There was an interview on the radio, and one day the host and guests talked about an interesting question: "imposter syndrome".
There was an interview on the radio, and one day the host and guests talked about an interesting question: "imposter syndrome".
What is Imposter Syndrome?
To put it simply, it is the self-denial of successful people.
For example, there are successful people who are obviously talented, but they firmly believe that they are straw bales.
They believe that their success is purely due to good luck; Others like themselves just because they don't know enough about themselves.
They are convinced that they are not what they deserve, and they are always afraid that others will see their true selves.
Many people are anxious and fearful as a result.
Such people can be found in many fields, even Nobel laureates, famous scientists and billionaires.
My upbringing seemed to go through this phase as well, but I soon let it be a thing of the past.
I still have very little internal friction and self-doubt, let alone self-denial, and I have always believed that I am a valuable person.
I've always felt that in the age of the internet, arrogance is much better than humility.
Because the way of thinking affects not only people's income, but also people's emotional and mental health.
Life is actually quite short. It has only been a few decades since we truly perceived and enjoyed life. Is it worth it if you let yourself fall into self-doubt for decades?
If you don't want to make that choice, the first thing you have to do is remove the cancer culture from your mind, because this culture has hurt us for millennia.
A person can only truly become better if he believes that he is good.
I've always felt like I'm someone different. I believe that online, I can provide high-quality spiritual food to thousands of people.
The merit of this matter is immeasurable.
I firmly believe that I can make money through my own worth. Life should be indomitable, and there should be no mental exhaustion.
What about those who doubt me, question me, hit me, and deny me?
I chose to stay away from them.
In real life, I don't let such people influence me.
On the Internet, I met one and blocked the other.
This is also the reason why I don't have mental exhaustion and don't doubt myself.
In fact, the life energy of most people has been suppressed by various "internal and external troubles".
What is internal worry?
Confusion, depression, stress, self-doubt, over-focus on relationships, ......These can inhibit our inner energy.
What is an external attack?
Polluted air, water, food, and poor living space will all consume a lot of our life energy.
Many people at the bottom are under the double pressure of internal and external troubles. I advise you not to torture yourself mentally all day long.
There is an opinion that "bad relationships" are much better than "caring too much about relationships".
I've always thought that if a person has more and more friends, it means that there is something wrong with the person's brain.
Because maintaining relationships requires tremendous energy, they can affect your mood.
Life is short, don't torture yourself for those empty things.
The same is true for the family, which is also part of the interpersonal relationship.
If your family can't give you energy and instead plays the role of "denying you, questioning you, consuming you", then you must cut ties with them as soon as possible.
If you have to connect, don't play the role of a good person.
In the eyes of your parents, your image is not to be an obedient and good person.
You can be a non-talker, very bad-tempered, and start yelling without saying a word.
If you're too talkative, a lot of people will literally ride on your neck and.
My life must be refreshing, but anyone or environment that brings negative energy, I must clean it up, and never let them say a word of nonsense to you.
In fact, life is very short, and there are not so many things that really deserve our attention. Therefore, our inner energy must always come first and not let anyone waver.
Anyone who makes your energy weaker, has to be cleared from your life.
Some people say that now that technology and medical care are so developed, everyone has lived a long life. Then they would list which cities ranked first on the list of life expectancy.
I think this is a great insult to IQ.
Because today's long-lived elderly, when they are young, the growth environment is completely different from ours.
The internal and external troubles they experience are completely different from the internal and external troubles that we experience.
I don't believe that people in big cities who are 996 a day, eat junk food, breathe polluted air, worry about their mortgages all day long, and worry about their children's education will live longer.
The probability of a short life is high.
All kinds of internal and external troubles are constantly consuming our energy every day.
At this time, you shouldn't be mentally expended anymore. It's really cool to be an arrogant and willful "bad guy".