How do you get along with your child? This is a question that many parents should ponder, because the parent-child relationship between the child and the parents largely determines how the child will treat his or her parents in the future. Parents who have a good relationship with their children can better communicate with their children and educate their children with more peace of mind and effort. Parents who have a poor relationship with their children are more like their enemies to their children.
The parent-child relationship is very important for parents and children, and an incorrect parent-child relationship will bury hidden dangers, and one day it will erupt and hurt parents and children.
Parents who spoil their children too much can make their children selfish
I remember watching a ** before, in which a mother in her 40s was being beaten by her fifteen or sixteen-year-old daughter. The reason turned out to be because the mother did not buy the most ** Apple mobile phone for her daughter, and after the incident, ** came to the mother's home and wanted to educate her daughter, but was strongly prevented by the mother. The mother didn't blame her daughter at all, but blamed herself for not being able to buy a new mobile phone for her daughter, which made many netizens sigh that "poor people must have something to hate".
When the parents of the shopkeeper shake their hands, let the child be indifferent to family affection
Left-behind children have always been a serious problem in society, because many parents choose to go away to seek a living because of the need to make a living, leaving their children with their grandparents in their hometowns, and can only see their children a few times a year.
If this goes on in the long run, the parent-child relationship will become weaker and weaker, and even make children resentful of their parents. Therefore, as a parent, if you have the conditions, try to take your children with you, do not miss the growth of your children, even if you are forced to stay away from your children to work, but also often contact your children, so as to maintain the family affection between the two parties, and will not let the children become weak to family affection.
Parents who are too controlling are prone to let their children go to extremes
Parents who are too controlling will either make their children very rebellious or make them very unassertive.
I have a distant relative who is the kind of parent who is too controlling, and his children have not become extremely rebellious. But he has become extremely unassertive, and he has no plans for his life, and basically everything is decided by his parents. Therefore, parents must not try to control everything in their children, so that one day they will be counterattacked, try to learn to let go, let children think about how to do and how to choose, so that children can become more independent, and the parent-child relationship between the two parties will become better.
How to build a good parent-child relationshipTo establish a good parent-child relationship, parents are asked to do the following:
1. Remember your role: parents.
Know that you are the parent of your child and the person they trust the most. Your role is to protect your child and at the same time help him prepare to grow up**. More important than being a friend to your child is for parents to be a leader and a patient teacher. Remember, you have to stand your ground when it's time to stand your ground, and your child needs to be disciplined.
2. Get the balance right.
The biggest challenge for parents is how to balance the need to maintain intimacy with their children while giving them a certain amount of space and personal territory. This is not easy to do. But it is necessary for children who are becoming more and more independent.
3. Set an example.
Parents are the biggest and best teachers for their children, and they want your children to be trustworthy, responsible, and caring people? Then set an example and let them see these shining points in your life often.
Fourth, speak slowly.
Getting angry easily will only make things worse, what if you can't control your emotions? Then stay by yourself for a while and calm down. When they are at peace in front of their children, parents are the best role models to teach their children how to control emotions and stress.
5. Praise your child.
Sincere praise can make children happy, and when your child has made the right decision or something, take the opportunity to praise him. Praise will make them feel that their decisions and successes are valued, and that their abilities are recognized.
Educational toys are a great way to train, not only canExercise children's concentration, observation, hand-eye coordination, help children with brain training, and improve children's IQ and logical thinking ability!
Let's play with the baby, we can also establish a good parent-child relationship, let the child reduce the time to watch TV and play with electronic products, and let the child play more and more, such as the one recommended to you todayMagnetic bar building blocks
Magnetic rods, also known as magnetic rods. Cheap and easy to use, flexible and changeable, it can be said to be a magnetic building block, withExtremely high degree of freedomYou can let your baby's imagination play to create a variety of combinations.
The magnetic rod has a very high appearance and bright and soft colors, which can not only let children know the colors, but also improve the children's pairsInterest and sensitivity to colorto make the game more interesting.
Most of the magnetic blocks are made by drilling holes in the wood (putting in magnets) and then painting them. It not only affects the appearance texture and feel, but also makes it easy to peel off the paint.
The magnetic rod itself is made of ABS plastic, embedded with magnets and covered with TPE materialSafe and environmentally friendlyThe raw materials can be used by children with confidence. A quick search, rave reviews.
It's in a child's nature to playPlaying games is not just a matter for children alone, parents need to be especiallyParents are involved together
Efficient companionship is to let children feel love at all times through words, expressions, movements, and eyes! And the love between parents and children is to put down the mobile phone, eat many, many meals together, talk a lot of "nonsense", and do a lot of games and ...... togetherParents play with their children, that's itThe childhood that children need most
The magnetic bar is oneAdults and children love to playThe toys can not only help children enlighten their wisdom, but also help parents in parent-child playGet back to innocence and fun!
Parents can tell their children more knowledge, such as letting them feel through building blocks"Opposites attract, and opposites repel".The scientific principles of magnetism.
Different toys have a completely different impact on children, and it was found that after playing with the magnetic rod for a period of time, the childMental development, creativity and social skillsIt's a significant improvement! It's a rare toy!
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