When you get old, no one can compare to yourself, and the quality of life in your later years is that the tide rises, and the so-called water is your own comprehensive strength.
1. A place to live and settle down
If the property under your name can not be transferred to your children during your lifetime, you should not transfer it to your children as much as possible, and do not buy a larger house for your children. Even if the children keep promising to live together in a future property, there are many variables when it comes to it. It is possible that they may not feel used to living with their children, and they may not want to live together. In the end, you have to look at the faces of your children, and from time to time it will lead to a variety of conflicts. If you own a property in your own name, you will be free to move forward and retreat, and you will only fall into a dilemma. Either choose to go out to rent a house, or compromise in the children's home.
Second, their own right to speak
Even when you reach old age, you should make your own decisions at the right time, and don't listen to your children at all times and everything, otherwise you will have less and less status in the eyes of your children. When you should make up your own mind, you need to make up your own mind, and you have to talk about things that involve principles, and even if your children come forward to oppose it, you need to be distracted. Learn to reject your children appropriately, and your children will try to consider your feelings, although the right to speak is an intangible asset, but it is more important than a tangible asset.
3. Your own savings for many years
As long as you are alive and conscious, you should not let your children help manage your savings. Giving your savings to your children too early will not only give them the money when they need it, but they will either have no heart to take it out, or they will have no money to take it out, and it may also develop the habit of giving their children the old age, after all, the property distributed to the children during life is different from the inheritance distributed to the children after death. In order to meet the needs of the emergency, just let the children know some bank cards to store money, plus let the children know the corresponding withdrawal password. If the savings during life are still not enough, and the children have money to contribute, presumably the children will have limited money at best, and all in all, the savings in hand can directly reduce the financial burden of the children.
Conclusion: Give your children everything that should not be given to them, and you will realize that your children will gradually show that they dislike you. Children need not be impatient, but when it is their turn to reap, they will reap, like the inheritance of their parents. When it is the children's turn to give, the children will give, just as the parents have exhausted their property during their lifetime, and there is still a gap, and the children need to fill it as much as possible.
February** Dynamic Incentive Program