A long time ago, I once said that in the time dimension of ten or twenty years, if we can gain in 3 (wealth opportunities), 2 (career opportunities), and 1 (emotional opportunities), then no matter what happens in the past ten or twenty years, we are all proper winners in life.
Even if A-shares are still 3,000 points (now even 3,000 points are out of reach), we will still not be affected by it, live freely and enjoy life.
It seems easy to say, and that's because there is a God's perspective, or there is a strong conviction, otherwise, it will be a pity to look back.
For example, 3 wealth opportunities. In the past ten years, we do have at least 3 big opportunities in front of us, such as two opportunities to buy a house, such as two big bull markets in **, seize three of them, and you will basically have no worries about food and clothing.
Of course, after that, you can't do something deadly, such as increasing leverage, such as financial derivatives, such as mortgaging the house to do business. Wait a minute. Another example is 2 career opportunities. Or change to a more suitable job, or just work hard in one job, there are not many opportunities, right?
Another example is 1 emotional opportunity. We ask ourselves, haven't we really met a very sweet partner in the last ten or twenty years? So, when he or she appears, do you cast your nets around to catch fish, or do you rush on the road? Of course, if you grasp and cherish this affection well, then I will bless you. 
If you do these 6 things right, then don't many things that have nothing to do with them seem insignificant, or can you lift the weight lightly?
To be a winner in life, we need to be more focused and more focused.