Breaking up is painful, especially when you're still in love with the person. You may want the other person to change their mind, contact you again, or explain. You may be constantly updating their social ** or calling their** number just to hear from them. You may doubt your own worth, blame yourself for your mistakes, or be unhappy with the indifference of others. You may find yourself stuck in endless thoughts and self-doubts, unable to break free.
However, if you haven't heard from your partner a month after the breakup, it's likely that he or she has completely abandoned your relationship. They may decide that they no longer have any relationship with you, or they may have started a new relationship. They may have erased you from their lives or lowered you to the depths of their memories. The other person may no longer care about your feelings and may not even remember your existence. They may no longer love you or need you.
Of course, it's also possible that the other person just needs time and space to sort out their feelings, or wants to give you a chance to calm down. It's also possible that the other person is still disoriented or waiting for a chance to start over. It's also possible that the other person still misses you or still loves you. However, these are highly unlikely and detrimental to your mental health and emotional growth. If you keep focusing on these possibilities, you may miss out on better opportunities and miss out on your own happiness.
Therefore, if you haven't heard from your partner after a month of breakup, it's best to assume that your partner has broken up completely. You should let go of the other person, let go of the past, let go of expectations, let go of illusions. You need to accept reality, accept yourself, accept change, and accept new beginnings. You should focus on yourself, your present, your future, and your well-being. You need to learn self-love, self-confidence, self-improvement, and freedom. You should believe in yourself, believe in life, believe in love, believe in miracles.
Just because you broke up for a month without speaking, doesn't mean your life is over, and it doesn't mean your love is over. Your life goes on and your love waits.