Four Wise Women's Philosophies of Love Treat rationally, life will not be settled!
In this era of information, we can receive all kinds of information every day, including sweet words and romantic passages about love.
However, these low-cost expressions of love are often difficult to represent a person's true thoughts and feelings.
On social media, some people may easily say things like I love you and I miss you to you, but these words are often just their whims or they are said to achieve a certain purpose.
When their goal is achieved, the words may disappear like a passing cloud.
Therefore, we should not take these low-cost expressions of love lightly.
Really powerful women, they know how to see the essence through the phenomenon.
They know that a person's love is not expressed through simple words, but through the bits and pieces of daily life.
They will observe a man's words and deeds in life, to understand his three views, conduct and sense of value** and other deeper things.
Because they know that these are the key factors that really determine whether a person is worthy of love or not.
Many women are prone to make a mistake in love, that is, to regard love as the whole of life and men as their own life-saving straw.
They believe that as long as there is love, all the problems in life can be solved.
However, in fact, love is only a part of life, not the whole story;
A man is also just a partner in your life, not all you rely on.
Really powerful women, they understand that love is the icing on the cake, not a charcoal in the snow.
They will first try to live their lives, improve their abilities and values, and then look for the person who can match them.
Because they know that you can only attract people who are good enough if you become good enough.
At the same time, they also understand that love is not the whole of life.
In addition to love, there is also family, friendship, career, and so on.
These are equally important, and we also need to manage and cherish them with our hearts.
Therefore, even if one day love is gone, they can still live independently.
When choosing a partner, many women are attracted by a man's appearance and sweet words, and ignore the more important thing - the three views.
The three views refer to a person's world view, outlook on life and values, which determine a person's way of thinking and code of conduct.
If two people's three views are not consistent, then even if they love each other again, it will be difficult to go on for a long time.
A really powerful woman, when choosing a partner, will pay more attention to whether the other party's three views are consistent with herself.
Because they know that only two people with the same three views can go hand in hand in the face of various challenges and difficulties in life.
They will communicate with each other and observe each other's behavior to understand each other's three views and behaviors.
If they find that the other party's three views do not match their own, or there is a problem with their conduct, then they will decisively choose to give up, rather than blindly compromise.
In love and marriage, we often hear about some harrowing tragic events.
These incidents are often caused by the person overestimating humanity or underestimating the risk.
For example, in the case of a pregnant woman falling off a cliff in Thailand, the party involved caused the tragedy because she trusted her husband too much;
In the case of killing his wife and hiding the body in Shanghai, the person concerned also lost his precious life because he underestimated the risk.
Really powerful women, they will always be vigilant and sensible, and will not easily trust other people's promises and assurances.
Because they know that human nature is complex, and the human heart is fickle.
Even a very intimate partner can do something that hurts you at some point.
Therefore, they will take precautions and countermeasures to prevent risks, such as maintaining financial independence and not easily revealing personal privacy.
At the same time, they will always pay attention to their partner's dynamics and behavior, and if they find something unusual or suspicious, they will take timely measures to protect themselves.
A really powerful woman knows a truth:
Loving yourself is the beginning of a lifelong romance.
They know that only by loving themselves, respecting themselves, and taking care of themselves can they better love and be loved by others.
end, remember one sentence:
Loving yourself is the beginning of a lifelong romance.
Only when you really love yourself can you love others better and reap true happiness.
I hope that every woman can become a really powerful woman, stay smart and rational in love and marriage, and reap her own happiness.