During the Spring Festival holiday, there is one group of students who are in the most awkward situation, that is, students studying in junior high school or high school. How to say, the children in kindergarten and primary school are still innocent and keen to set off firecrackers for fun; College students have gone through the college entrance examination and successfully "landed", playing mobile phones and games, and parents basically don't say much; Adults who have been busy for a year prefer to play mahjong, play cards, and have dinner parties. Only middle and high school children have a huge pressure of grades and higher education, and the holidays are difficult.
Do your homework, everyone is playing, and you can't concentrate on it; Look at your phone and play games, and you will inevitably face all kinds of nagging from your parents or other elders.
It is important and necessary to pay attention to and care for this group. Undoubtedly, the biggest problem or task of this group is to learn, is there a good solution? Of course. Recently, the villagers of the Lingyuanfang clan in Yingdun Village, Yonghe Town, Jinjiang City, Fujian Province have carried out useful explorations. Yingdun Village invited 17 returning college students from the village to gather with primary and secondary school students in the clan to share and exchange learning experiences.
In terms of time, the "Yingdun Village Lingyuan Fang Outstanding College Students Friendship Symposium" was selected on the first day of the Lunar New Year of the Dragon, which shows the importance of this activity, the village has always advocated reading, has always attached importance to education, and put the children's learning in an important position at the top, which is the fine tradition of Yingdun Village.
To be honest, the vast majority of parents have lost their ability to tutor most homework, and a lot of communication or advice is easy to fall into the way of preaching, coercion, orders and even threats from the elders, which makes the children generally disgusted, and the effect is certainly not better. Even as a university teacher like me, apart from giving some guidance in Chinese and English, I can't help other subjects.
What I mean by this is that only recent college students, older brothers and sisters who have just finished their secondary school careers and entered the university school, can provide substantive guidance and counseling. The brothers and sisters came forward to share relevant experiences and lessons, which were obviously more targeted and more "prescribe the right medicine", so as to "cure the disease".
It is reported that the participants all belong to the Lingyuan house of Yingdun Village, and there are more than 200 households in the Lingyuan Fang clan, and last year, the clan was admitted to a total of more than a dozen college students. In terms of numbers, there are more than 200 households in the Lingyuanfang clan, and there are more than 600 people in an average of 3 people in a family, and the probability that the villagers know or are familiar with each other should not be large. Such friendship activities will undoubtedly allow young people to get to know each other, increase their feelings for each other, and greatly increase the cohesion and sense of identity of the clan.
More importantly, these young people can establish a normalized contact mechanism by forming WeChat groups, QQ groups, etc., and communicate with each other on learning and other issues at any time and in a timely manner.
Yingdun Village is a famous overseas Chinese village in Jinjiang City, and many villagers have gone to the ocean to seek development overseas. Dare to fight, go out, develop outward, and see the world, these qualities have been internalized and rooted in the bones of the people of Yingdun Village, which is reflected in the reading level, which is to encourage children to study hard, take the test, go out, go out, break into the world, and expand the territory.
In addition, Yingdun Village is famous for many private enterprises, and there are dozens of enterprises in the village, such as Shengtai Textile and Shengtai Machinery, covering textile, machinery, clothing, food, papermaking, etc., which can be seen in its ability to stimulate local villagers to find employment in the local area. The economy has improved, the villagers have become rich, and as the so-called "cangli knows etiquette and etiquette", people have paid more and more attention to education.
Of course, there are two details that have room for improvement. First, in terms of communication language, it is advisable to change to Jinjiang dialect instead of Mandarin, the former can be closer to the hometown, so that children, especially school students, do not forget their hometown, understand their hometown, and can speak some basic hometown, which is of great benefit to promoting the cultural traditions of their hometown.
Second, most of the invitees are "outstanding college students" from Peking University, Zhejiang University, Wuhan University and other famous universities, which may be too "tall", the needs of junior and senior high school students are diverse, there are grades, there are also psychological, some people are suitable for college, some people are not suitable for college, maybe the latter may not be able to go to college no matter how hard they work. Therefore, the organizers of the networking activities may wish to invite some so-called "disappointed people" who have not been admitted to university, have already gone to work or have not gone to work, their experiences and experiences, their experiences and lessons, and their experiences and experiences should be helpful to middle school students.
The truth is simple, life is not only one way to go to college, there are other paths; For children, the success stories of their seniors are important, and the lessons of failure are also important.
Text: Yao Huasong.