"In the face of emotional problems, the great sage is not as good as the little eunuch."
On the stage of "Super Speaker", after the members of the Lejia team gave a speech, they were pointed out by Jin Xing to some shortcomings, and then Lejia showed dissatisfaction.
As a mentor, Jin Xing was just expressing his opinion normally, but he never expected that Le Jia would speak disrespectfully and say the sensitive word "little eunuch".
In fact, Lejia has always been a little open-mouthed.
As his unbridled situation became more and more serious, more and more people disliked and rejected him, which eventually led to him losing his reputation and support, and being abandoned by everyone.
He has now retired from the entertainment industry and is living a life no different from ordinary people.
Is his heart really a stagnant water, without any ripples, although everything is calm on the surface?
Maybe it wasn't the life he longed for, but it was all a foregone conclusion.
Has he ever regretted his brazen actions in the past, and does he recognize them now?
Lejia was born in an ordinary Shanghai family.
In a prosperous city, it is naturally difficult for parents to live a privileged life as ordinary wage earners. Especially after Le Jia was born, the pressure on the family has increased a lot.
When he was two months old, his parents took him out of Shanghai and into a small town in Weinan, Shaanxi Province.
Although the pressure of life has been reduced, his parents still go out to work every day as usual, so in Lejia's upbringing, the company of his parents is almost very little.
As a result, his personality gradually became a bit withdrawn, and he was not very interested in communicating with others.
Mother and son were a few minutes late and missed their usual bus.
When they happened to be passing by, the car driven by their mother happened to pass them. As if she had found a lifesaver, her mother asked the leader if she could send Lejia to school.
The leader actually glanced at Le Jia's mother, and then left directly, which was unexpected.
Le Jia clearly felt at that moment that the leader's eyes were full of contempt.
This scene deeply affected the young Lejia, and it also made him realize the importance of money for the first time.
Sometimes, he had to admit that there was a certain equivalence between dignity and money, and that the lack of money would make dignity worthless and trampled on.
Lejia's academic performance has been unsatisfactory, which is due to the neglect of her parents.
He loves to flip through all kinds of miscellaneous books, and believes that only in the world of books can he find the long-lost freedom.
He was passionate about acting at the time and aspired to become an actor in the future.
His mother thwarted his dream and allowed him to be admitted to an ordinary secondary school at the age of 14 and chose to major in finance.
After graduating in 1991, he worked as an accountant in a bank.
However, this iron job that seems to others to be very stable has lost its appeal in Lejia's eyes. It took only two years for him to decide to resign.
Lejia has longed for freedom since he was a child, so he chose a career that often required him to travel – real estate sales.
Lejia didn't know anything about drawings, so he couldn't sell a house to a client based on drawings like most property salespeople do.
He was eloquent, and he was unmoved by this dilemma. He quickly attracted many clients with his ingenuity.
Lejia is still self-aware, after all, if you can't understand the drawings, it means that you lack professionalism.
Although his performance was not bad, he still chose to quit after working for a while and turned to the cosmetics industry.
He has always been at the top of the list, and after becoming a cosmetics salesman, this time he didn't make the wrong choice.
In just two months, he became a provincial sales champion with his excellent sales skills.
Because of his outstanding ability, he was directly appreciated by the Shanghai headquarters in 1994 and was appointed as a sales training instructor.
He was only 19 years old.
Lejia seems to have been born to stand on the podium, and when he stepped onto the podium, his whole person was full of passion.
His classes are full of fun and informative.
His explanation not only made him happy, but also made the students in the audience listen happily.
Lejia enjoyed the feeling so much that he decided that he was better suited to be a lecturer than a salesperson, so he decided to become a lecturer.
Perhaps because of the "big tree", or because of the influence of the company's "corporate culture", Lejia gradually found himself isolated.
Although the rest of his colleagues were forming small groups, he was completely dismissive because he was arrogant by nature.
In such a working environment, he felt very unhappy and eventually had to choose to leave.
He decided to change careers this time.
In 1995, Lejia officially became a professional lecturer, and he devoted himself to the public speaking profession, eager to show his talents.
He strives to be innovative and wants to make his presentation style unique and engaging.
In order to improve his speech, he also enrolled in a refresher course for his drama major, hoping to better integrate body language and verbal expression.
His hard work was not in vain, because once he found the sharp style that suited him best, his speech was immediately well received by the students.
For 365 days, I was either standing on the podium or on my way to the podium.
He gave more than 200 speeches a year, which made his pockets fuller and fuller, and thus he became a wealthy man.
Le Jia has gone all the way, and it is not easy to become a rich man from a poor boy.
Although he has become a gold medal lecturer, his past experiences have inflated his ambitions, making him unable to meet the current situation and eager to climb further.
He worked so hard for no reason, and it was actually related to his inferiority complex deep down.
Since he only had a secondary school education, he was often discriminated against when looking for a job, and even his first wife left him because of his low education.
When the two got married at that time, because the other party was a white rich beauty, Le Jia was not popular with his wife's family at all.
After he left the cosmetics company, he and his wife eventually divorced due to the strong demand of his family.
The two already had a daughter, and after the divorce, the daughter lived with her mother.
Lejia has never been able to erase the pain in his heart.
Therefore, it is only by elevating his own level of excellence that he can earn the respect of those who once looked down on him.
In order to improve himself, Lejia chose to continue his studies and completed a bachelor's degree in business administration at Armstrong University in Shanghai.
In 2001, Lejia's speaking career has entered a stable period.
His years of experience in speaking have inspired him to focus on the emotional aspects of his research, as this is a topic of interest to most of his students.
As a result, he even constructed his own set of theories, the colorology of character, which later became all the rage.
2001 also witnessed the official establishment of Lejia's Chinese Character Color Research Center.
After getting his bachelor's degree, his career flourished, and he also successfully published his own books. This series of dazzling achievements finally allowed Lejia to overcome his inner inferiority complex.
But then came the other extreme, which is conceit.
His speech became increasingly sharp, sometimes even involving personal attacks.
The students loved it and thought it was the charm of Lejia.
She was attracted by his talent and took the initiative to boldly show her love to him.
Le Jia also admired the literary temperament of this female student, so the two formed a friendship and gradually developed a relationship.
Soon after, they entered the palace of marriage. I thought that Le Jia had the experience of a failed marriage and was an expert in the emotional field, so people thought that his second marriage would be happy.
In the daily trivialities of life, their feelings did not stand the test and soon became strange.
Lejia's emotional theory can only be regarded as empty talk, and when faced with real life, what he says simply does not hold water.
Although both of his marriages failed, the focus was on his shining image on the podium and ignored the lack of clarity or the real help of what he said.
Le Jia's career continues to flourish, he not only frequently appears on the speech stage, but also is favored by Jiangsu Satellite TV, inviting him to be a guest on an emotional program.
Jiangsu Satellite TV carefully created a marriage and dating program called "If You Are Honest, Do Not Disturb" in 2010.
At that time, the station had already confirmed that Meng Fei would be the host, and invited Dr. Huang Han of Nanjing University as one of the guests.
However, in view of the fact that both of them have relatively stable personalities, it is difficult to mobilize the atmosphere in the show, so the program team decided to invite Le Jia as another guest, hoping that the three complement each other and make the show more attractive.
Two hairless people appeared together on the show, which caught the attention of many viewers.
They frequently create various conflicts, sometimes sweet, sometimes fierce, which drives the show's ratings to climb.
The relationship between the two was very harmonious at first, Le Jia liked to drink, and once said what was in his heart after being drunk:
Let Meng Fei preside over my funeral, if I die first.
I agree with Meng Fei's generous expression.
However, their personalities differ greatly, which is even more evident in later collaborations.
Meng Fei's attitude was relatively gentle, which made people feel very warm.
Le Jia is not only eloquent, but also likes to control the scene at will, often interjecting without warning when Meng Fei is hosting, and worse, he is unaware of offending others.
At this time, Meng Fei is always busy.
As the host of the show, he not only has to assume the responsibility of hosting the show, but also needs to skillfully resolve various contradictions on the scene, so he has also become the latter of Le Jia's nonsense.
As time passed, Meng Fei naturally felt mentally exhausted.
In 2013, it was revealed that the two had a verbal altercation in the dressing room, which later even escalated into a physical altercation.
Although the news has not been confirmed, Lejia has indeed stopped appearing on the guest list of "If You Are the One, Do Not Disturb" since then.
He did not give a reason for his withdrawal.
However, Meng Fei once mentioned such a sentence on Weibo:
If you pay close attention to the people around you, you will find that the so-called sharpness is often open-mouthed, and the so-called pinnacle is often a lack of education.
In 2014, Xie Na, Meng Fei and Le Jia jointly served as the host of a show.
Lejia had an argument because he and one of the guests had a disagreement.
As a guest, you have full freedom of speech and are free to express your personal opinions.
In Le Jia's view, the guest's remarks were very targeted, and it seemed that they were deliberately contradicting him.
After feeling that his authority was being challenged, Le Jia did not care about his identity as a host, and went straight to the confrontation with the guests.
Xie Na, as the host, faced this situation and immediately stepped forward to solve the siege. But when she approached Lejia, she was hugged tightly by him.
Le Jia put her hand on the back of Xie Na's head, and obviously pushed her head closer to her face, and at the same time brought her face close to Xie Na, as if to kiss her.
Xie Na hurriedly turned her face, thus preventing Le Jia's plot from succeeding.
Although Meng Fei forcibly explained that "this hug should be ceremonial", Le Jia's image was seriously affected as a result.
Le Jia publicly questioned Meng Fei on the show: "Don't you think your words and deeds are hypocritical? This made Meng Fei, who maintained his image everywhere, feel no gratitude at all.
Before **, a female guest asked to hug Meng Fei, and Meng Fei politely accepted the request.
Le Jia was naturally not to be outdone, and when he saw that Meng Fei was favored, he took an ambiguous posture and hugged the female guests.
During this time, he also asked the other party a little proudly, what is the difference between holding himself and holding Meng Fei.
It's no wonder that Meng Fei couldn't resist writing an article that implicitly accused him of "lack of education".
For a while, the news of the feud between the two spread widely. Someone broke the news that the two had escalated from a verbal dispute to a direct fight.
In "Mr. Super", a World Championships gymnastics champion recounts his inner journey.
For some reason, he missed the chance to participate in the Olympics, and the athlete who won the Olympic title at the time, was defeated by him at the World Championships.
The guest has not been able to untie the knot, and the mentor Ning Jing saw this, saying that he had won many awards and gradually became less interested in fame and fortune.
What she meant was to encourage the gymnast because he had a dream of becoming an Olympic champion, so he had to work hard to keep going, and maybe it would work wonders.
Le Jia did not understand the true meaning of Serenity's words, and mistakenly thought that it was an undisguised show-off. Therefore, as soon as Tranquility's words fell, she couldn't help but reprimand Tranquility loudly.
However, Tranquility is not one to tolerate the casual treatment of others, and she firmly confronts Le Jia, leaving Le Jia speechless.
Le Jia not only mentioned Tranquility's calm, but also criticized Hua Shao's hypocrisy, accused Li Jingyin of being ruthless and treacherous, and once lost his temper with Huang Xiaolei, and often put on a show, as if he didn't care about anyone.
On the stage of "Super Speaker", Le Jia ignored the regulations of the program team and directly brought a bottle of wine to the stage. What an outrageous move is this?
What is even more surprising is that he actually started drinking on stage.
He was not in a good mood at the time, and after drinking a glass of liquor, his words became out of control, not only had a chance to vent, but also directed his grievances to the relevant departments.
Even the other judges on stage were hurt by his drunken rhetoric.
Jin Xing, Dou Wentao and other judges watched him fall into a state of madness, and finally could only decide to let him go, unwilling to ** his performance again.
At the beginning, Lu Yu originally planned to persuade Le Jia, but Le Jia had lost control and directly reprimanded her violently, causing Lu Yu to leave directly angry.
I have a lot of dissatisfaction with Anhui Satellite TV......
Perhaps Lejia didn't realize that his impulsive words could ruin his career.
The official ** personally came forward and made a direct criticism of Lejia's behavior.
Due to the fact that Lejia often loses control of his emotions, it will inevitably have a certain impact on the progress of the program when recording the program.
After that, Lejia's heart completely cooled.
His reputation and career have been greatly affected, and the future of his return to the mountain is obviously in jeopardy.
He was not bothered, because Lejia had also experienced ups and downs, and he quickly made a new life plan and found a way to get rich that suited him.
He took the initiative to contact various channels for commercial performances, and of course he would not refuse the opportunity to send it to his door.
Although Lejia stands on a humble stage and cannot be compared with the big stage of the glory days, he must not be underestimated.
According to the Internet, his remuneration for participating in a performance has been as high as 400,000.
The Lejia drunken spilling incident is already in 2018, and it has been a long time.
With the gradual fading of **, Le Jia's career also began to flourish, and he was often invited to serve as a guest or judge in local satellite TV programs.
He has never given up his speaking career, and even shared his experience with everyone on social **.
At its peak, Lejia's lectures attracted more than 10,000 listeners.
Today, the audience has shrunk to 3,000.
Although this is still a very good result, equivalent to a mass speech, Lejia said self-deprecatingly, "It seems that I have had a pretty bad time in the past few years."
Netizens revealed in 2020 that Lejia often organizes some teaching activities on the Internet.
Although the expenditure of each class is 4000 8000, although the scale is small, it can still make Lejia earn a lot of money.
However, Lejia had already moved to the United States by then.
He was met on the streets of the United States, still wearing slim clothes and a bald head, but he has completely lost the halo of stardom.
Although he has retired from the entertainment industry, according to the pictures shared by netizens, Le Jia's life is still very chic and comfortable.
He was carrying boxes of mineral water from a supermarket cart and carrying them into his car.
This mineral water is not ordinary, but a luxury mineral water from Fiji that is popular with the wealthy.
His car often exceeds one million even **, which can be called luxurious.
The room he lived in, just looking at the decorations on display, made people feel different, revealing luxury and wealth everywhere.
The quality of the flooring is quite high, as well as the spacious floor-to-ceiling windows and the beautiful backdrop ......
It shows the taste and grandeur of the owner, without exception.
It is conceivable that Lejia lives in such a luxurious residence, and the living conditions must be very superior.
After moving to the United States, Lejia actively participated in many blind date activities.
However, when the woman heard that he was divorced and had a child, she unabashedly showed obvious disgust.
In order to attract more attention, Lejia shares his life "dynamics" with everyone on social platforms from time to time.
He would suddenly have strange thoughts and declare that he intended to become a monk.
He will even go grocery shopping and walk the dog with his upper body naked, probably just to show off his abs.
Netizens have always kept a clear head about his actions.
It is widely believed that this series of events is nothing more than a sensational thing, and its purpose is to attract attention and get traffic.
He sent his young daughter to the Shaolin Temple to learn martial arts, and took her with him to wade into the desert and go on a trekking adventure.
These achievements have attracted the attention of netizens, but there are more voices of opposition and skepticism, who do not approve of Lejia's adoption of this educational method.
Le Jia didn't care about any of this, he focused on his daughter's popularity, so he included parent-child education in his speech topic and shared with the students how to get along with children, which quickly attracted a lot of attention.
Because her daughter was too young at the time, Lejia's behavior caused dissatisfaction among many netizens.
He even felt that he was enjoying the benefits of his daughter and using her as a tool to make money.
This girl is Lejia is strict with her, she was born in 2013, born to Lejia and his third wife.
However, soon after, Lejia decided to divorce again.
Lejia's third wife died of illness in Los Angeles in June 2022.
Although the two have separated, Le Jia still posted a message of mourning with a text full of sadness.
Meng Fei, the bald brother who once fought side by side with him, is now the "senior" of the hosting industry.
Since he has a calm personality, clear thinking, and solid hosting skills, he can already live the life he wants independently, without relying on anyone and things.
Now they have chosen different paths, but it is all their own decision.
Le Jia gave up her stable job, perhaps not expecting her life to become so colorful.
Will he make the same choice and start over if given the chance?
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