many people, career is no longer a means to make money, but a way to realize themselves and achieve their dreams. In order to pursue a higher position and a broader stage, what they put in their hearts is no longer only love, but also the yearning for their career.
Who says marriage is the only life choice? Young people may respond this way. In the fast-paced life, there are endless challenges and fierce competition, and everyone can only stand out from the crowd by focusing more on their work.
2.Financial pressure: love in the heart, marriage in front of you.
Getting married is not a trivial matter, just decorating the house will smash the pot and sell iron! "In today's society, young people are discouraged from spending on all aspects of life. Whether it is the rise in housing prices or the trivialities of life, all kinds of economic pressures have undoubtedly become a major obstacle for young people to hesitate to get married.
It's one thing to love someone, it's another thing to marry someone. "In an era of increasing financial constraints, young people often struggle between love and material things, and have to struggle with whether to bear too much financial pressure for marriage.
3.Free and chic: Singles are fun, and love is worth it.
The world is so big, I want to see it. "Being free and living alone can be very tempting for young people. No tedious housework, no verbose relatives, control your own time, and live freely.
As long as you are single and free, why put yourself in the shackles of marriage? "Young people, by being single, are free to make friends and watch concerts until they find the person who really makes their hearts move.
4.Interpersonal pressure: Parents urge marriage, relatives and friends watch.
The neighbor's little swallow is married, look at your ......"The urging of parents to marry and the onlookers of relatives and friends make young people feel like they are in the midst of a fire. Whether it is the expectations of their parents or the ridicule of their friends, they feel that marriage is like a bottomless pit, and when they jump down, it is endless pressure.
It is easy to fight the country and it is difficult to defend the country, and it is human nature to marry a wife and have children. "Young people are well aware of the hardships of their parents and the expectations of their friends, but the fear and anxiety in their hearts also make them hover between love and responsibility, and they cannot easily make choices.
5.The Changing View of Marriage: From Tradition to Modernity.
In the past, paper-cutting could be separated with a single knife, but now is it so easy for the two to be happy? "Young people are gradually beginning to realize that marriage is not simply a matter of being together, but something that needs to be managed and understood.
Marriage should be based on love, not a socially pressured choice. "Modern young people have an independent concept of life and marriage, and they value the inner quality of marriage more than the external form. For love, they pursue equality, respect and understanding, and they should think carefully about marriage.
In summary, the reasons why young people are reluctant to marry early are varied and complex. Career, economy, freedom, interpersonal relationships, ideas and other factors are intertwined, which has become the main driving force for modern young people to choose not to marry. It may be difficult to change the social atmosphere in a short period of time, but with the evolution of the times and the deepening of thinking, I hope we can all find our own happiness, not be bound by the world, and live a true and unique life. Let's work together, how to interpret young people's love and marriage is the most beautiful and real.